Is it different? Change the memory that
erase the memory or block the memory.
What is the difference?
Good question. Alright, so here's the difference.
First of all, you have to understand the
ground rules. A memory is recorded on
your cortex. It's not the real experience
first.
secondly, inside the memory, it has
components that make it seem real, which
is, you have visual construction,
kinesthetics feelings, auditory
construction and maybe taste and smell.
So a good example, I should really
demonstrate a good example.
Hmm, I usually do this when I when I
teach about addictions, I will bring in
crackers, chips. Everybody will take chips.
Now everybody knows that a cracker is
when you taste it and smell it, it's real.
I mean it's real. But I can demonstrate
it and we can work to end it that
cracker changes flavor, taste and smell
with tapping. Alright?
The reason is is that our brain gives
meaning to it. So if you address a memory,
you're addressing how you encoded in
your mind. That means it's not the real
memory, it's a distorted recording. So you
go to the actual memory and you change
how its internalized represented. And if
you have, let's see how I draw this. if
you have a memory, let's say this is a
memory and it's encoded in the way it's
encoded. Alright, if you have, okay, this is
this is how your brain works.
This is a memory. This memory is who you
think you are,
it's an experience. And let's say it's a
bad experience like, I feel rejected in
the band because this experience.
You don't want to feel abandoned and
rejected in your life.
So what you want? So what what people
will do is they will try to find what
you call an alternative.
Alright? So then what they do is, I go
find another a positive memory.
Alright. So now here it is, your brain has
two memories now, a positive one and a
negative one. You will not change your
behaviours by having two, because in order
for the brain to have better performance,
you've got to have the original to be
changed.
That means if you can't have a replacement,
you got to have to change the original.
Now by the way your original is not the
original. You understand what I said?
Because how your brain encoder encoded
it, wrote it down in your mind is based
on your perceptions at the time your
filters and so if you have two learnings
here, two ways of performing, your brain
will say which one? In order to to have a
new behavior, a new way of performance,
you must change this one. All changes
whether you cycle therapy, hypnotherapy,
massage therapy,
EFT therapy, TFT therapy or any type of
therapies, the only way changes will
occur, as if you take the bad and the
good, and they have to fire off and
change the bad. Neurologically if you
have two, your brain can pick either one,
but if you take a bad and good feeling
and they fire off at the same time, it'll
dissipate and can change the bad
performance. So if you have a bad memory,
and you say I don't want to look at it,
and I want to be positive.
Where is the bad memory while you're
trying to be positive? Still there. If you
ignore your bad memories and pretend
like they're not there,
where are they? Still there.
If you swim to the bottom of the sea to
avoid your bad feelings, where are they?
At the bottom of the sea.
neurologically, you've got to change the
information inside the memory itself. Now
why do people do not want to change the
memory? That's the biggest and major
reason and the problem we have. And the
reason is, this memory has value. This
memory has connections with people,
places, things and security. And if you
choose not to change your bad memories,
you're actually choosing to keep
experiencing the same bad feelings
because if you look at it from a logical
practical way, your brain is just a
computer. It's just a computer. This bad
memory is a program on how to feel bad,
act bad, date people who are bad and work
for bad people. And I feel bad every time
I go there. So if you look at your brain
this way, then you say, okay, it's okay to
change the bad memories. The good thing
about change the bad memories,
it does not change the past.
Why? It doesn't exist.
It doesn't exist. The problem is that we
carry our past today, we use our past to
make us feel bad today and perform badly.
So what happens if I go to this memory?
This memory wherever my dad memory is, my
dad memory, if I don't change the bad
memory, does it take the original event?
No. What does it change? It changes me.
It changes my value system. It changes
how I act and treat myself and other
people. Now if your value comes from
being a worthless piece of shit, guilty,
have no value,
you don't want to screw up your value
system. That's where the conflict starts
happening when if you change the bad
memories, the question is who am I going
to be? And I say better
off. See this is where the problem is. And
this is, when I started working and I mean
comes again remember, mean I don't come
from cycle therapy. I did study some when I
was a kid. I did take psychology 101
and I passed, made a B.
Okay? So but my study is not in college,
because see people who are in the in the
medical field and in the psychological
field and any all these other fields,
they're trained and taught from an angle
and a viewpoint. And the viewpoint they
are taught was all they know. and of
course you know we got good people in
these fields who really want to help
people. They made straight A's in college.
But if they've been taught one thing to
see things in a certain way, it's hard to
see outside the paradigm. Because it's
breaking the rules. And so what I have
done is, I created my system based on
many systems, to look at things in a
logical practical way, and make it simple
and easy to use. And unfortunately,it
does clash with belief systems because
this is a belief system too, but I think
it's a practical logical systems say,
look at your brain,
look how you do it, change how you do it,
your life changes. Is that make sense? In
order to give your brain a new change, a
new way of performing, you must collapse
the bad and turn it into good. Then
you'll have a good memory. There's a
good video on internet, I use it in my
training, is called memory
reconsolidation. And he basically
shares what I've been doing for years.
And as reprinting changing memory, memory
reconsolidation, you can look it up. I
don't know the video number, I just know
that's what it's called.
Alright, so ,so you must change the
original. Reason why you don't want to
change, because you have values inside
the original. That's why. You gotta change
the value system.
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