do you want to do something crazy i do want to know something crazy
do you guys want to know something crazy firstly howdy partners firstly what up dudes
we're in america because sam lives here now
i officially live in america and we have some crazy stuff to go over today guys
today's gonna be a mad video okay today's gonna be insane and we're not gonna save any time we're
not gonna make you wait till the end it's coming right now so number one
monica should i sit down this is to you yes i am currently in the process of no lucky
i am currently in the process of filling out my form i-485 in preparation for once we've
got married kind of yeah so basically uh i'm here on a k1 visa fiance visa right now
and once monica and i get married i have to do an adjustment of stasis to get a green card
and i'm pre-filling out that form ready for once we get married and it says what is your marital
status i put married wafer wait for it wait for it he said wait for him he said married wait for it
what's the name of your spouse i had to put monica rose patterson how bad is that i'm sorry can you
guys come back later but anyway oh my gosh wait a second anyway anyway let's see that information
firstly that's insane that is it my name is monica rose patterson what is going on and we have a
massive announcement for you guys talking about marriage wait wait hold on we have some ridiculous
news this is probably going to be the latest news right here ridiculous news and i feel like
every vlog at the moment we're like oh my gosh it's big news but this but this is the biggest
news yet i feel like today in approximately an hour we are what would you like to say
we are going to the town hall now don't get ahead of yourself don't get out of here we're going to
the town hall to have a meeting because as you guys know with sam's visa it's like the k1 visa so
as soon as he steps foot on american soil we have 90 days to get married which is honestly a little
shorter because we have a lot of paperwork that needs to get filed out within the 90 days that's
why i'm still going to do it now yeah you guys know our wedding is july 1st of this year which
oh my gosh so we have to we have to get married sooner than that legally so
we have a date you're really teasing people here aren't you yeah today we're going in
for our meeting to get a marriage license so the marriage license is going to be valid for 60 days
so we can't wait until july the 1st now yeah we have 60 days so
we're getting married on february 22nd which is literally this month it's in three weeks
today it's the first defender right now three weeks today guys we are so excited about it are
you kidding me we just freaking told people we're getting married in three weeks are you kidding me
oh my gosh guys the reason we chose that date is because if you listen to the date it's 2-2-2-2-2
on a tuesday as you imagine say on a tuesday tuesday so yeah we're getting married three
weeks today i don't know when you guys are seeing this video but it's definitely before the 22nd
so we have a meeting today to pick up the marriage license then wait to send out a few candles which
remember guys we have a candle company i make all the candles and if you guys check it out um so we
have a a busy day just getting things done but most importantly we have a busy day getting our
marriage license samuel so let's get going let's go get some lunch heck yeah let's get some lunch
what they gave us an extra sandwich they gave us an extra sandwich
yeah so we have an hour now until we sign their marriage license and
we get ready to marry each other we had a little bit of a mess up the other day
i can tell you're trying to do it quietly but it prolongs it makes it laugh
we had a little bit of a scary situation with the marriage license the other day
so we were looking on the marriage website whatever you call it thing and it said that
you need an original copy of the birth certificate i've lost my birth certificate i ordered a new one
for my visa and it's gone what i think is it might have been accidentally put in the pack
i think it was for customs and i think customs threw it out when i entered the u.s either threw
it out or kept it for them like their records but thankfully my dad managed to find my original
certificate back in the uk and he scanned it over to me thankfully the clerk said it
was suffice as long as i bring my passport as well they can use a scan of my original
birth certificate so we're all good but that was a very stressful few hours
that was a very stressful few hours like thinking we might not be able to get married
wasn't it but we're back we're ready we're about to eat and then we gotta go because we have one
hour and i gotta go get my birth certificate i know imagine you can't find yours i know where
it is safely 57 minutes you're gonna make me throw up outside in 30 degree weather it's warm
you're so british monica's just inside getting her birth certificate i have my passport and
like i said the scan of my birth certificate which hopefully is gonna suffice um if not this vlog may
turn into something slightly different 19 minutes time we are going to sign the marriage license
and it might not be a big deal for some people but for us this is six and a half years of
waiting this is a year and a half of waiting for a visa six and a half years of dating
you know and it's finally come down to this moment and so my dad's gonna fly over on the
18th of feb we're getting married on the 22nd and uh and here is my beautiful beautiful girl
let's go and get our marriage license yeah go doodle let's do it baby let's go let's go nauseous
you're the reason i'm feeling nervous why because i'm recording you're like getting really
and it's making me nervous oh my gosh we're signing your marriage certificate in there
in four minutes time five minutes everybody keep calm
how are you feeling i'm feeling good and i've got mama with me you know her fingerprint necklace
have i shown you guys this monica got me a necklace with her fingerprint on her she's always
going to be here every day especially in times like this are you even ready for that i'm so ready
congratulations so i'm going to have you samuel
stay calm don't
