Hey, what's going on? Tripp Kramer here from Tripp Advice.com. Today we are going to talk about how
to know if she wants to sleep with you. I must say, no matter what, you need to get consent.
This goes without saying. Whether or not you're getting these signs, you always have to ask for
consent. I know a lot of guys, they comment on this, they say, "That's super lame. I don't want
to do. That's gonna kill the vibe." Trust me, it's not going to kill the vibe. And why would you want
to risk killing the vibe if you're with a woman who's not interested? Either way, you're going
to get some signs here that's going to get you to the point that you can actually ask for consent,
considering that you think that she'll be interested in sleeping with you. Why do you
want to learn this first of all? You need to learn this because if you understand if she's interested
in sleeping with you, well then you're going to be able to take your shot. You don't want to miss the
chance. I feel like a lot of guys, they are too scared to go for it. Or even to get to the point
where they can even ask for consent because they don't want to get rejected. And I understand that
the fear of rejection is tough. But if you've made it this far, then you have to go for it. If you're
on the date and then you end up taking her home, this is a must. Here's one obvious sign that she
is interested in sleeping with you. This doesn't happen too often. But when it does,
pay attention to it. Is she asking to go back to her place or yours? Is she the one who is leading
back to a place where you guys can actually sleep together? If that's the case, there's a very good
chance that that's what she wants to do. Here's what you have to understand. Women are not usually
dominant in this situation. What that means is they're not usually leading the interaction.
One of the reasons is, is because she's waiting for a masculine man to do it, because that's one
of the masculine traits is leading dominance. But also you have to understand that women are
constantly monitoring their social standing. Meaning, they don't want to be perceived as a
slut. That is one of the worst things that a woman can be perceived as. She does not
want that. The standards in our society... and I believe it's going to be this way for a long time,
even though it's a shame, that women are seen as slutty if they're easy to sleep with.
That does not look good for her in front of women or men. She does not want to be perceived as
a slut. This is one of the reasons that she's not going to be sleeping with you,
technically and per se, that fast. As fast as compared to maybe a guy might sleep with
a woman. That's one of the reasons why she's not doing it that fast. But also,
that's one of the reasons why she's letting you lead. That's why if there's an opportunity,
or there's a moment, when she's taking the opportunity to say, "Hey, come back to my place?"
or "Hey, I want to see your place" that could be a potential sign. There might be some other signs,
but I didn't want to give you all the little subtle signs, because I think it's just too "who
knows?". That's why I'm going to give you two more hardcore ones. I just gave you one. Another one
is when you guys are together, and most likely back at your place or her place, or even if you're
in your car, or if you're waiting for an Uber and you guys are kissing and she's into it, like
gets passionate... meaning, it's not like you're trying to move forward and she's leaning back.
But she's pushing herself into you. She's kissing you very hard. She's getting close to you. She's
using your hand, she's grabbing your hair, she's holding you, she's scratching you, any of that
physical assertion is going to be a very big sign that she wants to sleep with you. And I have to
always interrupt myself here because I gotta be careful – still with these signs, consent is a
must. But if she's doing that, that is a very big sign that she wants to get more physical with you,
that she likes you, she's very attracted to you and that she's turned on in that moment. So you
know she's going to be turned on if she's grabbing you and trying to completely destroy your bones.
If she's doing this, know that now it's up to you to make that next move – to bring it to a location
where you guys can get more physical, more intimate, and then have this opportunity to then
ask for consent and then you guys will be sleeping together. If you want to know, by the way,
how to ask for consent, it's very simple. All you have to do is say "Hey, I want to make sure
that this is something you want to do. Should I go get a condom? Do you want to have sex?"
That's it. I wouldn't ask that question until you guys are having some clothes off and you're close
to that point. It shouldn't be in a moment where you guys are just having some wine and
hanging out and then you say it. Obviously that is going to be more out of context. It should be
within the context of something sexual happening. And then that's when you ask for consent. Now,
there's something you should understand here. I know I gave you the two different signs. But
you also have to understand how to proceed in this whole situation. Even though there are signs here,
there's a bigger part to this that's very important for you to learn. And it's this idea of
compliance. This is not consent. This is something completely different. This is compliance. I want
to teach you the formula for this, because this is the most important formula when it comes down to
getting to the point that you want with a woman and escaping the friend-zone and being
more of a sexual entity with her than anything else. I'm gonna teach you this formula right now.
But before I get into that, I just want to tell you, I want to thank all of you guys
for watching this channel for so long. I've been putting out videos for gosh, I think like
10 years now. Yeah, actually 10 years. It will be 10 years in August. Thank you,
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Also, if you're interested in receiving coaching... I know a lot of guys don't know,
and have no idea at all that this channel is also to help get you into a coaching program. This is
one of the videos that tells you some information and if you need more help, because sometimes just
watching videos doesn't get you to that point, you can join a coaching program, working with myself
or one of the coaches at Tripp Advice. And there's a link, I'll put it down in the description below,
Coached by Tripp.com. That is a link to apply for coaching. I just had a client who worked with
one of the Tripp Advice coaches, and he ended up getting a girlfriend in six weeks. I kid you not.
It was incredible. He was a guy who was divorced, had kids, and in six weeks, he had so many options
of women, he ended up picking one and getting a girlfriend. That's just one of the amazing stories
out of hundreds of the guys who have worked with Tripp Advice. If you need help and want to get to
the next level go to www.coachedbytripp.com and apply today. The formula for compliance is this:
attraction + comfort = compliance. This is one of my biggest aha's that I had when I was learning
all this stuff. Attraction plus comfort equals compliance. Why am I teaching you that formula
in this video? Because everything that you're doing is about compliance. You're the one
who's leading, so you're approaching, you're swiping, you're starting the conversation,
you're asking her on a date, you're going for the kiss, you're bringing her to your place, you're
sleeping with her. All these are little forms of compliance. She's complying to your requests.
You need to build attraction and you need to build comfort. Building attraction is talked
about on many videos here. It's also taught my coaching program. Building comfort is about her
making her feel comfortable around you so you guys are spending a little bit of time together
before she's going to comply. But of course, it's not just about building comfort, because if you're
just doing that you're in the friend-zone so you have to build attraction. I'm talking about that
in this video because her and you guys sleeping together is a form of compliance. It's that next
step of her going, "Yes, I want to do this. Yes, I want to take this next step with you. Yes, I want
to comply to your requests." That's all it is. That's the whole process of seduction. And you can
only get to that point if you're building comfort and building attraction. Hopefully you understand
that. One of the biggest forms of compliance, or I should say one of one of the more important steps
of compliance if you want to get her back to your place, is asking her back to your place. I know a
lot of guys struggle with this. Make sure... and here's your homework for when you're on a date,
first, second, third date, somewhere in there, and you want to get her back to your place...
you can literally just say, "Hey, let's continue hanging. Why don't you come back to my place?"
You can just say that. Of course there are some smoother ways of doing it. Maybe have a
vinyl player. Maybe you have... I don't know... some other music to listen to.
Maybe you have a bottle of wine that you've been saying saving. Maybe there's another
cocktail. Maybe there's something you guys were talking about that you want to show her.
I want you to be okay with getting rejected but still putting yourself out there to ask her to
come back to your place. You can say either one of those that I mentioned, a reason to go back,
or if you don't have any at all, just say, "Hey, let's continue hanging out." And that's the step
of compliance to get to the point where you guys are back at your place. I hope that helps. If
you need more help Coached By Tripp.com. Go there immediately. Fill out an application to work with
myself or one of the coaches. We'll help you get to the point when this process is easy for you.