sometimes people believe that sexual tension can only be created face to face and it's completely
not true because you can easily build that sexual tension over text you just need to know how to do
it so let's be real it might take a little bit longer to build that sexual tension and seduce
the lady that you have your eye on but it will happen if you follow these steps and in today's
video i'm going to tell you the 10 ways that you can build sexual tension over text so that you
can seduce any lady that you are messaging you know what to do like and subscribe and get ready
so what is sexual tension first and foremost i'm sure you have heard of sexual tension a lot
but you might not be 100 sure what it really is so easily sexual tension is when your body has a
rush of oxytocin which is the hormone that causes you to feel flushed and perhaps have inside flips
in the stomach have you ever had butterflies in your stomach when you were around someone
well that is the feeling of sexual tension so you do often feel it when you are first interacting
with someone that you find oh so attractive sexual attraction is vital in any relationship without it
the spark is simply just not there so don't forget that there needs to be attraction to create sexual
tension so what is the difference between sexting and building sexual tension via text now making
the mistake of confusing these two it will be deathly critical if you mix them up a lady could
be offended and well then she just ghosts you and never talks to you again there is a thin line
between the both and it's important that you don't cross that line so what is sexting sexting is a
very direct form of sexual communication it can be explicit and descriptive and is usually done
between two people who are in a relationship or have been dating for a while they might be doing
a long-term relationship or just miss each other so that they resort to sexing this is not despite
what you think what sexual tension is though so you're asking me what is building sexual tension
well when you start building sexual tension via text you are both showing each other that
you like one another and this is completely normal in the beginning of a relationship
maybe after you have been dating for a while as well you'll know when the time is right because
you might have been dating for a month or so and you will be ready to move things on to that next
level make sure there is a mutual connection this is where a lot of guys miss the mark completely
you might remember that sexual tension is built on attraction so before you start trying to build
sexual attraction via text you need to make sure that the other person is attracted to you
very important so take some time to think about if they actually do seem interested in you and
they are attracted to you because let me tell you if you jump in and start trying to build sexual
tension via text without establishing this mutual attraction first then the lady might think that
you only want her for one thing only and she's going to feel very used so you don't want to do
this the mutual attraction will be the base to building the sexual attraction that you desire
start with something light don't go straight in with the big guns you want to ease yourself and
your lady into it there should be no pressure at this stage and your first messages should
be something simple like asking her how she is doing and if she's had a great day
you will notice that this message it's not flirty to begin with and that is the key point
as i said you want to start with something light and that is why it's nice to start with a casual
message because if you just go straight in and start sexting it's a little bit creepy
now this helps you understand how the other person is feeling as well because if they've had a bad
day they might just want to talk to you and not feel pressured into building that sexual tension
because it would be awkward to expect something else focus on sending open-ended questions
you want the girl that you are texting to reply of course because you don't want to be speaking
to yourself and the only way to do this is to make sure that they have something to reply to so of
course this is where the open-ended questions come into play now open-ended questions are those that
you ask that require more than a yes or no answer for example an open-ended question could be what
is your favorite type of food now this requires them to reply more than just a simple yes or no
and she is likely to send back her favorite type of food and give many reasons as to why she likes
it you could also send some open-ended questions that help to build that sexual tension something
for example along the lines of what do you look for in a man now she might start to describe
someone who is just like you and that's where the flirting starts and then well you definitely know
she is interested in you very important gents check on how they are responding to you you've
started to build some sexual tension with those open-ended questions and the casual conversations
so it is time to check in now and see how they are responding to you are they sending long texts back
are they interested in you and if they do this it's a good thing and are they using some flirty
language well even better you will know if someone is responding to you well based on how interested
and excited they are when the text comes back make sure that she is still interested in you before
you take things up a notch tease them more and more every day it is time to start teasing them
little by little you don't want to give everything away at once and giving the other person nothing
to look forwards to sometimes you should let the other person text you first use some flirty
language and drop in some hints that you like her you could text her something like i can't
wait to see you again start teasing her about anything slightly silly she says as well do
not be mean or put her down and get offensive but just tease her gently this is a great way to start
building sexual tension and getting the flirting started show off your naughty side although you do
need to stay as a kind gentleman you need to show her that you are interested in her sexually
otherwise she will not know how you feel and that's why you need to introduce her to your
naughty side you should start by using innuendos and flirt with plenty of confidence this will make
it really clear to her that you are interested in her in a sexual way and this will then make
her feel comfortable and she will start doing the same thing back to you it's going to really kick
that sexual tension up a notch and wow she's going to be left wanting a lot more of you
be spontaneous when you date someone face to face you are often told that it's important to
be spontaneous now the same goes for when you are trying to build sexual tension over text you need
to excite your lady because this is a huge part of those butterflies so how can you be spontaneous
well you could send a naughty text out of the blue this will make them a little frustrated because
they can't be with you in person right now and obviously the tension is going to build in her
body put the brakes on just sometimes a huge part of building the tension is having a break
for example when you are watching a tv program it's at the crucial part and then boom there's
an ad break and you're like what really right now you cannot wait for it to start again right so you
want nothing more than to watch the second half of the show and that's the same principle that we're
talking about here it's just the same but with building sexual tension over text so let her text
you first sometimes and sometimes maybe you are super busy so that you won't reply for a couple
of days and that's okay it sounds risky but it really isn't all she will be thinking about is you
and it will make her even more electric once you start texting again now this is a great way
to ensure that the relationship does not fizzle out over text as well spell check your messages
okay i can almost see you asking me right now like what is anna talking about why do we need to check
out spelling well when you are building sexual tension with someone you need to make sure that
you don't do anything to turn them off something that is simple to avoid but is often overlooked
make sure you check your spelling if your lady notices that you are spelling everything wrong
she might feel like you don't actually care enough to do a simple spell check and it could be very
off-putting it's an easy thing to do so make sure you do it ask them out finally it's fun to build
sexual tension over text but eventually you will both want to see each other so it's important to
also build that sexual tension in person as well and of course you need to be asking them out you
can simply say that you've had a really good time texting them and messaging her and you want to see
her in person she will not be able to resist after all of that tension that you have built together
well that is the best time to go on a date so make sure you pick somewhere extremely romantic
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