don't panic you can't panic yet
do you wanna just plop that up there really quick yeah yeah yeah
yeah cause it's a very calm situation right now basically all we have to say
we have our marriage license we can get married anywhere in the state of new york
so we've got to think about somewhere cool to do it and it's going to only be like a
30 second long like really intimate ceremony yeah it's not a full ceremony you know like
the proper main wedding is still going to be in july but like obviously we're going to consider
ourselves married after this because we will be married you're going to be mrs patterson
come on do it all that was a perfect first kiss off having a marriage license i don't even know
what to say doodlebug yes doodlebug we're getting married guess what what we have a marriage license
sam is at home and i'm just running out because i'm with my mom and she ran into
another store so i'm waiting for her but we are just gonna go shopping at a few little
stores um we're running low on time because we're meeting my siblings for dinner but i
just wanted to get like a little bit of a head start because i realized i need something to wear
for our official wedding date the 22nd so we're just gonna like schmeyer at a few different places
and see if there's anything i could find which i very very very highly doubt that i'm gonna find
what is going on i very very highly doubt that i'm going to find my dress today
i don't even know if i'm going to wear a dress i have no idea what i'm wearing because the ceremony
that we're having on the 22nd isn't our official ceremony it's just like to make it legal kind of
thing so i kind of need to figure out what i want to wear for something like that i'm not wearing a
wedding dress because i just don't want to do the two ceremonies i really want sam to see me in a
wedding dress for the first time at our official wedding and that's what he wants as well so
i'm not wearing a wedding dress but i would like to wear some sort of like nice white
outfit so let's see if i can find anything i'm so bad at shopping i hate shopping
she takes 1800 hours per aisle the first place was a fail we went to tj maxx didn't find anything
so it's not going well sorry for the lighting by the way but we're going shopping tomorrow
because we need to find something are you excited i'm getting married that looks my man
i'm very happy for you it's a lot of paperwork you can change your license
to change your social security
maybe this is a bad idea maybe you should just like let me marry him because i don't
really care about changing my name and all this stuff because i'm older and you can come visit
i was driving home and look who i came across on a wookiee
hi bobby hi bubba look at you on the bell huh is he walking you yes he is wherever he wants to play
duty you want to ride come on we're at dinner with my brother my basically my second brother
it's my brother's best friend jake liz and danielle who doesn't want to look at the camera
look at what robert what is even is that i'm not driving tonight what is that super hard it's a
dragon ball dragon ball yeah gotta drink that in the middle oh yeah wait how does that go out
how's it going
this is what always happens when we go out to eat everyone tries to put something in their drinks
that's just one time you spend an entire meal getting a whole handful goes over bobby's drink he
goes bombardment they're doing rock paper scissors to see who has to go get the coupon out of the car
neither of them no no no one wants to go out to the car
oh bye they're playing the credit card game to see who plays oh
she wins you're out it's between them to see who's gonna be ready one
you're welcome robert you're welcome i'm doing a table spin and then until he says stop who sends
stuff until robert says stop who's gonna danielle you're gonna say stop you say them one yeah
this is chaos it's the next day i thought we because we didn't end the vlog what if we do
a really quick update about what just happened let's do it really quick because we didn't finish
the vlog so we can continue so we are parked outside the social security office for me to get
a social security number guys what everything eyes everything is moving so fast it's mad so i just
went in it turns out so my full name is samuel charles simpson paterson i have two middle names
he's very british very british and the customs officer when i entered the united states wrote
down my name but he forgot my second middle name so he wrote down samuel charles patterson so the
social security officer in there thought that uh maybe that's messed up with the system so he
couldn't he couldn't verify my info on the system so um he said he's he's tried to get me a social
security card and he's given me a letter to prove that i've you know applied for it um but he said
if if i hadn't received it in four weeks call the office and i'll try and figure it out today we
didn't film it but we had another meeting if you'd like to with a meeting with actually one of my
friends who's a reverend we think he's going to be marrying us not 100 because he's also in the navy
so he might not be around and he's so funny he's so great um so we might have that situated now
we know where our ceremony is taking place it's been amazing look at us girl getting things done
so now i've got a us phone number a u.s bank account i'm marrying my u.s chickie
and and i've applied for a social security number i hope you guys are enjoying these
little updates we're going to be vlogging so much more because you guys asked us to
we're so happy you love the vlogs and now that i'm turning american and living in new york um
in future if you guys could refer to me as darmy i'm not sam hey it's darmy it's just a good idea
i have time to back out right you got me for three years and then i have my green
card sorted and we get a divorce like customs people watching this like don't worry i'm just
okay we're joking we love each other okay get off me now yeah all right can we stop doing
this guys thank you so much for watching this vlog we'll see you in the next one and it's less than
three weeks now until we get married all right high five peace out catch you guys very soon