Side Effects Of Dressing Sharp [0:00:00]
All right, guys.
So, the first thing I want to warn you about when you start to dress sharp, random women
are going to start to hit on you.
Seriously, guys, you’re going to show up to a restaurant head over to the bar and all
of a sudden you’re going to have a woman approach you.
She’s interested because guess what?
You look great, you smell good, and there’s just something about you that sets you apart
from the crowd and women love this.
They like a guy that looks high status that looks different than in a sense has something
to offer.
And, guys, when you dress sharp, guess what?
You’re going to send off that signal.
Now, this may sound great if you’re single, but for us married guys, it’s tough fighting
the ladies off.
All right, gentlemen.
In today’s video, we’re having fun, ten dangerous side effects to dressing sharp.
[Music] So, the next dangerous side effect, you are
going to be putting charge by default.
When you look like the person in charge, guess what?
People are going to default to you.
Whenever somebody randomly shows up to your office, they look around, you’re wearing
that sports jacket, you’re looking like you’re in charge, they are going to go to
you and they’re going to ask, oh, are you the man in charge?
Are you running this place?
Now, you may actually have just started that day, so you got to be ready for this.
It’s something that, hey, you’re going to have to probably point them to the right
person or you can take the bull by the horns and actually say, you know what?
I can show you around, I’m going to make things happen.
The next dangerous side effect to dressing sharp, gentlemen, is that people are going
to do what you ask them to do.
So, don’t abuse this.
Why?
Because you dress like an authority.
When you look the part of the authority, people are going to treat you like an authority.
Uniforms, what do you think of a fireman’s uniform?
A police officer’s uniform?
They wear these uniforms because there are certain things that we trust we assume that
what they say is something that we should actually do.
This has been ingrained into us.
So, gents, when you’re wearing a jacket when you’re properly groomed, when you look
like you’re in charge, people are going to treat you as a person in charge and they’re
oftentimes not even going to question what you say to them.
The next dangerous side effect, people expect you to charge more if you look expensive.
You look like someone that should be in a sense commanding a high salary or if you’re
in sales or you’re a business owner and you’re selling your company’s services,
they’re going to expect, okay, this guy isn’t – ah, he’s selling at a high price
point.
Why?
Because whenever we look at someone we make a snap judgment decision.
So, there’s this great story out there which I’ll link to down in the description from
Neil Patel and he talks about he sells really high level consulting.
He’s charging an incredible amount for his services.
He’s like, you know what?
What if I dress the part?
What if I wore outlandish in his mind clothing?
We’re talking Tom Ford, really high-end designer pieces, everything look great on
him and he’s wondering, is this actually going to improve my closing rate.
He was like you know I’m an internet marketer, I’ve got to test everything.
He didn’t change anything in his pitch except the fact that now he looked like an expensive
consultant.
What he found is he went from a 25% closure rate to all of a sudden he was closing at
about 37% to 38%.
Now, think about that.
This made a difference of almost a million dollars in sales for him per year simply by
improving his batting average.
So, gents, it’s real.
When you look the part of an expensive consultant of a business owner that knows what he’s
talking about, you could actually charge more.
The next dangerous side effect, people think you’re smarter than you actually are.
There are things that you can wear to actually be more persuasive.
You can wear the color red just a little bit of it right here is going to make you more
believable.
You can actually wear glasses which are going to draw attention to your eyes.
And if they have high contrast with your face, people perceive people with glasses because
they focus in on the eyes as being smarter.
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The next dangerous side effect of dressing sharp, gents, is that you’re going to become
a model of success.
Literally, you’re going to have your company say, hey, can you be in the pictures for the
brochures?
You always just look so great.
You really represent what our company stands for.
Next thing you know, your picture is all over the place.
You’re going to be on billboards.
Guys, that is the price of looking good is that people have a vision in their head of
what success.
We don’t think about, you know, success and everything in letters and in words.
We think about it in pictures.
