we become what we think about focus on
what you want rather than focusing on
what you don't want so who do you want
to be you know why why did why are you
here on this planet you live according
to the principles of love compassion you
know appreciative joy you know
celebrating other people's successes but
how do you overcome hatred and confusion
and just having a good heart then I
think that's what happened to me then I
start to get clear about what what I
like to do and how I can be of service
how can I help other people that we were
wired for success but it's how we relate
to our experience that determines
whether we're chipping away or we're you
know kind of burying that sense of
wholeness that we that were born with
it's just that we forget it we don't
look inside we're looking outside and so
unless we're still and we think about it
and we understand that I was born with
this masterpieces no one's can give it
to me or take it away it's it's an
inside job and so if I look at what's
right it just it makes makes a lot of
sense so it's whether you're coming from
a place of scarcity or I would say
survival mode or coming from growth mode
which has to do with yes I can't yes to
life and I I have the capacity and the
responsibility to make it different but
to make it make it better having that
faith that vulnerability to just see
things that are hard to see gotta get
comfortable being uncomfortable so can
you handle the truth
it's a question and if you can't then
you if you see that you can say well is
if I'm going to change I'm gonna have to
figure out how to deal with that
discomfort until the point that I can
see what I need to see then I can change
it so as the persistence a continuing to
do something until you can do it
is is a is most of the work this is just
continuing to make mistakes learn from
mistakes but the mistakes are viewed as
feedback not as I'm a failure it's just
an event now who we are so that error
correction is really important and when
you can see when you attribute it to
something you can learn or change now
you got faith and confidence to do it
versus if you've seen it like oh I'm
just not strong enough I'm not tall
enough and all of that that's just
that's what I call the negative
committee telling you you can't do
anything rather than saying well let me
see what can i what I can do so it's
like a child learn how to walk right
same thing your life can change your
life can be more than just a place it
can be your future your success this
change this change takes courage it
takes courage to stand up and break down
the aspects of your life that you know
is holding you back
let your progress be idolized let it
speak for itself
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average becomes sort of like this slow
asphyxiation it's almost like an
anesthetic and that overtime would
become kind of immune and dulled to the
average that we're becoming I know this
is true at least for me you probably
experienced it yourself too and so over
time we sort of minimize where we're at
in other words I'm a little pudgy
instead of being know your fat ass right
you know you don't magnify the degree to
which the pain ought to be affecting you
and so really what he means on that is
listen you're gonna get out of your life
what you'll accept that's really
difficult for people I think to
understand is look what you think you're
worth and what you're gonna tolerate is
absolutely what you're gonna bring into
your life and what the outward part of
your life is gonna look like and so I
live by that like I let myself sort of
feel the pain and the difficulty of
being not where I want to be in whatever
that areas would be my spirituality my
relationships my money
I let myself feel that pain because as
you know there's two motivators right
there's the gaining of pleasure right
wanting to go get something chasing the
dream but then there's the avoidance of
pain and for a lot of champions that's a
pretty big driving force for them and so
at least for me I I leveraged both of
those things on me to get myself to take
action one of the reasons I'm relatively
fit is not just peak state I have an
uncle and my family that died at 50
years old of a heart attacks my
godfather my dad's only brother I kind
of resembled him and I look like a plan
so on the way back from his funeral my
reticular activating art attacks on the
TV screen on the airplane I listen to
music is the Oprah Winfrey Show she's
going through a new heart scam
unplug my headphones plug into this
airplane one I scheduled it I went in I
had a world class doctor who understood
reasons and levers that it just
prescribed and cooler only coachable you
need to do this you need to do this that
doctors do it take his pill take this he
understood leverage and reasons what you
use to take the scan then you go to
lunch you come back I took the scan I
went those I had a burrito I came back
and I'm in the law when I walk in I sit
down the doctor comes up and he says
oh my I can't believe these arteries are
in that young body got my attention we
walk back in we sit down he could still
go you need Crestor eat clean get out of
here is know what an average doctor does
right No wired me with huge reasons he
goes let me ask you a question I heard
your wife's pregnant you have I said I
have a son and he says do you want to be
there when he graduates from high school
to be there for that day I said yes sir
yeah he goes your wife's pregnant what
do you have it I said a daughter this is
where you get a dad he goes she was six
months pregnant he goes do you um would
you like to walk her down the aisle on
her wedding day are you okay that it's
some other man I went what the is on
this skin right like and he goes I want
to be very clear with you if you keep
going down the road you're going
there'll be some other man with your son
at graduation high school and a
strangers walking your daughter down the
aisle that's not even born yet on her
wedding day and I went Klum and he goes
but if you do exactly what I tell you to
do you'll be there and so to this day
brother there are mornings when I wake
up not every morning I don't want to go
to the gym I go Bella's wedding Bella's
wedding Bella's wedding so my standards
are high because of my big old reasons
other dudes may miss the gym that day
cuz they're not gonna miss their
daughter's wedding if they don't go but
I've convinced myself I get emotional
I've convinced myself on this my
daughter's wedding so I will get my ass
out of bed at 4 o'clock in the morning
and I will get to that gym because my
reasons are bigger so my standards are
higher so that's what I think causes us
to have great standards as huge reasons
when you're inspired by something or
someone in your life you feel the magic
now's the time to be the magic what are
you gonna do are you gonna let the
Masters inspire you to feel it or are
you going to strive to be a master
it's your choice the magic is waiting
not only for you just a feeling but so
be it
nobody can take this away in your life
you can't escape anything that goes
along with life you know we are not
amending the problems drama trauma the
tragedy you know we all here as human
beings so you know when you're going
through some sort of difficulties you
know first fighting or whatever that
difficulty may be you know you know we
do with within your power in terms of
how to start slowly you know get
yourself out of that situation and you
believe you'd be optimistic about you
know being negative about a situation
stand in that place it never helps you
know it's nothing wrong with
understanding that place feeling bad
about it looking at it for what it is
but don't stay there you've got to get
back on that other side and start
looking at the resolved resolution of
how can I get back to feeling good and
feeling prosperous again to where I'm
not dealing with this obstacle
words are very powerful very powerful so
the thing is about getting within
yourself and understand who you are to
kind of you know what off those negative
comments that's coming to work by
virtually always prepared you know you
have to go for those things in order to
see it in light of it and the light I
didn't at the time you know I don't
think anything is gonna just be like
this throughout your life and then you
have to go through that difficult
overcome obstacles because it's a
testament of your character of who you
are and how years to deal with certain
things in order to get yourself back on
it playing field everything happened for
a reason
no regrets all the negative things that
happened I'm thankful for it because I
learned hopefully I learned from those
situations and all the positive things
I'm humbly grateful that those was able
to take place and still striving to be
the best I can be and you know going
forward equals me I can we carry some
kids to be the best they can be you know
anything is possible positive thinking
is also translates in them you know so
when you have something that's positive
out there you can be you know the best
you can be you know and the negative out
there and you could bring down the worst
person misery loves company misery loves
company so we are not debbie down as we
more uplifters you know we always no
matter what the situation with the
situation is we're gonna try to look for
the outcome the better of that situation
you know if we can't find a resolution
to get out of it you know we're gonna
keep on searching or continue to try to
find a resolution to get out of because
that's what you do you know that's how
you get to the bottom of that's how you
get to the facts in the answer