in this video I want to share the three
most important things that allowed me to
manifest my husband fast
I'm crystal from the school of
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so manifesting love is a topic that can
really sound very woowoo and out there
and kind of crazy and esoteric so I want
to just break down some of the most
important steps so you can just actually
implement this into your life so the
first thing is to set an intention now
setting an intention is something that
also is widely misunderstood it can sort
of sound like wishy-washy or just like a
wish something that you want that's been
an intention an intention has power
behind it so for example when I decided
that I was ready to call in the love of
my life to call in my person calling my
partner I declared that year the year of
the man because that's what an intention
is about it's about putting your energy
behind something that you want to do
it's not about to just say oh I hope
this happens maybe it'll happen maybe it
won't it's about putting the force of
your will behind it that is a powerful
powerful thing that you're then sending
out it's powerful for your own focus and
direction
but it's also telling the universe this
is what I want it's even a stronger than
a goal because before you even start
taking action you've put your energy
behind another way you can think about
it is the difference between saying oh
I'd like that to happen that'd be really
nice as opposed to this is going to
happen no matter what I'm going to do
everything in my power to ensure it does
step two is having absolute clarity
people love to say that dating is a
numbers game dating is not a numbers
game that doesn't make any sense at all
that just means that anyone who dates
the most people is the one who's going
to end up in the most successful
relationship and clearly that's not how
it works not a numbers game dating is a
sifting game the best sifter wins what
that means is that you have to have
absolute clarity on what you desire and
then you actually have to act on it
clarity means you
actually know what you want and what you
need and what will bring joy and
satisfaction to a relationship here's
one thing that I see with women all the
time is that they don't actually know
what they want they think they know what
they want they have an idea in their
mind of like oh this will be so amazing
this will be perfect
but it's actually not leading them
towards a happy healthy loving committed
relationship so let me give you an
example of this one of the biggest
misconceptions I hear about is this
concept called settling you know women
see this all the time I don't want to
settle I don't want to settle I refuse
to settle and then they meet a guy and
he's really really good-looking and he
has a great job and he has plenty of
money and he's so charming and he treats
her like garbage and they're just like
oh my God he's so hot
and they think they're not settling and
then there's a guy who's a little bit
more average but he's kind he's got
similar values and goals and he shows up
consistently over and over again and I'm
not saying he's like a schmuck he's just
not gorgeous necessarily he's maybe not
the richest man you've ever met but he
shows up he's investing in you he's
committed to you they said well I don't
want to be with him I don't want to set
off with the guy who's not interested in
you who's not investing in you who's not
stepping up for you at you're settling
with the other one you're not because
suddenly isn't really about the
qualities of the other person settling
is about their intention their
investment and the way you feel when
you're with them and without them this
is another thing that I see is that a
woman will feel great when she's with a
particular guy and she'll be like oh my
god he's so amazing but then they don't
hear from him for weeks
and they're miserable the entire time
because they don't know where he stands
he's not actually showing any sort of
continuing interest again it's not just
how you feel in the moment with them but
how are they showing up when you're not
together
are they interested in maintaining any
sort of connection with you that's a big
part of clarity is understanding what
you actually need and want what's
actually going to lead you towards
happiness in the long term so that's the
first thing it's understanding the
distinction between when are you
settling versus what are you not
settling and then understanding what
qualities are actually going to lead you
towards a happy healthy loving committed
relationship with someone a relationship
that can last that will actually bring
you joy over the long term so the way
that you have to think about this is
subjective versus objective qualities a
lot of people get very hung up
the objective qualities things like
where did he go to school what job does
he have how tall is he
you know does he have the color eyes
that I prefer all these objective
quality it's okay to have some
preferences but you have to understand
that most of the objective qualities
that you're considering are not actually
leading you towards long term
satisfaction happiness they're very
surface you want to make sure that you
keep your focus on subjective qualities
things like kindness trustworthiness and
humor the third part of this clarity
understanding what settling is having
clarity on the subjective qualities that
are actually to your own happiness and
satisfaction but then the third part of
it is really sifting effectively then
now you have all this information and
you actually have to use it it's one
thing to sort of sit down and write out
a list here's what I want it's another
thing to encounter someone and actually
decide I'm going to date this person or
not based on where we are or are not
aligned that's really the challenge
right is you might meet someone who's
tall dark enhance that and so charming
but he's not kind he's not loyal he's
not interested in a committed
relationship at all and then a good
sifter was able to say you're super hot
I love our chemistry but no this is not
for me those are the women that are able
to actually get into the committed
relationships that they want that's the
way that I was able to go from single to
married to the love of my life in less
than a year so I want to hear tell me
below in the comments what are the five
qualities that you would say are the
most important for you to find in a
partner step three is create a daily
practice with manifestation what you're
trying to do is become an energetic
match for the thing that you desire I
know that this sounds a little bit out
there but all this really means is that
you want to believe that you are worthy
of the thing that you desire that the
thing that you desire exists and that
you can have it that's really what it
comes down to so energetic matches a
more accurate term but it's really just
about believing that you can have what
you want if you've ever thought what I
want doesn't exist the men that I like
don't like me I'll never be able to have
the relationship I desire I'm not good
enough I'm not this or that enough I'm
not rich enough I'm not from this kind
of backgrounds all of that means you're
not an energetic match for what you
ultimately desire because you're not
believing that you can have the thing
you want in my program the school of
manifesting love I go step by step do
how you can actually upgrade your entire
belief system so this becomes really
easy and natural so step 3 did I say
what step 3 one of the ways that we can
shift our beliefs and start believing in
something different is through
repetition so creating a daily practice
allows us to do that it allows you to
keep your intention this powerful force
that you've put out with your energy top
of mind it allows you to make decisions
that are in alignment with what you want
to create for example for me one of the
things that I did was I looked at my
manifesto every day in the morning I
would look it over really quickly and
then at night I would look at it again
it allowed me to stay focused on what I
wanted as I read through my manifesto
more and more it became more real to me
it became more vivid it felt like
something that was not only possible but
close something that I could absolutely
indefinitely have so that's was really
powerful
so just to do a brief recap step 1
create a powerful intention put the
force of your will behind it step 2 is
to create absolute clarity so you can
become a better sifter and then step 3
create some sort of daily practice to
keep what you desire top of mind today I
gave you 3 steps that you can take that
are very powerful but it's not the full
picture I have a 6 step magnetism
formula there's six steps for
manifesting the love that you want and
I've actually created a free masterclass
completely around this I go in-depth to
each of the six steps so you can
understand some of the biggest mistakes
that you're making and what you need to
do to change them you can sign up for
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