Sawasdee Krub! It's Kittichai in Thailand here!
In this episode of Valentine's special, we are going to interview Thai women
How to find out if they are single or not.
And what is the best way to ask them on a date.
So, let's skip the intro and go straight to the video!
[Before we start, what's your name?] - My name's Yugi
- My name's Toei.
- My name's Jamie - My name's Aomsin
My name's Beam, sophomore at Faculty of Law
- My name's Aoi. - My name's Kate.
- I'm Ying
(Let's assume that you're single)
- You don't have to assume - We are single
(Do you do something differently when you're single vs. when you are taken?)
I think it's somewhat different.
For example, when I have a boyfriend, I have to report him wherever I go
But when we are single, we don't have to do that.
It's easier to go somewhere without having to worry about telling someone
(How about you?)
I don't have that experience yet.
I have been single for 18 years. Please let me tell you about it here.
(She's single! It's your chance, guys!)
(How about do you dress differently when you have a boyfriend vs. when you are single?)
- No (Not at all?)
No, I dress normally. There's no difference.
I probably post something funny [on the social media]
I probably hang out with friends instead of going out with my boyfriend when I'm single.
I think...
People who are single probably promote themselves on Facebook,
uploading a lot of pictures and going out alone.
(Remember that guys!)
Behaving differently? Hmm... I don't think so.
(So, you're pretty much the same whether you are taken or single?)
Yes, I would be still be the same.
(Do you think there's a way to tell if a woman is taken or single just by looking at her?)
(How about your friends? Do they behave differently when they are single?)
I think my friends would post on social media to let others know they are single.
But for me, I wouldn't do that.
(Let's supposed there's a guy and he wants to know if you are single or not,)
(What's the best way to ask?)
When a man wants to ask me?
(Yeah, what kind of questions do you want to hear?)
I think that depends on the person.
- You can just come up and ask about it.
- Something like "Are you single?", "Are you seeing someone?"
I mostly hear something like "You are so cute! Do you have a boyfriend?".
(So, what's your answer?)
No, I don't have a boyfriend.
You have to walk up to the person and show some interests.
(What should I say in that situation?)
You have to go alone and then...
ask the person to take a picture for you.
(Remember this trick, folks!)
You can ask something like "Did you come alone?"
or "Are you here with your boyfriend?"
something like this - Those were some basic questions (for guys).
For me,
If I'm single and I'm interested in a guy, I'll start to approach him.
But if I'm not interested in him, I'll tell him that I already have a boyfriend.
(So, you really approach men?) - If I like him, yes.
(That's like 1 in a million chance to meet a woman who approaches men)
(So, do you really approach men?)
If I'm attract to a guy, I'll "stalk" him on social media.
Reading and liking his posts.
(So you are not really telling him directly?) - No, I'll let him know by himself.
And hopefully, he'll message me.
(I thought what you meant was to approach him face-to-face). - No, no, no.
I'll discreetly like and share his posts for example.
(Do you like to be asked directly or indirectly?)
Directly.
(What should I say if I'm that guy?) - For example...
"Do you have a girlfriend?" or something like this.
Just ask me directly. I'm a straightforward person.
("Are you single?" like this?) - Yeah
([Douchbag Imitation] "Are you single, girl?") - Yes, I am!
(Holy Shit! Remember this move guys!)
I really want to be asked in a [in unison:] direct manner.
Because I'm straightforward, so you can directly ask me.
There is no need to beat around the bush or indirectly ask about it.
If you want to know, you can just directly ask if I'm dating someone
If I'm available and interested in you, then we can start the dating process.
(How about you?)
[Hand gesture:] Same with her.
- She's so experienced!
(What exactly should I say if I want to find out if you are single or not?)
- Something like "Hey girl, do you have a boyfriend?"
(Do you have a boyfriend?)
And I'll answer "I'm single" - Feel free to approach us!
How do I say?
You can directly ask, but if I'm not interested, I'll tell you that I already have a boyfriend.
If I'm interested, I'll tell you that I'm single! (A boyfriend card is so handy!)
Yeah, if I'm interested, then I'll surely let you know. If not, then yes, expect "I have a boyfriend" response.
(That is better than downright rejection, ain't it?)
If a man wants to ask you on a date, do you want him to call or message you?
[Both:] Calling is better. (Why?)
- It's more convenient to talk - It's easy to ask and make plans where on where to go.
It's much more clear this way.
I think messaging is better.
(Why?) - I'm...
I like chatting more than talking on the phone.
(I see, you have more time to response) - Yeah
I prefer calling.
(Calling? Why?)
Well...Messaging seems like you are not very serious about taking a girl out.
Calling looks like you are serious and committed about the date.
And I think it's better to call.
I prefer calling. It makes me feel more special.
I feel that he wants to see me if he calls me.
Messaging me can't makes me feel special the same way calling does.
(How about you?)
- Either is fine for me.
Calling or messaging?
[Thinking]
Either way is fine for me.
(That was easy.) - Yes, both methods are fine.
What do you want to say to single people watching this clip on Valentine's day?
Valentine's day
Some people say it's a bad day to be single.
But for some, it's a great opportunity
You might meet someone new on Valentine's day.
For single people like us, we probably have to stay single for a while
but we are hoping to find the right person someday.
If you are single and happy, then stay single!
To single people? (Yes)
Don't be jealous of other people! You can be single and you can be happy. To single people? (Yes)
Don't be jealous of other people! You can be single and you can be happy.
You still have friends and family to hangout with.
No need to be jealous [of couples] - You don't need to have BF/GF
- You don't really need a GF/BF.
(Listen to them guys! You don't need GF/BF!)
Just act normal like other days.
Just chill and hangout with friends.
[in derogatory language]: Just stay single! You don't need a husband!
(Thank you so much!)
The video is now ended!
I want to summarize a few things here.
You see that when I ask women, they have mixed opinions.
Some women like calling and some like texting
But you can agree that the majority of what I interviewed today want to be called.
If you like someone and if you have their number,
Why don't you just call them right now and just ask them on a date?
If you don't know how to do it, just ask them!
"Are you free this week?", "Maybe we can go for a coffee or a dinner together?"
And that's it, she or he can either say yes or no.
The worst thing they can do to you, is to say "no", you know?
It's not that hard.
So, if you like someone,
Just go ahead and go for it.
Or if not, if you don't have the courage,
Then you can just play with dogs. Just like I do
Everyday
Say hi to my dog!
Just kidding, but it's kinda true, isn't it?
So, yep, go ahead and call them!
Or just go play with dogs, just like I do.
I hope you have a happy Valentine's day everyone!
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