hey this is Damon Cart from NLP gym just wrapped a weekend of
practitioner training got seven more weekends to go got some awesome students
I'm just relaxing a little bit at the Santa Cruz Beach here's an excerpt from
the training from the introduction of the training hope you enjoy it and if
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you'd like some free NLP training what I realized is that NLP is not my purpose
it is not my calling and I don't think it's really anybody's purpose or calling
unless you're talking about Bandler and Grinder because they created it NLP is a
technology that will help you get find your purpose and get clear about what
you want and make that happen and the more that I do this the more that I
trained in NLP bit deeper I can go in it what I'm starting to realize is that
it's really about understanding want and desire and an NLP we have what we call
the protein state and this is that state of wanting this is that state of not
having what I want and then the desired state
whatever I started learning NLP I was like whoa I don't want to desire to
state I want the thing because I don't want the way money makes me feel I want
money I don't want the way their car makes me feel I want the car like I
don't know that I don't want to pretend or I don't want to do myself into
believing I have something that I don't have is that's what it sounded like to
maybe like I don't want the state I want the thing and they're telling me this
well you know when you locate the resource then this puts it all into
place and now you feel whole again and then you feel good and I'm like wow you
know I still want to think like don't tell me I can't have it I don't you know
I don't want to make myself feel be to the point where like I don't want
anything no I want this I need this I need to provide for my family the more I
get into this or the more I study NLP the more I realize that yeah that's this
is absolutely true we don't want things we want things that we think will put us
in a certain state what we want is a state and what it's all leading to it is
a state of wholeness and fulfillment because when we feel whole and we've
been we built fulfilled there's nothing really to want but it doesn't mean that
want necessarily goes away it doesn't mean you're inactive and that was the
other thing that I was afraid of what if what if I put myself and not hold
fulfilled state am I just going to sit at home and eat potato chips and that's
actually a unconscious fear of a lot of people they're afraid sometimes to give
a dick one because they think once they get it that it's over and they don't do
anything and in my experience that is so not the case so not true so you know
here's whatever we want is its money and I went to film school in art school
hmm it's this state we want the state that this is what we think this is going
to put us in and that's also the value that's also here intent
so what we're actually looking for are certain states here's the funny thing
so here's you you're in your present state and you're wanting something you
want this and which you're you start to realize that it's really about wanting
to be in that state then what starts to happen is you realize this state of
desire the state of want is also a projection and I'm projecting onto this
object what I think this will give me and this is the same for relationships I
want to say it's just objects because sometimes we want relationship with that
man or that woman and we think that that's going to give us something that
we don't have so this desired state we project onto our reality and that's a
state of lack and when you realize this and you realize okay well what an
identify with this state is what resource I need to be in this state and
then realize that if I can project that onto this object or even to something
intangible like the relationship the only way I can do that is that if that
is inside of me so what I'm doing is I'm creating this illusion that this thing
is over there when really the only way that can be over there is if it's here
and if you're not even if you're not sure about that and you want to you
haven't done you're saying no this can't be true well think about it like this if
that weren't true that means objects would have their own inherent value
independent of us and that's impossible if it were true then we would all want
the same things and we would all value the same thing
based on the objects instead of how our valuation of it is so I hope I'm blowing
your minds a little bit I know I'm not going here so just like you oh yeah it's
good most of what you're absolutely that's good so because I want it I want
to challenge the way that you're thinking about this and what I'm also
proposing is that NLP is the way to really truly embody this and sort this
out for yourselves and create this for you and this is I believe in this
technology of leaders is the technology of being able to do this and here's a
really interesting thing that happens when you're able to so in this case some
value and an estate and value and intent is all I'm using that interchangeably
when you can recognize that you're projecting this value into something
that in that projection you must embody that value and you can
use NLP to bring that value that resource next state that intent back to
you and embody that integrating into who you are strange thing happens is that
lots of times you would track that object anyway it's That moment when you
give up on on wanting that thing and you realize even though I gave up on it I
feel good I feel fine I'm okay I'm still breathing actually I'm still happy and I
don't have that thing and then suddenly it comes slamming into you and you
didn't even try to make it happen have you had that experience before I know
I've had it many times the reason is you've given that back to yourself you
are that whole you are not creating this illusion that it's over there you bring
it back to yourself and then it's much easier to get the thing no no no is does
that happen I mean I could always bring that to yourself it sometimes happens
that sometimes stuff doesn't but it's always amazing to me when I stopped
trying when I'm out of that state of black I'm not projecting lack anymore
that that thing comes to and I didn't even tries to look at
anyone try you all are here because you want something I can imagine showed up
here if you didn't want something and so take a moment to think about that and
wanting to learn NLT it's not really NLP that you want to learn you want to learn
NLP in order to do something to have something to be something and after
everything I just that I just sit here then what is it you're projecting on the
NLP what is it you're projecting on me that brought you here because I assure
you is already in you and what we're going to do over the next eight months
is code that and find out how you're doing that to begin with and then when
you know how you're doing that then you can take it back to yourself
and you can own that and you can be that and then when you're in that whole
unified fulfilled state possibilities are endless I mean really literally
endless what it can becomes not what can you do it becomes what can you not do I
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