And when you start to actually become that vision of success for people and guess what?
You’re going to have kids looking up to you, you’re going to have other people in
your company saying, I want to be like you, you just look like you’ve got it all put
together.
Now, gents, I know we’re putting the pressure on, but I have a feeling that you can handle
it.
The next dangerous side effect to dressing sharp, gentlemen, is that you develop a solid
reputation without even saying a word.
So, you’re in those meetings at your summer internship.
You’re in the back taking notes and all of a sudden your boss’ boss is asking about
you, who is that guy back there?
He really looked like he was paying attention, he was on top of things.
Now, why did he notice you because everyone else was pretty much doing the same thing?
Because you stood out from the crowd.
You looked like his vision of success.
In his mind, he’s looking for who are going to be the future leaders the future people
in his company and guess what?
He picked you because you look the part.
[0:05:04] Now, this next side effect is one that took
me awhile to get used to it and that is every time we’re out in public, every time we’re
out around people, you are going to get stared at.
Why?
Because you stand out in a good way from the norm, you look amazing.
You look like you literally came out of GQ magazine shoot.
And people are going to ask you, are you a model?
You’re going to laugh about it, but to them you’re like, they – you look so much better
than any guy they have seen in a long time.
And they’re going to ask you questions which leads us to the next dangerous side effect
is guys are going to come up to you and guess what?
They’re going to start asking you for advice.
How can I get a suit like this?
Man, those shoes are great.
Well, tell me about this watch?
You’re going to have people coming up to you for style advice.
Man, I just love the way that you put yourself together and my wife has been wanting me to
improve my style, can you help me out?
And that is going to be such rewarding experience when you can build a relationship and a friendship
helping another man step up his game.
Now, gents, I’ve got a few more dangerous side effects left, but don’t forget after
this video, down in the comments I want to hear from you guys.
Let me know what I missed, what you would have added to this video to make it better?
Now, this next dangerous side effect related to the first point I talked about is that
your wife and girlfriend, they’re going to become jealous not only of your amazing
wardrobe, but the compliments.
You guys are going to go out both looking great and guess what?
You’re going to get the first compliment, you’re going to get the second compliment,
and she’s going to wonder, am I even here?
What’s going on here?
There’s going to be a woman who’s going to hit on you, again, right in front of her
and she is going to turn red and about smack – about start a fight there.
And, guys, you’re going to have to learn how to deal with this because you’re going
to be a wanted man.
Guess what?
This is going to improve your relationship because she’s going to realize she’s got
something here.
She’s got a guy that other people are actually being attracted to and are interested in and
she better maintain herself so that, yeah, she can stay on – she can hold on to what
she’s got, right?
The next dangerous side effect, gentlemen, of you dressing sharp is that you’re going
to perform better at work.
This comes out of a science of enclothed cognition.
And it shows not only does clothing have an effect on other people, but it has an effect
on how you perceive yourself and most importantly how you perform.
Now, this isn’t you wearing your costume.
If you don’t normally wear suit, then don’t wear a suit, but wear the right clothing for
the right situation and you’re going to feel more confident and you’re going to
perform better.
All right, gents, you like that video?
If you enjoy this one, you’re going to absolutely love this video right here, Ten Things You
Will Never Hear a Sharp Dressed Gentleman Say.
I made this video a few years back.
I really actually enjoyed it.
It’s a fun video, so go check it out, guys.
I’m linking to it down in the description.
And, gentlemen, don’t forget down in that description, I’ve got so many useful resources
for you.
I got a link over to my free app, my fee ebooks.
We’ve got ebooks on shoes, on how to dress casually, if you want to improve your style
vocabulary.
I not only have an ebook, but I’ve got an audiobook that goes with it.
Gents, I’ve got tons of tools over at RealMenRealStyle.com, my main website where you can use these information
to become the man you know yourself to be.
All right, gentlemen.
That’s it.
Take care.
I’ll see you in the next video.
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