texting isn't easy even the most charismatic guys can sometimes text like
a brick in the wall even if they like you if they're not always great at
communicating in a way and conversations can grind to a halt leaving you
wondering what to say next there are plenty guys out there that
couldn't pick up a signal with a satellite dish and how can you flirt
when you can't smile touch his arm or bat your eyelashes at him I've put
together some text that you can copy and paste that will get even the densest
guys to wake up and notice you plus keep watching and I'll tell you the time of
day that you should never text guys if you want them to ask you out if this is
your first time watching my videos I'm Amy north a relationship coach from
Vancouver Canada and tayden dating today almost always begins with texting in
some form so I'm going to share with you some text that I've developed that will
be sure to get your flirting game to the next level with that tough to text guy
so if you like this advice like and subscribe because I have plenty more
videos coming very soon number one the teasing text teasing is a great way to
create some tension in your texting seduction requires a bit of back and
forth so being super direct isn't always the best move you want to keep the
conversation going by keeping him on his toes about whether or not you're into
him that's why teasing can be a great tool in your arsenal this is a response
for when he tells you something about himself that is neither good nor
necessarily bad say he's a fan of a particular sports team he likes beer
over wine he does CrossFit whatever he shares you reply with that's why we can
never date for example oh your trauma me believes fan that's why we could never
date this is a playful way to subconsciously introduce the idea of
dating but make sure it's something that isn't negative if he opens up to you
about his parents divorce and you say that's why we can never date then you're
going to be staring at a blank screen another way to word this is I'm so out
of your league for example you've never seen Space Jam
I knew I was out of your league see how it can be playful and fun was still
moving the relationship forward those will also put him into a state of
competition where he'll be trying to prove himself to you without even
realizing it it may seem like a rejection but if done right it won't
feel that way if you're worried about him taking it seriously consider
including winking emoji to show him that you're
messing around number two the compliment text this is a great copy and paste text
and that's a little cheeky it will boost him up while also making you look
confident you open with this I think we'll get along I like a man with good
taste and I can tell you have it when he asks the obvious question how can you
tell I have good taste you said back because you're texting me this text
works because it shows that you have a sense of humor and that you're sure of
yourself and that you think he's interested and open about it without
being too obvious about it number three the challenging text pick something you
know he's good at many men are competitive and have a game skill or
hobby they excel at figure out your guy's interest and fill in the blank on
the following text you seem to be pretty good at blank but you've never faced me
for example you seem to be pretty good at darts but you've never faced me the
power of this text is that it suggests the idea of the two of you spending time
together in real life but it's also a joke so it's not too confrontational and
still gives him the upper hand challenging him in something he's good
at is playful because it makes him feel like he's a big shot just don't think
something you think you can actually beat him at save that for the second
date men thrive on competition and if you challenge them it will get their
blood pumping and make them associate you with achievement and fun if you're
looking for more text to get them hooked on you check out Amy NORTHCOM slash
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chemistry program I've spent years studying how to make a man hooked on you
using text alone and I've created a powerful ebook that will teach you all
of my foolproof methods number four the quirky question text this is one that
works because it gets him thinking it forces him to respond and it surprises
him being spontaneous and keeping him guessing is something that works well
early on in a relationship if he thinks he knows exactly what you're going to
say next then he's going to get bored here are a couple examples where do you
see yourself in five beers would you rather fight one horse-sized duck or a
hundred duck-sized horses if these questions seem silly it's because they
are they're designed to make them giggle and give themselves give him something
to respond to another one that you can use if you're feeling more comfortable
is what's your favorite place to go when
you're feeling lost this one works for the kind of guy who likes
self-reflection artists writers and deep thinkers this question requires the kind
of guy who can be vulnerable so use with caution but displaying the ability to be
sensitive and open to exploring that side of things without judgment can be a
real source of attraction for the right guy the trick with these texts is that
they invite an unexpected answer and will fuel a conversation going forward
while also making you seem interesting and interested in what he has to say
that's a pretty powerful for one single text number five the name text this one
is less of a copy and paste text but it's powerful trigger that'll get him
interested in you without realizing it use his name in a text this works
because it's something we rarely do in conversation and especially a text this
means it will catch his eye it also instantly makes the conversation more
personal and focused this can turn an ordinary text on its head and give him a
little burst of good feelings without quite knowing why be careful not to
overuse his name though it'll lose its power and make him feel like he's
talking to a used car salesman at the beginning of this video I promised you
that I would tell you the times not to text a guy if you want him to ask you
out the answer is first thing in the morning and after 11:00 p.m. the late
night text is more obvious you want to avoid the kind of conversations that
only happen late at night because they can lead to some more sexy situations
this isn't necessarily a bad thing but if you're looking for a relationship you
need to make him work a little bit it's a texting late at night right away may
send the wrong message the first thing in the morning text is the office for
the opposite reason it makes it seem like you're too serious or like he's the
first thing you think about when you wake up a good morning text is for
boyfriend and grandparents and this guy is neither of those just yet plus how
good are your texts going to be before you've had a coffee and a bagel keep it
until after lunch is a general rule to avoid coming on too strong there you
have it five flirty texts that will get the conversation going
build his interest and create the pleasing tension that will move things
forward what's the best out of the blue text you've ever Center received leave
it in the comments below and maybe a feature in my next video
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