Hey there, Adam LoDolce from SexyConfidence.com where I help the 21st century woman create
the love life that she absolutely loves.
And in this video right now I'm going to be talking about the 9 personality traits that
men deeply, deeply want in a woman.
Keep watching.
Look, we all have negative personality traits, myself definitely included.
I can be really irritable, slightly arrogant at times, definitely can be a sarcastic ****, and
absolutely very stubborn.
Now, those are things that I'm constantly working on.
Some of them are a little bit harder to work on than others, as you might imagine.
But I've also found that rather than always trying to focus on removing the negative traits
it's sometimes even easier to just work on improving our positive traits, the personality
traits that we're kind of drawn to, and trying to constantly focus on improving those.
So for this week I've compiled 9 personality traits that you can actively work on and by
doing so, you'll not only be a better person in life but you'll also be more attractive
to men.
Because, as you know, although your physical beauty may be why the guy approached you,
your personality is what's going to keep him talking to you.
So here are those 9 personality traits that men are just drawn to.
1.
The first one is your sense of humor.
If you don't have a favorite comedian, then you do not have a sense of humor.
Go to Netflix, go to Spotify, whatever you've got to do.
Watch or listen to a few comedians.
Find some comedians that you really relate to and develop a sense of humor.
Please don't be a serious Sally on our first date.
I remember once I went on a first date with a woman, and this was, like, very early on
in my YouTube career.
And I was telling her that, you know, I was creating a YouTube dating advice channel and
there's going to be some humor involved.
And I remember she stops me right in my tracks of what I was saying and she said, "Woah,
dating is way too serious for any jokes."
And at that very moment I knew that it was not going to work out.
It is impossible to flirt without laughter, to develop that sense of humor and have a
little bit of fun wit hit.
2.
The second one is agreeableness.
When 2 people start dating it just becomes necessary to become a little bit more go with
the flow.
If you're always trying to fight every single thing, then you're never going to make it
in a relationship.
Of course there's going to be one person who's probably a little bit stronger than the other
person, and that's perfectly natural.
But at times, coming from a strong person myself, you just have to be agreeable and
just go with the flow even if you don't want to.
3.
Number three is opinionated.
Now, this is almost kind of the opposite of the last point whereas like, you know, you
want to be agreeable but you also want to have opinions.
Right?
Be proud of your thoughts.
And... of course, within reason, you know, have some fact behind your opinions and your
thoughts.
But educate yourself and have something to say.
Right?
A guy's going to get bored of you, he's not going to want to stay with you if you don't
have those opinions, if you don't bring anything to the table.
No guy wants to just date a yes woman.
4.
Number four is kindness.
Hey, what's going on?
My name's Adam.
I don't have any change for you, get out of here.
Be nice to people.
There's no reason to be like that.
Keep a smile on your face, you know, you're going to get approached by some creepers in
your life.
Understandable.
But that doesn't mean you have to be an ass to every other guy who comes up with genuinely
good interest.
5.
Number five is intelligence.
If you find a guy who is actually scared of your intelligence, then scare him away.
Scare the living shit out of him.
You don't want to be with a guy who is scared of an intelligent woman.
If you're intelligent, then find a guy who matches your level of intelligence.
Easy enough.
6.
Number six is having great character.
The way a guy will truly judge you and the relationship is not necessarily based on when
things are going really well in your life, it's when things aren't going very well and
how it is that you react to those things.
So having great character means that, you know what?
You have a strong sense of self and you have a strong ability to react well to kind of
bad situations.
7.
Number seven is being affectionate.
Look, men need some love too, ok?
8.
Number eight is independence.
Look, of course we want to be with a woman who is very affectionate and who's always
there for us, but at the same time, a lot of men also want to have their space to live
their own life.
So if you can really balance those two things you're really going to be... and, of course,
live your own life and create an amazing life outside of the relationship, you're going
to be able to draw men in even more and it's going to really enhance every part of the
relationship.
9.
And number nine finally is confidence.
Confidence, of course, is you believing in yourself and your value because if you don't
believe in your own value then there's no way that he will.
So there you have it, the 9 personality traits that men deeply want in a woman.
I'm curious from you, have I missed any?
Leave a comment right there below.
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