You've just started seeing a guy and you're a little nervous. He seems interested,
but you know full well that guys often show interest at the beginning and then do the
slow fade with the bread, crumbing them, the random texting. Next thing you know,
you feel like you're being strung along. And as long as you hear from them occasionally,
you can't break free. In this Love U podcast, I'm going to share with you seven obvious signs that,
yes, he's into you. And yes, you can relax now. Stick around.
I'm ever Evan Marc Katz, dating coach for smart, strong, successful woman and your personal
trainer for love. Welcome to the Love U podcast. Keep listening to discover
when a guy is really interested in you, when we're done, I'll let you know how you could apply
to Love U to create a passionate relationship that makes you feel safe, heard and understood.
First of all, let's establish that just because a guy texts you, that does not
mean he's really interested in you. I know it seems baffling because you may never text a
guy that you're not really interested in, but men do it all the time. Why? Because
they're bored. Because they're lazy. Because they're too busy to talk. Because they're
confused and ambivalent. Because they have too many options. Because, because, because…
The fact is, it doesn't matter if a guy text you occasionally. Texting is fine, but it's the least
intimate and important form of communication. So, don't give some guy a free pass because he pings
you from time to time with that. What are the seven obvious signs that he's really interested
in you? Number one, he makes plans for the next date, on the date. I'm not saying it's imperative
for a guy to do this, but if a guy is that excited about you, that he's locking down another date
before the night's even over. It's a pretty clear indication that he's sincerely interested in you.
Number two, he compliments you frequently. Maybe he's talking about how sexy you are. Maybe he's
talking about how funny you are. Maybe you say saying he hasn't met anybody like you in a really
long time. But when a guy can't stop seeing his inner thoughts out loud, it's certainly positive.
Compliments don't guarantee that a man wants to be in a relationship with you, but they do suggest
that he's excited about you, which is usually a good place to start. Number three, he calls you.
I know it's a relic from the 80s and the 90s, but that's sort of the point. If a guy actually takes
the time to talk to you on the phone, it means he wants to speak to you. He wants to connect
with you. He enjoys your company platonically. It means he's not just sitting in front of his TV,
eating dinner, texting five other women at the same time. Phone calls were once as disposable as
texts. But now a phone call, a resume call or face time is almost like a mini date. So, don't freak
out if a guy calls you. It's a good sign. Number four, he asks you out. I know it sounds silly,
but I can't tell you how many women I've coached throughout the years who are convinced that a man
was interested, even though he didn't ask you out. Maybe he flirted with you. Maybe he texted you.
Maybe you even went out before. But if a guy isn't actively making plans with you to see you quickly,
he's not that interested. Number five, he's in touch with you every day. Ambivalent guys,
avoidant guys on the fence guys, they wait a few days between contact
either to let you know not to get too attached to them or because they're genuinely not even
thinking about you. Guys who are thinking about you every single day will generally let you know
that they are thinking of you because they want to be in touch. And these are the kind of men who
make for the best boyfriends, the consistent ones. Number six, he talks about your future.
And that doesn't mean he's mentioning marriage on day one. But it does mean he's doing a lot of
when we see each other again or he's excited about when you meet his friends or family,
or he openly muses about when you can take a trip together, or when he could
bring you to a friend's wedding. That means he doesn't just see you as a Miss right
now, but he's thinking at least a few steps ahead. And finally, number seven, he wants
to know if you're seeing anybody else, not because he's jealous or controlling, but because
he really likes you and wants to know whether he's in the running to become your boyfriend.
When a guy is genuinely interested, he's the one who's pushing the relationship forward.
You don't have to. And that's the beauty of when a guy's really excited about you.
So, we've got seven things. He makes plans for the next date on the date.
He compliments you frequently. He calls you. He asks you out. He's in touch with you every day.
He talks about your future. And he wants to know if you're seeing anybody else. If the guy
you like and you're seeing is doing all these things, that's a great sign. He's really into
you. And if he's not doing all these things, it may be time to look for a different guy.
My name is Evan Marc Katz, dating coach for smart, strong, successful women. Your personal trainer
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