- Abrasive
Intimidating
Overbearing.
These are the words that are most associated
when you're talking about a confident woman.
Now, what if I wanna tell you
that there's a different way to present yourself
as that incredible confident woman
that men are drawn to on a very deep, emotional level.
One that puts you in control of your destiny.
And one that magnetically attracts masculine men
because you are radiating your sexy, feminine energy.
This is the type of confidence
that men find very attractive. Keep watching.
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Hey, there. I'm Adam LoDolce.
The head love strategist over here
where we help successful single women
attract a long lasting love and do it with a strategy.
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Now in our love accelerator coaching,
we have a framework that we've been developing
over the past 10 years that is designed to help you go
from feeling lost and confused in your own love life
to be able to track that man that you truly
and deeply desire. And this is called the little love steps.
And there are seven little love steps
that you can take from going from completely single
to attracting that man.
And this video is focused on little love step number one
which is called "Build your sexy confidence."
And the type of confidence
that men are magnetically attracted to
is you guessed it, sexy confidence.
So let's break this down as to why this is the type
of confidence that men are just drawn to so intensely.
So when I talk about this sexy in sexy confidence,
what we are really exploring is that feminine energy
that you can bring to any conversation
or any relationship. Now, if you're like most of my clients,
you are probably absolutely crushing it professionally.
You might be a top executive at one of your companies
or maybe you're a doctor or an attorney,
or just someone who's very successful in their life.
And by nature,
you probably bring a lot of masculine energy
to your workplace because that is
what has gotten you ahead in life.
And that of course is something I deeply support
because it's probably really served you over the years.
But when it comes to your love life,
if you do wanna start attracting a more masculine man,
a man who does have that energy,
that you are deeply seeking and true man
who can actually be a real man and not some beta male,
then it's time for you to just kind of tap
into that sexy, feminine energy and learn
how to be more receptive throughout the dating process.
Learn how to be a little bit softer
and learn how to let the man truly take the lead
throughout those early stages of dating.
And when I say the word sexy,
I don't mean that you have to be promiscuous
or easy in the bedroom or anything like that.
It really means more so being sensual
and soft and very receptive.
And that is the type of energy
that you wanna bring to these interactions.
And it can be very difficult
especially if you're going on a date,
let's say right after work.
And let's say you're an attorney and all day long,
you're just talking to people
and bringing that very intense masculine energy.
It's going to be a pretty hard transition going to a date
and learning how to bring that softer energy.
But it's something that we all work on
in our love coaching program to really help women tap into
that energy so that they are attracting the right type
of quality men.
Now let's jump onto the confidence side of sexy confidence.
Ultimately, the confidence part of all of this
is just knowing your worth
and knowing what value you bring to a relationship.
This comes down to building your own self worth
throughout the process and knowing
that you are truly a high value woman.
And more importantly,
knowing how to position yourself as a high value woman
throughout the little love steps. In a nutshell,
this basically means not taking
from guys when they're trying
to push you around a little bit.
This means setting very clear boundaries
throughout the relationship process.
And especially once you are in a exclusive relationship,
being very clear about
what an exclusive committed relationship really means.
And most people think when I say confidence,
they think of the type of woman who is chasing men.
Who is pursuing men who goes up to that guy at the bar
and asks him out but that is not what we do here
at Love Strategies. Instead, sexy confidence
is all about bringing that soft, feminine energy
while at the same time, understanding
what value you bring to a relationship
and really setting your standards moving forward.
Without sexy confidence,
none of the subsequent little love steps are really going
to work because it,
as you progress throughout the dating process,
if you don't truly on a very deep level,
look yourself in the mirror
and understand that you deserve something incredible.
Then you will sabotage yourself
throughout every other stage as you're starting
to get out there, meet men as you start dating men.
And certainly once you are in a relationship
with a good guy. And the best part of this whole process
is that you are empowered.
Most women assume that feminine energy means
that you have to let go of control or let go of your power.
But I cannot disagree more actually feminine energy means
that you sit back and watch the man make some
of the decisions and you are the decider
and you are the prize that he is begging to win over.
And by the way, if he doesn't do a good job,
then you say that four letter magic word, which is next.
And move on to the next guy.
That is what sexy confidence is all about.
And that's what little love step number one
of all of love accelerate coaching is all about.
So from this point forward,
there is no more chasing down guys
and no more worrying about flaky guys in your life.
No more pursuing men.
From this point forward,
you are going to walk through your love life
with sexy confidence. This is a new style of dating
that you may not be used to which puts you in control
of the whole process while making the man think
that he's kind of in control
and all the while doing it with total authenticity
and honesty because you are ultimately the gatekeeper.
You decide who comes into your life
and who deserves your time and your energy
and your emotional connection
and who absolutely does not.
So if you're ready to start this journey
of the seven little love steps,
then I really urge you to go ahead,
apply to right there below. We have a link right there.
Or you can head on over to LoveApply.com
and if we think you're a good fit,
we're happy to jump on a call
with you with one of my trained love strategists.
And we will apply the little love steps to your life
and ultimately see whether or not you're fit
for love coaching.
And finally, I wanna hear from you
in the comments right there below.
Which part of sexy confidence do you really need to work on?
The sexy part? The confidence part? Or both?
I'd love to hear from you in the comments right there below.
Thank you so much for watching and I'll speak to you.
You sexy single lady next week. Bye bye.