You see it in the movies and on TV, and here about it all the time in songs.
But what exactly is true love, and how can you tell if you’ve found it?
Hey YouTube, Amy North here.
For those of you who don’t know me I’m a relationship coach from Vancouver, Canada
and author of The Devotion System — a program designed to help women find and lock down
the men of their dreams — and today I want to share with you some signs for telling if
you’ve discover real, true love.
Now, you may have seen some of my other videos that talk about finding “the one” or “signs
that he’s into you,” but this is different.
This is TRUE LOVE we’re talking about after all, but, what exactly is it?
Essentially, true love is an unwavering, unbreaking, incomparable and intense feeling of passion
and devotion for a person.
It’s a connection that runs deeper than merely physical attraction, and instead encompasses
an emotional and spiritual connection.
Simply put, it’s feeling something so strongly for a person that life without them is practically
unimaginable.
But again, how can you tell if what you’re experiencing is true love or just a fleeting
lust or infatuation with someone?
Well, here are eight signs to look for.
1.
You care about him unconditionally.
Through good times and bad, you and your man always come out on top.
You trust each other and would do anything to make one another feel loved.
When you find true love there are no stipulations or strings attached.
You love him from his core, even when he’s moody or not at his best.
Why?
Because you know that the two of you have something special.
2.
You love him for who is he.
When you find true love, you have zero desire to change that person.
You’re proud of who he is as a person and you never worry about introducing him to your
friends or loved ones - in fact, you enjoy doing so because you realize what a prize
you’ve found.
You don’t compare him to others or wish he was more like so-and-so, you love him for
who he is, quirks and all!
For tips on making your man desire you on this level of true love visit my site, www.coachnorth.com
and watch the free video presentation.
There you’ll learn tricks for unlocking that unwavering desire inside any man’s
mind, and my Devotion Sequence, which is a set of words strong enough to make him feel
an emotional connection to you so powerful that his heart will be bound to you and only
you.
Believe me ladies, you don’t want to miss out on this one!
3.
You’re not afraid to truly be you.
They say that true love will bring your walls down… not literally, obviously, but emotionally,
mentally and even spiritually.
This means that when you find true love you’ll be willing to share yourself fully and completely
with your man.
You won’t worry about trying to impress or win him over, and you won’t have to think
before you speak or act.
Of course this doesn’t mean you should just say whatever you want whenever you want, but
rather that you’ll be able to simply be yourself without over-thinking your every
word and move.
Best of all, once you let him into your world you’ll have someone to share all your funny
little thoughts and ideas with, your dreams and goals.
4.
You stick to your word.
Not only do you mean what you say and say what you mean, but when you make a promise
to your man to stick to your word.
In fact, the idea of letting him down is just about as devastating as a worldly apocalypse
to you.
Even if you know that he’ll never find out the truth, the idea of lying to him or betraying
your man is unthinkable to you.
Why?
Because your moral conscious is strong when it comes to him, to the point where the idea
of letting him down means letting yourself down, too.
When you feel this way, well that’s true love.
5.
You respect one another completely.
When you find true love you’ll have a relationship where you respect each other the utmost.
Now, this doesn’t mean that you’ll agree on every single thing, but rather that when
you don’t see eye to eye, you’ll do so in a mature and gracious manner.
You won’t call names, put one another down or belittle each other’s opinions.
You care about each other too much to do that.
Instead, you’ll learn how to argue in a way that is constructive and kind.
After all, you will never want to be the reason your lover is upset.
6.
Your happiness feeds off one another.
This doesn’t mean that you depend on each other to be happy, but rather that seeing
your loved one makes you happy too.
Be careful with this one, so many people confuse the two.
Being able to embrace your loved one’s happiness and make it your own is a very special sign
that you’ve found true love.
Why?
Because it means that their happiness and well being is just as important to you as
your own.
So if you’re feeding off one another’s happiness then that’s a sure sign you’ve
found something remarkable.
7.
You’re willing to make sacrifices for each other.
Now, this doesn’t mean that you should trade in all your dreams for his, but rather if
you’re willing to make small sacrifices for one another, then that’s true love.
Maybe this means ordering a veggie pizza because he doesn’t eat meat, or perhaps it means
hanging out with his friend who you don’t particularly like... but you do so because
you know it’s important to him.
It’s these little sacrifices that make a difference when it comes to love and relationships.
If you’re willing to do things for one another that you wouldn’t normally do, that’s
a sign that you’ve found true love.
8.
You’re a team.
You know you can depend on each other to be the person who cheers you up, loves you unconditionally
and is your best friend.
You trust one another completely and can say absolutely anything about him, knowing that
it’s free of judgement.
You’re patient and kind, loving and forgiving.
In other words, you’re the dream team.
When you find true love you’ll not only think for yourself, but for your partner,
too.
Your future plans will involve one another and you’ll consider each other’s wants
and needs as well as your own.
Don’t mistaken this for losing your own individual interests and lives, because you’ll
still have those, but you’ll want to be apart of one another’s as well.
That’s what true love is all about, so once you find it, hold onto it and embrace it — it’s
rarer than most of us tend to realize.
Well there you have it, eight signs of true love.
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