Thanks to everyone that listened, I told you I would be back, and I
have quite a bit to tell you guys.
Well, as you know, I did have my divorce attorney file for divorce and she was
served with divorce papers, but, that night when I went to my sister's, I
thought for sure she would blow up my phone, but, to my surprise, she didn’t.
Remember, she has all this credit card debt, commercial real estate loans and
student loan debt totaling about $600,000 and I was helping her pay down those
credit cards and those other loans.
But, her dad the insurance broker and who owns a bunch of insurance locations
was helping her out quite a bit.
When I found out she was having an affair with the cardiologist
that was it for me.
So, after being away from my house for almost 2 days without hearing any thing
from my wife, AFTER she was served with the divorce papers, I told my sister
that, and she too, thought that was odd.
Well, the third day was approaching, so, one day after work, I drive home
and ask my sister can I use her car?
She asks why?
I told her, we have been married for 18 years, and my wife was served with divorce
papers, and I haven’t been home for almost 3 days, you figure she would try
to call me or something, but, she hasn’t.
My sister goes over to the dining room table and gets
the keys and gives them to me.
So, I head out to my place, but, I had to find a place to park without being
seen, I wanted to stake out my own house to see if I could see anything,
remember, I told the private investigator I didn’t need him any more, but, the
fact that she wasn’t calling me after being served, I just couldn’t shake it.
I pull up to my street, and pull into a driveway of a vacant house that’s
for sale, I was lucky, because, a few days ago, this house wasn’t for sale.
But, from this location, I could see my home.
I park and wait; I push the seat back just enough to see
the cars coming down my street.
About 7:40 PM, I notice my wife driving down the street, and she is on her
phone, she doesn’t notice me at all, she hasn’t seen my sister’s car.
She pulls into the driveway and gets out and goes into the house.
About 20 minutes later, I notice another car driving down the street
and it’s a guy, to my surprise, he pulls into our driveway, gets out,
didn’t even knock, just goes right in.
My heart is racing, so, I get out, run down to my house, and, slowly make
my way to the back of the house to see if I can see any thing, I come up
on the back porch, there is a column you can hide behind, so, I make it
to that without being seen, I slowly take a peek and notice they are on the
couch kissing, I take out my phone and take a small video and some pictures.
After taking the photos and the video, I slowly make my way back to the front of
the house so I can make it to the car.
I get to the car and drive back to my sister’s.
When I get inside, I show her the video and the photos.
She is in shock and sadden.
I told her, I see why she hasn’t called me or text me, but,
she is going to regret this.
My sister then asks me, what I plan to do?
I told her I will call my divorce attorney in the morning and tell him what
I want, I will be asking for alimony.
The next day, I told my divorce attorney that I want him to ask for alimony,
he said he would try, he then asked, what brought this on, I then take out
my phone and send him the photos and videos that I took the night before.
He then asks, where did you get this footage from, I
told him, I took it myself.
He says, WOW, they didn’t see you?
I told him NO, they didn’t.
After talking to my divorce attorney, I told myself, I
plan to ruin her reputation.
First place I plan to visit is her department of human resources,
but, I had to make sure she was not working at the hospital that day, I
didn’t want her to know that I visited her department of human resources.
So, I called my friend to see if she could find out when my wife was off.
My friend looked at the schedule while I was on the phone and
said, she is off the next day.
So, I plan to go to the hospital and speak to whoever oversees
their human resources department.
The next morning, I go to the hospital, my friend greets me and ask if I am okay, I
said, I am holding up, I asked her where their department of human resources
is located, she told me where it was, I thanked her and made my way down the hall.
When I get there, I saw a young lady at the desk, I introduced myself,
and she asks, how can I help you.
I simply told her that my wife is having an affair with one of her cardi
ologists, if I am not mistaken, your hospital has a zero-tolerance policy
of inter-staff or romantic relationships among hospital personnel, correct?
She says yes, so, I take out a folder that I prepared with
pictures and video from myself and the private investigator I hired.
I told her, she can have the folder, and I left.
I wave to my friend and leave the hospital.
A couple of days go by, guess who calls me?
But, I didn’t answer, I let it go to voicemail.
That same day, I go to the post office and mail the photos to her dad,
her mom, and her 2 other siblings.
I put on the envelopes, “THIS IS WHAT 18 YEARS OF MARRIAGE DOES”
My divorce attorney calls me later that afternoon, and says my wife has
hired a divorce attorney on her behalf, but, he said, he sent the pictures and
videos right away and told him that his client will be asking for alimony.
GUYS, remember that phone call that I let go to voicemail, I finally had
a chance to listen to it, she wasn’t happy and swearing at me, I didn’t know
this woman had a foul mouth like that.
My divorce lawyer calls me and asks, would I be interested in a
divorce mediation, I said, WHAT?
He says, her attorney called him and asked if I would be
interested in a divorce mediation.
My lawyer goes on to explain, that after my wife had a talk with her
attorney, he simply told her that it doesn’t look good for her based
on the information he was provided.
To my surprise, she has agreed to pay spousal support of $3,000 per month for
5 years, I said, that’s not enough, and not long enough, my attorney says, what
time frame do you want me to ask for, I told him, I want spousal support for 18
years, that’s how long we were married.
Well, he went back to her attorney, and she wasn’t going for that, I simply
told my divorce attorney, we will hash this out in front of a judge.
I get a surprising phone call from her father, he was actually nice to me and
said he was sorry for his daughter's behavior, and asked me if I would consider
marriage counseling at his expense.
I politely told him, I appreciate the offer, but my feelings
toward his daughter have changed.
He was the only one who called me from her side of the family.
A month goes by, and the divorce hearing is upon us.
My wife was there with her attorney.
When the hearing started, my attorney just simply said that my
wife was unfaithful, and he would like spousal support for 18 years.
The judge took every thing into consideration after hearing both sides and
seeing the photos and videos, he did not allow 18 years of spousal support, but,
he did allow 10 years of spousal support of $4,000 per month, OR, until I remarry.
I am a free man and I think that is a victory for me, oh, by the
way, her and the cardiologist were suspended without pay for a month.
I don’t care about the house, it was her father’s, with the money
I make, and my new found income, I will find a place of my own soon.
Thanks everyone for their support and well wishes.