My dear elegant ladies, what's the secret to being so irresistible,
even if you look just unattractive by today's
beauty standards?
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Ladies, the truth is that you don't need to be born naturally pretty,
and you don't have to look like a potential beauty queen
in order to stand out
from the masses and really be that woman that makes head turn.
But there are secrets on how to make that happen,
even if you are not conventionally what society says, beautiful.
Point number one.
So before I get into the deep substance of the subject,
I need to get one shallow point off the way. Sorry, ladies.
And this one, actually, I've seen quite a lot of. So, you know,
non-traditional beautiful women can actually position themselves as
incredibly attractive if they have a killer body.
Yes. And when I say killer body,
it can be a body that is set to our cultural standards as beautiful,
whatever that may be in your culture. Because the truth is ladies,
even if one person is not born with traditionally what our
society calls, beautiful features,
any person out there still has the power and control over
improving the cards that they were dealt with genetically,
simply by taking action and improve their looks.
You don't have to necessarily go into plastic surgery and start proving your face.
You can actually just focused on improving your body.
And by that,
usually what really works if we're talking in the Western culture is to really
work on looking fit,
healthy and toned because that does raise the attractive factor.
But like I said, ladies,
it's important to take your own culture into account because we all have
different standards of what's considered beautiful.
So this might not be applicable for your culture,
but I'm speaking about the Western culture.
Now to move away from the shallow point a bit,
we need to talk about maybe perhaps
the ultimate ingredients of what makes a person pop.
You see,
I'm talking about what adds the ultimate wow factor.
And I think that many of us know the secret by now and that's confidence, ladies.
But you see,
confidence is what will give you that little edge,
maybe perhaps the most important tool that every lady out there should have
because people are always attracted to those with confidence.
Because those confident people, they just simply tend to be more relaxed,
more themselves, and are easier to be around.
So regardless of how you look,
if you project yourself as this kind of, let's say shy, grain mouse,
you instantly be less desirable and less interesting to
have around. But confidence, ladies, confidence is sexy.
Really, I'm serious.
What's sexier than a woman who's comfortable in her own skin
and knows her worth?
So how do we become more confident?
Now this can be an ongoing journey in your life.
It's not something that just happens overnight.
I personally believe that it's all about accepting yourself,
not strive for perfectionist, accept your flaws,
and really become comfortable with your flaws,
with how you really are and that you don't have to play a role in order to
please the image you want to have of yourself or to please others.
Now, point number three is all about femininity.
Like you heard me talk many times on this channel,
but in particularly applying and understanding your feminine style.
Now, what do I mean by that? Well, first of all, ladies,
what comes naturally to you as the character that you are?
Is it to be the bubbly and charming little girl or to be more the quiet,
mysterious woman who is a little bit standoffish,
or maybe you are more kind of a nurturing and caring one who always sends out
this really motherly feel good energy?
Now these three are just examples of some of the many different
characteristic styles that exist within femininity.
And I want you to really take this into account because there isn't just one way
of being feminine and you can be feminine in the format that actually suits
your personality without having to reduce your personality and
who you really are.
So point number three is actually very much about allowing your femininity to
really shine through your personality. You see,
because femininity is such a great superpower that us women are
blessed with having,
but unfortunately, our current society keeps suffocating this
femininity and looking at it as something to be ashamed of,
or that it's something weak. So instead,
women step into their masculinity and that is being celebrated.
So we are moving away from femininity in our society,
meaning that it becomes rare and rare so that when we actually
see a feminine woman, she stands out.
And if you really add a psychological factor to it,
you're going to notice that men will never turn down
a feminine woman. Now, feminine style is one thing,
but what about your elegant style personality?
Who are you in the fashion department?
Do you really know what style you belong to? Well, ladies,
no need to wait no more because I have actually
created a fun style personality quiz where you can find out if your style
is on the feminine, seductive or conservative side,
or maybe you are more of a total fashionista. Ladies, go to
StylePersonalityQuiz.com
and take this quiz because good news,
it's absolutely free.
Point number four, ladies.
Be positive,
turn that frown upside down and start looking more like this,
instead of like this.
Ladies, I'm serious. Enough for the drama,
enough with the bad vibes and enough with the bad attitude, the negativity.
Overall, being that person who looks one big dark cloud,
always looks at the dark side instead of the bright side,
I really want you to be the little miss sunshine as much as you can.
So recently, I got introduced to a friend of a friend who was exactly like,
I just described to you anything but positive and happy.
And even though that person did say positive things sometimes,
everything that person said sounded also negative and
so bothersome somehow.
And I know that some of you ladies have shared with me in the comments before
that you might have an appearance that make you look a little bit more negative,
let's say because of certain facial features or something else in your
appearance that you simply cannot really control. And you know what? I get it.
Some people do look like they're angry or negative,
even if it's the total opposite.
But the thing is that you need to then work extra hard to fix that by
really being aware that, okay,
I know that I come across this way and now I have to really switch up the
positivity, an extra notch compared to other people,
because through this canvas, it doesn't shine through otherwise.
And the thing is ladies is that positivity attract people so much and negativity
just repel people.
So this is why you really need to start thinking about
what thoughts you put in here,
meaning that are you choosing happy thoughts
or are you choosing negative thoughts?
This is probably the mere basics, but also like things such as,
how often do you smile? Do you really smile enough?
Can you try and smile more often? How is your body language?
Also ladies in conversation,
do you choose negative topics to talk about like gossip drama,
or just say that that person is ugly,
this one is a bad one or do you choose positive conversation topics?
What's important is that you try and find light even at the darkest moments or
in any moments, really. If you are just looking for the negative everywhere,
you never going to be a positive person.
So start by practicing this because your life trust me is going to change
dramatically when you start to choose a more positive approach to life,
rather than the negative. Last point,
point number five. Ladies,
I want you to be that unapologetic, unbothered attitude
because it's a people magnet. You see,
when people are themselves, just themselves, just chilling, just busy
pursuing their goals and living their best life,
that energy is so contagious and so interesting because
people want to be around it.
I have seen plenty of plain average looking women who have so many people,
especially men running after them because they have this attitude.
They don't chase anyone.
They're not in the slightest bit desperate for attention or male company.
They just do themselves. They set boundaries ladies
and they live accordingly.
What matters is your attitude and that's what's going to attract people
because the wow factor can easily wear off,
but your character and your charm,
and your charisma and the way you just are is what's going to make
people want to be with you and give you opportunities and want to be friends,
want to be in a relationship with you, et cetera. And ladies,
there are plenty of other ways on how you can be irresistible and I shared those
in my next videos, five ways you can be so irresistible,
he'll never want to leave. I will see you in that video.