Stop the ghosting. Never be ghosted again.
Hi everyone. Robert Zink, Miracle Mentor and Alchemy Life Coach.
And today we are soaring high, like a big, beautiful Eagle.
We're flying in the direction of your dreams and your goals because we
believe that you deserve the money you desire,
the love you crave and the health that you depend upon.
So we're talking about ghosting today. It's one of the,
one of the topics that I get more letters on than perhaps any
other topic at all.
And that is why am I being ghosted?
And we're going to get into that.
And I believe if you have had any problems being
ghosted, either in the past or in the present,
you're going to want to pay attention to the entire video because it gets very,
very powerful. And there's a whole new concept,
a whole new paradigm shift that I'm going to take you through. Okay.
But first let's talk about some reasons why people get
ghosted. So High Fliers,
one of the reasons people get ghosted is that they're needy. They act needy.
They, they live a needy existence.
They feel needy their energy vibrates, neediness,
and nobody wants to be around that kind of energy because
it's like,
it's like putting a plunger in you and sucking the life force out of
you. It's what we call vampiric a behavior.
When you're needy, you are,
you're hoping to draw energy from other people.
And they feel that draw.
They feel that energy leaving them and they don't like it.
And so that goes to the next reason why people might be ghosting you is you've
got that low depressive vibe.
And there's just something about people who
are, Oh, is down. I mean,
I have friends that I absolutely love. I love these people,
but I don't want to call them because I know two minutes into the phone call,
they're gone to start talking about all the bad stuff
happening in their life, how bad things are,
how things keep getting worse. Do you know what I'm talking about?
So I would just rather not talk to them at all.
The third reason you might be getting ghosted is because you have
a controlling attitude. You want to control the situation.
You want to control their feelings, their actions,
but perhaps you don't want to take control of your own feelings,
your own. Did I just say that? I certainly did. Yeah.
You're avoiding self-responsibility. And so,
because of that, you want to control other people.
They feel that that control hand coming upon them. They don't like it.
And so they just say, I'm going to go see this person. So High Fliers,
the fourth reason you might be being ghosted is
because you're blaming your finger pointing.
It's your fault. You did it. You know? Well,
you know, how can you relate the other night? You made me late.
You didn't honk your horn. When you were outside of my house,
they're always blaming. They are always argumentative.
You're not one of those people. I know that. But if you are,
it could be a reason that you're being ghosted and finally
is low self esteem. You're putting yourself down all the time.
Well, I'm just not good enough to go get that job.
I'm never going to be good enough to have a relationship with you.
I just don't do anything. Right? See,
low self esteem and people feel helpless.
They feel helpless when they're around somebody that has this low self
esteem. And that's all they're talking about. They don't know what to say.
They don't know what to do. So they avoid you. It's called ghosting.
Boo. So High Fliers,
aside from the five things that I just shared with you,
the five behavioral traits that will get almost anybody ghosted.
Let's,
let's talk about situations where you didn't do anything wrong.
You were kind, you were loving, you were creative.
You are happy. You are uplifting.
And a person still ghosted. You will first.
This is the paradigm shift. Are you ready? Say it with me.
I can not be ghosted.
I cannot be ghosted. Why can I not be ghosted?
Because everyone in my reality is me
pushed out. Another words, everyone that I,
that I have interaction with is part of my micro pro
sopas or my microcosm, at least according to the ancient mystics.
And according to quantum physics, it, it doesn't seem to matter.
We understand that you are responsible
for your reality.
Now you're not responsible for how other people behave,
but if they are an aspect of you pushed
out that in essence, you're ghosting yourself. And if you say,
I choose not to be ghosted, I am ghost free.
I cannot be ghosted.
Then you can't be because it's only you
choosing to believe that you're ghosted choosing to
ghost yourself High Fliers.
The second thing that I believe is important to understand and to make a
strong belief is I manifest and attract
everything in my life. So number one is everyone is me pushed out.
Can't ghost myself.
Number two is I'm manifest and attract everything in my life.
So what is it in my deep beliefs?
What is it in my deep beliefs that cause other people
aspects of myself to react to me in a certain
way. I think that's an important question,
but I think more importantly is the answer I choose to
feel worthy at all times.
And under all conditions I choose to feel worthy
at all times.
And under any condition you see, once I have that belief,
then I begin to manifest and attract only positive
responses. And this whole notion of ghosting, well,
it's just kind of a ghost. It just disappears. Okay? High Fliers.
So we've talked about what to believe. You can't be ghosted.
You manifest everything in your life. You're responsible for your life.
You are responsible for everything that happens in your life.
At some level you attracted and everyone is you pushed
out. Those beliefs help you to this. Number one.
Here's what to do. No blame. There's no blaming anyone.
It's not your fault. It's not his fault. It's not her fault.
There's no blame. It just is.
Once you get to this place where there's no blame where there's
nobody, I'm not. He says people will oftentimes when they're being ghosted,
they feel bad about themselves. And they start blaming themselves.
I was talking with a client earlier today and she says,
I felt so bad about myself. No, no,
you didn't do this. They didn't,
you may have attracted the situation or the energy or the vibration into your
life, but you didn't do it. There's no one to blame. So High Fliers,
once you get beyond this whole blame game,
then you get into this wonderful forgiveness stage and you just let
it go. You forgive. I like to,
I like to use Ho'oponopono on myself. I love you. I'm sorry,
please forgive me. Thank you.
But whatever works for you that allows this forgiving,
loving energy, and that allows,
that allows positive vibration to take place between you
and that aspect of you that is pushed out.
That is ghosting you High Fliers. This is an important one.
Never chase,
because if everyone is you pushed out,
there's no one to chase. There's nothing to chase.
And so all the work, all the spiritual work,
emotional work, mental work,
psychological work can only be done on
yourself. And,
and as you focus on raising
yourself to the highest version of you,
you start to vibrate at a much higher frequency.
And that just allows for all kinds of wonderful things to happen.
Things that you've been trying to manifest in the past,
manifest easier. Now phone calls that you wanted in the past
happen almost overnight because you're at a higher pitch.
You're at a higher frequency. You're at a higher vibration.
Say these words with me, please.
I am worthy of the love I desire
and I will choose to always respect
myself.
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