guys it's been a while hasn't it it's just weird well howdy partners howdy partners
welcome to the Pattersons oh she's forgotten what we say it's been two
weeks since she's forgotten what we said so much has happened since we last sat down this
video is going to be split into a couple of different parts um number one is the wedding
we had our wedding we had a wedding ceremony well wedding reception
slash ceremony we did have a slash second renewal of vows ceremony to go over really
really briefly we got married in february 222 by the way at two twenty two two two two
two two two two yeah however we never had a actual like full-on ceremony and reception
with all of our friends the first one was just very very small literally ten of us
and i didn't even wear a wedding dress so sam you were I've got something in my ear
itchy sorry my biggest fear is like a spider burrowing oh
please honey while i've got something in my ear she goes by the way my biggest fear is
spider boring i saw a video on myself because now i feel like it like they just saw his eyes
oh please back to the good side so just quickly before we jump into the wedding we want to talk
about the wedding and then we've got a sad topic to discuss yeah so sam finally got
to see me i actually had two wedding dresses that's a whole story but she's not usually that
i'm not bougie like monica didn't go up go into a wedding a wedding dress store and say hey
i need two dresses no there's a whole story with that but i ended up wearing two dresses both were
completely different we never planned to do a first look because monica always wanted to get
my reaction as you walk down the aisle yeah that's always my dream um but our venue and photographer
convinced us to do a first look and it worked out pretty well because monica got to wear her
first dress for the first look and you did all of your dad as well and you better oh my gosh guys
i first did a first look with my dad which was
the most emotional thing ever because i knew i was gonna cry when i saw my dad
i literally saw his back to me and i already was like oh no so i'm gonna insert a clip of that
it was so emotional literally me and my dad were just like balling her out i was gonna say yeah
she started crying as soon as she saw her dad's back her dad turns around and sees she crosses
so he starts crying his eyes out they're both just crying together mentally doing a first
look and then a few moments later you gave him a couple of personal gifts and you start
crying again both of you we're very emotional after did my first look at my dad obviously
i had to do a first look with sam which again i cried because i saw how handsome you looked
and i was like this is not do you guys want to see the faces
we will have a full-on video but that's obviously with the videographer so we don't
have any of that yet obviously with weddings there's so much planning so
we've been planning this since 2020. there's been so much stress leading up to that but
it was the most magical night whenever i talked to anybody about the day
they would say savor it because it's going to go like that it did you got to the venue at 9am
i got there at about 11 with my groomsmen the boys are here what up dude what's going on what up chap
is that my groomsman photos started at 2pm we had three hours to kill in the venue without
knowing what to do so um we may have brought this who's we yeah he was playing rocket league
why are you supposed to be getting ready for the wedding talking of rocket league monica and i have
started streaming on twitter that's the other thing we still haven't even talked about that
here guys we have a twitch account it's linked below with salmon moniker on twitch
i play rocket league she plays cold war and you play a bunch of scary games which is incredible
we've only done like four or five streams so far but we're absolutely loving it we've got a whole
set up in our second bedroom so make sure you check that out guys but for the first three hours
it went really slow my groomsmen and i would just kind of sat around playing rocket league drinking
champagne and it went so slow and i was like wow this day is going really slow as soon as the
photographer arrived it was like we started taking photos at quarter past two i feel like quarter
past two to midnight it felt like it lasted half an hour it was it just went fast i was walking
down the aisle to a song i've always dreamed of walking down to with a violinist like it was
magical and then i saw sam crying and i literally said out loud i'm like no i always did you
i literally said to my dad i'm like oh no like i was like because i started crying as soon as
i saw you wiping your tears i lost sweat i swear i always told myself i wasn't going to cry because
i'm not generally a super super emotional person but i knew you would love that dress like he
didn't see this dress yeah so our first look was done in monica's first dress and then you switched
dresses yeah so when i still got my moment of walking down the island you like see me for the
first time and again all of this has is on video we just don't have it it's what the videographer
is much more professional than us filming if you guys want us to share the wedding baby
if you guys want us to share the wedding video from our videographer when we get it
drop a comment below we saw one small clip of it like they showed us a clip that they took of us
legitimately a movie like actually a movie so i'm so excited to share and see it and but talking
just backtracking talking and walking down the aisle i've always had the best relationship with
monica's father and i know he was joking but it threw me off so bad so monica gets down to
the end of the aisle i go to shake her father's hand i give him a hug and he whispers in my ear
i can still kill you i was not nervous and then i was like and then what did you do the only
way i knew how to react was to slap his bum so i slapped his bum in front of 120 people
here's my dad telling stay like i'll kill you and then sam literally slapped my dad i didn't know
how to be serious so i i started laughing and slapped his bum you always joked about slapping
his butt and i can't believe you actually did it i didn't see any of this so i'm there like
this is so beautiful this is so such a beautiful moment he's whispering love to my future husband
