Are you talking to me? You talking to me? Are you talking to me? Yeah,
it was just a follow up of what I just asked you, sir. Listen, you ready?
We have the president of Finland. Ask him a question!
I have one for him I just wanted to follow up on the one that I asked you,
which, can you hear me? Do you want to hear me? Ask him a question.
Ask this gentleman a question. Don't be rude.
Watching Trump go back and forth with reporters is almost become a national
pastime at this point, but in this instance,
I want to break down an interesting back and forth where Trump really has to
step it up because this guy won't back down.
I'm going to show you what Trump did. Good, what the reporter did good,
but ultimately what the reporter did incorrectly,
and you're going to be able to learn from this and use this in your life.
Next time you find yourself in a challenging back and forth or someone tries to
put you down or make you look bad. It's important to understand these things.
So let's roll this footage and we'll break down what I think happened.
Well, look,
Biden and his son are stone cold,
crooked, and you know, his son walks out with millions of dollars.
The kid knows nothing, you know? And so do we go ahead and ask a quick question,
sir,
did you want presidents of,
the first thing he does is he points at the reporter and then points at
Finland's president indicating he wants him to ask the question,
but their Porter holds his ground and says the question was implying Trump
didn't answer it the right way. So he's holding onto his guns,
reporters holding onto his guns and asking Trump the same question twice.
Wait, go ahead. Ask a quick the question, sir. Was,
what did you want presidents of Lenski to do about president vice president
Biden and his son Hunter? Are you talking to me?
Okay, so now he pretends like he can't even believe,
like he heard [inaudible] heard the question.
He pretends like he can't even believe that he's asking another question to him
after he told the reporter to ask a question to Finland's president. He can't.
Yeah, it was just a follow up of what I just asked you, sir. Listen, you ready?
We have the president of Finland asked him a question.
I have one form I just wanted to follow up on the one that I asked you.
Can you hear me okay? So then he holds to it a third time. I did hear you.
I do have a question for the rest villain, but I just want to ask you this.
So three times in a row, he's not doing what Trump has requested of him.
So now Trump is getting mad, but he's also getting a little bit,
probably concerned that his status is going down as this guy is not doing.
What he's telling him to do is you want, you hear me? Ask him a question.
Did you hear me? Why did you hear me? Okay,
so now that's more of like a a teacher to a student, authoritative thing.
Did you hear me? And he says, yes, but what do you think this ask?
This guy's gonna back down. Now he's three for three. I doubted. Here's what
I will, but it might given you a long answer.
Ask this gentleman a question.
Okay, so now Trump just says the exact same thing again.
I gave you a long answer and only did I answer your question.
I gave you a long answer. Now ask this gentleman a question. Rude.
Don't be rude. I don't want to be rude.
I just wanted you to have a chance to answer the question that I asked you.
Okay,
so there it is the fourth time and that actually is a nice line from this guy.
He is not just, do you notice how they're both when they're,
they're saying the same thing but they're saying it in different words so it
doesn't sound as ridiculous as it would be if they just said the same thing over
and over. So what he said this time was,
I just want to give you a chance to answer the question.
What a nice way to couch it. You know what I mean? Like I'm looking out for you.
No, no.
I was just trying to help you out and give you a chance to answer that question.
That's a great reframe because clearly he's not trying to help Trump out.
He's trying to hold his feet to the fire. But by reframing that way,
it puts it in a nice way.
Light and everything. It's a whole hoax.
And you know who's playing into the hopes,
people like you and the fake news media.
So Trump's not going to answer the question,
but now he's trying a different tactic by just bombarding him by saying he's
fake news
we have in this country, and I say in many cases the corrupt media,
because you corrupt much of the media in this country is not just fake.
So now he's going at him personally and towards the industry that he works in
because telling him what to do wasn't working. It's like,
it's kind of like boxers where they're both like trying to shoot you see,
you see a lot of times fights in, they're feeling,
they're feeling the other fighter out. They'll just go straight to the head,
right? That's all they're doing.
Trump realizes go into the head by telling what to do isn't working.
