Hey, what's going on Tripp Kramer here from www.trippadvice.com. On today's video,
let's talk about conversation tips. How do you be more interesting in conversation? How
do you make the conversation go longer? Here's the thing you have to understand... if you're
able to hold a conversation and make it go longer, what happens is the woman becomes
more invested in you because she's spending more time with you. For example, let's say that you
end up going and approaching a woman at a grocery store or maybe a bar wherever and you're talking
to her, a 2 minute conversation versus a 7 to 10 minute conversation, there's going to be a
big difference there in investment. When you are with a woman longer, like I just said, she becomes
more invested in you because she's spending more time with you. It takes more time for her to
recognize that you are someone who is attractive because she needs that time to recognize who you
are as a person and your personality. Of course, looks do help. But if you're going over there,
and even the best looking guy in the world, but your conversation skills suck,
she's most likely going to reject you. She doesn't want to be around creepy weird guys. You have to
understand how to continue a conversation and how to make it interesting and I'm going to be giving
you some really cool stuff. Some practical actionable tips that you can do literally
now. And you can get better and more interesting in conversation, boom, overnight. And if you want
more flirting tips, so how to enter flirting into the equation because you don't want to just have
an interesting conversation. You want to add some flirting in there. You're gonna want to
check out my Hooked program at Get Her Hooked dot com. There's a whole module in the course
all about flirting, it's called Effortless Flirting. That way you can be good at conversation
with being able to be a little bit more seductive. I'll put a link down below. Also I
want to tell you a quick story so you can really understand why this is so powerful. I remember
10 years ago (literally 10 years ago from today) I was on a trip... it's a free trip that you get if
you are Jewish, it's called birthright. And if you are under, if you're 18 to 26 years old, you get
to go to Israel for free for 10 days. I remember going and I remember on that trip, there's like 40
people in your group. And everyone is different. All different kinds of personalities, people from
different walks of life. And I remember, I came back from that trip and I was like wow,
I was really able to connect with everyone there. I'm not saying that I was the most popular there
or that I even made friends with every single person. But I remember talking to everyone and
almost everyone I had a conversation with was a pretty good conversation. Men, women, everyone.
And I thought why was that so easy? Why was I able to connect with everyone so easy. And
it's blew my mind because I was not always that way. I remember the reason why it was,
was because I was reading more, I was looking at headlines a lot on the news,
I was always scouring the internet for interesting stuff. Just stuff for me that I was interested in.
I felt like I had a lot of knowledge and wisdom and information that allowed me to connect with
all different kinds of people. In this group it was funny. It was kind of was like high school.
You get there and all of a sudden everyone found their people. The nerdy guys were hanging out
together. And the more basic girls were hanging out together. And some of the more hipster people,
that was the group I was in. We're hanging out together and everyone formed these groups.
But I remember bouncing around to all these different people and having really interesting
conversations. And that was because I had a lot of information and wisdom and things that I was
saying that I was able to connect with people on. I'm being a little repetitive but that's
what I'm gonna be teaching you today. Here's my first tip for you. What you can do is
you can start reading headlines on the news every single day. And this is so easy. Go to
any one news site, whatever you want. CNN, Fox, MSNBC, whatever. Just read all the
headlines. Just read all the headlines and know what's going on. One thing I do is on my phone,
and maybe this is a little distracting, but I do it. I have notifications of headlines that
come up. For example, today I learned that Tiger Woods got in a car crash.
And hopefully he's fine. I'm not really sure. But he got in a car crash and all of a sudden
all these headlines came up. I don't read the news that often and I probably wouldn't have known that
unless a friend told me. Maybe I saw it in social media. It's good to know what's going on. You can
get quick information by reading headlines. You don't have to sit there and read all these news
articles and all this stuff. Just get quick headlines. Go to a page once a day and see
what's going on by reading the headlines. That's tip number one. Next, this is a very specific one.
There's a really cool subreddit, if you know the website Reddit, called Today I Learned.
Maybe you know what I'm talking about. Today I learned. It's www.reddit.com/R/todayilearned.
And all of a sudden, when you go there, you see all these posts. And by the way,
there's probably tens of thousands of posts on this thing. People posting every day of very
interesting random stuff that people have learned that you might have never heard about, ever.
Very good place to get brushed up on some topics. This is all gonna lead somewhere in a second so
stay with me. That's the second one. The third one is, I want you to be reading all the time. It's
good to be reading all the time. Maybe that's easy for you and you know that you're already doing it
or you have some books that you're interested in or you bought $20 bucks and you haven't even dove
in yet. Kind of like me. I buy a lot of books and then some I leave and some I read. And if that's
not the case, a little tip for you is this... just go to the best seller list and go through there
and find a best seller that's interesting to you. It could be fiction, nonfiction,
whatever. But always reading a book. Always having something that you're reading. And that you're
just learning from or just gathering any kind of interest from, if it's some sort of fiction novel,
is really good. So combining all this stuff. You're looking at headlines,
you're going on a cool subreddit like Today I Learned to learn some new stuff.
And then you're reading a book to learn even more things. All this combined if you do this, and it's
not that hard, some easy tips there... you are going to have a lot of information in your head.
And what this is going to do is it's going to make conversation easy to continue.
What happens is you end up talking to people, you end up approaching girls,
and when you're talking to them, little words might come up little things might come up that
might remind you of something that you learned, something that you know, something that you
are reading about, something that came up in a headline that you can say in conversation.
And it's pretty cool because then you have all this stuff, it's easy to talk to anyone.
Another benefit of this is not just talking to women, but talking to anyone. Networking. This
goes beyond small talk because this is information that might be interesting to you which then can be
interesting to the person you're talking to and make conversation more interesting which makes
the conversation go on longer and can make a woman more attracted to you. Here's a little breakdown
for you. If you're like okay, that was a lot. What do I do with all this? It's very simple. What you
can do tonight, if you have 10 minutes, and here's what I'll do... I want you to write down below
"I did the 10 minutes!" And hopefully you really did it. I want to see
over 300 at least comments that say "I did the 10 minutes!" People are gonna be like
what's going on? Why is it saying that? Here's the 10 minutes you're going to do. 3 minutes,
read headlines. That's actually quite a long time so you don't even need that much. But either way
3 minutes go on any new site and read a bunch of headlines. You're going to do this tonight.
That's 3 minutes. Another 3 minutes, you're going to go through Amazon, pick a best seller, buy it.
That should also sometimes only take like a minute, but you might be searching through
and want to find something that you really like and you know you're gonna read. That's 3 minutes.
We have 4 minutes left. I want you to go to Today I Learned on Reddit. Reddit.com/R/todayIlearned.
Go there and for 3 to 4 minutes read some of the cool stuff. And this is all gonna be fun for you.
It's going to be interesting, especially on that website. Do that. That's what you
can do with. this material. And you can even make this into a habit of reading every day,
looking at the headlines every day and looking at Today I Learned. Or a bunch of other subreddits.
Reddit is full of really interesting cool stuff. But I always want to give you one that's specific
that you can use. If you keep up with this... and this is one thing to look out for it, you got to
make sure you keep up with this. If you do, your conversations are going to go to another level.
I know that sounds really like magical and is that really true and I'm still shy.
That's okay. Get my Hooked program which is going to teach you how to not be so shy
and be even better at conversations. I have more conversation tips in there. But either way, this
is going to be a great tool in your arsenal that's going to help general conversation altogether.
I hope that helps. If you did the 10 minutes write it down below. Check out the Hooked
program for more help. I hope this video helped and I'll see you on the next one.