guys don't worry they're actually besties yeah no no i freaking love her so she gets to the end
of the aisle we start reciting our vows her vows were absolutely beautiful his vows tribute to my
mum as well of course sam's vows i'm giving you guys a teaser because we don't have it yet his
vows included harry styles and damon salvatore i literally i had to i was like the fact that
you included harry styles in your bathroom shows how much you love me yes yes it does yes it does
so it's probably 90 degrees outside it was so the pure heat there's no shade or anything monica
is sweating all around here and then crying from here i didn't have a pocket square i had i had a
white rose on my tuxedo so i reached behind and my best man rob monica's brother gives me his pocket
square to white monica's tears and sweat like the video is probably gonna look beautiful but
in reality it was so humid it was over 90 degrees you guys are in layers of oh my what i'm going to
tight dress my absolute favorite part of the day and this probably sounds really selfish i'll make
sure luis was incredible like so everything we could have asked for and shay our brothers
is amazing and he gave us some amazing advice he said after the ceremony you guys take five
minutes and just sit by yourselves and reflect on it together so he set up a whole platter of
all our food in the bridal suite just for us too and we were uninterrupted for the whole cocktail
we actually didn't go we didn't yeah we never went down to cocktail hour because we were like just
so in shock of the day we're just soaking it all in we just got married right there having a
little bit of a feast with my bride how are you feeling darling that was a lot wasn't it yeah
we're remarried we uh we renewed our vows we're married again look at this and look at these these
are called verlums they're incredible i would say that was one of my favorite person it was amazing
and we could like see people outside like mingling and it was just like watching our worlds collide
was so crazy because like sam's and uncle flew over from england so like seeing them talking to
like my aunt uncle and like my british friends talking like my sister i was like this is like
weird like the seeing everybody is so weird my uncle became best friends with my sister and
it's like what's happening it's so weird like everything it was so amazing because we've been
dating for almost seven years so like seeing our families together was so incredible then came the
reception that was madness madness madness madness it was so cool though like hearing everyone's
speeches and doing our cake cutting 18 by one direction i told the dj like on a piece of paper
like months before i was like please play this song because like that's such a special song to me
because i've loved sam since i was 18. that came on and it was like addicted like the world stopped
this was like later on we did our first dance which we were not prepared for but we didn't
i didn't we killed it we literally was gonna be bad but it was really good
we're definitely not professional dancing no we did good it was a
lot of just like swing but it was way we did a little spin we
the ending of the night my dad got us a weird surprise me and my dad love casey
in the sunshine band and he got us a video from casey the sunshine band talking about
her wedding but he also terrified you in his speech because rob monica's dad ends his his
kind of father's speech and he goes okay without further ado casey in the sunshine
he wasn't there but we did get a video which was super awesome i might be biased here the best
friend in the world it was the most fun wedding that i've ever experienced in my entire life every
single person has come up with that spoken to us after like i don't know if they're just saying
it because it said it was the best wedding in the world literally my dad's friends have been calling
him like days after saying i can't stop thinking about the wedding that was like the best one i've
ever been to oh it was just over so nice during cocktail ever when we were upstairs we were so
excited we're like filming we're like finally sitting down talking to each other on camera
showing the food talking about how we felt showing the dress so basically summed up we've logged the
entire day for you guys i took a few clips on my phone i took youtube one clip in your thing which
is all the clips that you guys have been seeing but the 95 of the content was shot on our camera
and we also filmed surprising slash reuniting with your family back in new york when we flew over
and a bunch of stuff like that really really personal stuff on the biggest day of our lives
and someone stole our camera we are 98 sure that it was stolen and not just like
lost because we do remember the last place that we had it we went back and we do as well
the groomsmen remember we went back to the place we called every place in between that
like oh we stayed at a hotel let's just check the hotel we've literally spoke to like every
guest every friend we spoke to photographers the videographers like maybe they accidentally took it
no we've spoken to the suit rental company like did did we accidentally put it in a suit bag
we checked every car every house we went to the venue we literally i literally pulled all the sofa
cushions off the sofa in the groomsmith because we left it on the table in the groomsmen suite
and i very specifically remember where i left it because it was on the edge of the sofa and i
thought if someone's going to sit on the sofa the camera's going to fly off so i put it on the table
every single thing from the wedding is accounted for apart from our camera and it's
devastating it's heartbreaking obviously the groomsmen slash bridal suites aren't you're
not allowed to have security cameras in them because people are changing there so there are two
rooms in the entire building that do not have to and this was the end of the night yeah we are
actually devastated about that so if you're the person who stole our camera can we just have the
sd card back yeah please just keep the camera just give us our sd card anyways thank you so
much for watching and we're going to be much more active again get ready for the weekly videos and
tons more tick tocks we are back we're ready and we can't wait to share whatever we do whatever
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