So now he's mixing it up and he's going to the body. He's saying, listen,
you guys are all, of course has nothing to do with it.
He's just basically trying a different tactic to get him to move on from the
question that he doesn't want to answer.
And you have some very fine people too. Great journalists, great reporters,
but it to a large extent, it's corrupt and it's fake.
Does that stand out to you? I've never heard Trump do that before.
He very intentionally, he was saying that there are some good reporters.
Usually it's just one basket of reporters. It's either Fox news who's greater,
everyone else who's crooked. But in that instance it was kind of strange.
That seem a little strange to you. I'm not sure what his motivation was there,
but he wanted to point out to make sure that people knew that.
He does think that some of the reporters are actually good
and you have some very fine people to great journalists, great reporters.
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Ask the president of Finland to question place. Okay, I'll move on now.
Okay. That's the last thing. That's the last thing. That's an important thing.
Okay? Both of these guys want to be high status.
They want to show they're in control, they want to hold the frame, okay?
And if this, they'll listen. I'm talking all this technical stuff where it says,
last thing, if you're just getting started,
maybe you're not comfortable going up and starting conversations with strangers.
You don't know how to keep the conversation going.
You're just trying to get the basics of social interaction going.
I've got a checklist called the social divisibility checklist.
I'll give it to you for free cause you're coming from this video.
You can touch or click up here or go to charisma matrix.com forward slash SSI
checklist and I'll show you some things you can immediately use to actually five
things that will show you how you can start and keep conversations going and
feel comfortable socially.
So what did he do here at the end that's so important.
Trump had told him four times, asked the president of Finland a question.
I've already answered your question. Go onto the next thing, drop it,
and five times he continues that same question. How does he end it? Okay,
I'll move on now. I'll move on. Now why is that important?
Because he's maintaining the frame. He's saying he entered.
He's saying it in a way like he's making the decision to move on. Okay,
I'll move on now. Right?
Even though he's just parroting back what Trump told him to do.
When you do that, it keeps the frame on your side. It's a very important,
it's a very smooth, slick social tactic. When you reiterate,
even when someone bosses you what to do. Hey,
go line up over there right now behind that person. All right.
I'm going to go take a stand behind that guy right there and then I get in line
just by parroting it back. It maintains your status. I encourage you.
Next time someone tells you what to do,
only if they're in a position of hierarchical power.
If someone's trying to tell you what to do and they're not,
it's not in the workplace.
There's not some formal range where they're your boss or their used superior.
You should not be listening to what people do.
They should not be competent to tell you what to do,
but if you are in a position like that,
try parroting it back and see how it maintains your status. Now,
what did this guy do wrong? My goodness,
his vocal tonality is so weak. Listen to this guy. Talk for it. You're rude. No,
sir. I don't want to be rude.
I just wanted you to have a chance to answer the question that I asked. Oh sir.
I didn't want you to be rude. I just wanted to give you a question.
He needs to get some vocal power.
It's not just that he has wheat pipes.
His entire tonality is wrong. It's supplicating.
So there's one thing having a deep, strong voice.
There's a lot of power and influence that comes with that.
But also even if you don't like a guy like Ben Shapiro does not have a deep
strong voice,
but he has great tonality and the tonality is where the communication happens.
So this guy sounds like a little nerd. No sir. I didn't want to do this.
If you was to speak. No sir, that wasn't my intention.
I just wanted to give you a chance to answer.
That question comes across so much more authoritative.
So he needs to do that. He needs to focus on that tonality.
I don't know if he doesn't understand it or didn't feel comfortable.
A lot of times people do speak in a supplicate of tone,
which is just like you'd speak to your boss know, Oh,
how was your weekend when they're not comfortable being in that role. Actually,
I've got a free alible lender on this.
I've got a free YouTube video where I'll walk you through the three different
types of tonality so you can understand it.
So you can use the right tone so you don't sound like this somewhat geeky guy
asked if Trump these questions. Otherwise, I've got another video here.
If you haven't seen this, this is a good one. Click there.
I'll talk to you there now.