Tripp here from Tripp Advice.com and today we’re going to be talking about how you
can use “mixed signals” to get a girl interested.
That’s right.
I’m going to be showing you how you can use this technique so it draws out a curiosity
about you and makes a girl want you even more.
The first thing you have to know is why this works.
What happens when you’re building attraction with a girl and getting her interested?
It’s all a process that is emotional, not logical.
When you’re getting a girl interested, you’re spiking her emotions.
There’s nothing you can logically say or do to convince her to like you.
It’s all about changing her mood, not her mind.
Getting her into an emotional state and once you do that, that is going to draw intrigue
and then start to build attraction.
Once this happens, then you’ve got to get her invested in you.
What does this mean?
Once you trigger attraction, once you get her intrigued by you, you have to build investment.
You have to get her more interested and the more you can get a girl interested in you,
the more she’s going to want to give you her phone number the more she’s going to
want to sleep with you.
The more she’s going to want to spend time with you.
A great technique to get her move invested and interested in you is this idea of push
and pull.
This is a great technique.
It’s been around for many years.
This is going to send her mixed signals that you are and aren’t interested in her.
It’s going to confuse her a little bit and this is going to create an emotion of confusion
and also mysteriousness which in turn is going to get her to want you more.
What I mean by this idea of push pull is you’re metaphorically pushing her away and pulling
her toward you and pushing her away and pulling her toward you.
And you’re going to do this by showing interest and showing disinterested.
The combination of these two, like I said, draws a little confusion, helps flirt with
her, and shows that you’re not needy.
Most guys that are too needy, they show too much interest and come off very desperate.
I bet you there’s a lot of guys out there who are doing a lot more pull than push.
A guy is too scared to metaphorically push her away because they think the girl will
not be interested.
But that’s further from the truth.
A great analogy here is when you’re playing with a string and playing with a cat.
Cats love string, they love playing with a string.
However, if you give a cat a string, if you literally just drop the string down and let
the cat have it, it’s not going to be interested in it.
It’ll just sit there, play with it a little bit, and then walk away.
But when you start to take the string and push it and pull it away from the cat, it
starts to get more curious about it.
You give the cat a little string, you pull it away, give the cat a little string, you
pull it away.
It draws a curiosity.
In a sense, that’s what we’re doing here.
You’re going to be pushing by being more of a challenge and then you’re going to
be pulling by showing interest.
I have some great verbal examples that I can show you the next time you’re talking to
a girl.
Don’t copy these.
I’m showing these examples to give you an idea of what push pull looks like.
You can say something like “You’re not my type.
You’re too nice.
However, I might be able to make an exception.”
So you’re saying, you’re not my type, you’re pushing her away.
I don’t mean literally, I mean metaphorically.
You’re showing her this disinterest.
Then you say, however I might be able to make an exception, and you pull her toward you.
Meaning you’re showing her interest.
Here’s another great line.
“I can’t have you around me (push).
You’re too cute (pull).
Get away (push).”
Again, this is you showing interest and disinterest and all doing it with one sentence.
You can be saying this to her mid-conversation in a reply to something she’s saying.
You say “You know I can’t be around you.
You’re too cute.
Get away.”
This is sending mixed signals that you’re sort of interested, but you’re not interested
and all of it together makes her more curious about you.
Here’s another example to hammer the point in.
You can say “We would make a good couple, but I bet that we’d fight all the time.”
We’d make a good couple, pull, showing interest.
But then you say, but I bet we’d fight all the time, it wouldn’t work out.
Pushing her away.
The next time you’re with a girl I want you to try some of these out.
I want you to come up with your own though.
I want you to see if there’s anything that could work even better than this.
If you have an idea, write it in the comments below.
I want to hear from you.
By the way, this is a video idea that I got from someone who was joining my Facebook Live.
I got a Facebook Live show that happens every single Tuesday and someone asked me “How
do you make a girl more curious about you?”
And I thought I have a great answer for that, I should probably make a video out of it.
What I want you to do is go to facebook.com/trippadvice.
I want you to like the page and join my Facebook Live that I do every single Tuesday.
Press the like button so you can get notified of when to join the live show and I’ll be
there to answer your questions.
You can call in, you can write in the chat and I’ll be there to personally answer your
question.
Go ahead, check that out, write a comment below and I’ll see you on the next video.