How to be successful with women.
If you ask a man what are the 3 things he would like most in life, invariably having
success with women will be on each of them.
And it is true that while each of us has its strategy, there are several tips that it is
always good to keep in mind when you want to draw the attention of that girl that drives
you crazy.
In this entry, we will teach you how to be successful with women and what are the points
that you should always keep in mind in order to establish a relationship with the female
sex.
1. Positive attitude.
The first step you must follow to succeed with women is to make an internal change in
yourself.
Many men think that they feel a little intimidated by women, either because of fear of rejection
or ridicule, and this is where they lose the first battle.
Send fears out, anxieties and nerves, all this will play against you when you make your
first approach and you will be irrevocably rejected.
To achieve success, what you need is to show confidence in yourself, think that if you
do not trust yourself, how will she do it?
Because although there are many strong and independent women, they are always grateful
for a man to back them up and give them security and protection, and if you can not transmit
this with your attitude it will be more difficult for them to notice you.
The first lesson you must learn to conquer women is to be a man with high confidence
and self-esteem, besides this will be very useful in other aspects of your life.
2. What are you afraid of?
Once you have clear the attitude you must take, it is necessary to reconsider and identify
what is the reason for your fear towards women: are you afraid of them?
Are you afraid of their reactions? Or are you simply afraid that they tell you no?
If what you fear is their reactions to you, you should know that the vast majority of
women react from neutral to positive when a man approaches them and if they're going
to dispatch you with a negative, they are usually very polite.
The reasons why a woman may get angry when approaching her, is if you have offended her
in some way (which depends on you), if they are in a bad mood or just if they are in a
hurry, and this does not depend on you, so you should not be discouraged when receiving
a negative response.
3. Invite a woman to go out.
Although it is true that women are looking for a man with initiative, they do not want
someone too heavy so you should be able to control your impulses, being too insistent
or harassing her by all possible channels of communication will not give you a good
result.
To invite a woman out, you must demonstrate security and express yourself correctly, for
example, it is not the same to say: Would you like to go out some day?, than, What if
we go to the movies this Saturday?
Do you see the difference?
In both cases, you are making an invitation but in the first one everything is in the
air, you do not leave anything concrete, so she can give you a positive answer without
specifying anything and then find any excuse to avoid it, unnecessarily prolonging the
date.
On the other hand, in the second case, you are already proposing a place and a day, the
range of answers that she can give you is smaller, so in this case you are showing much
more security and also the answer of her will not be so ambiguous.
4. How to have a successful date with a woman?
Talking to a woman during a date should be something natural to you, the conversation
should not seem forced and for every smile that you manage to awaken in her, you will
have gained a point in your favor.
But beware! We are not talking about making antics but to make witty comments (although
some moderate clowning occasionally has its point too).
Give her space to talk and listen to her, be interested in her activities and if you
can then make a reference to some affirmation made by her, much better, it will be an indicator
that you were paying attention to her.
Body language is very important at this time, as we all know, a large percentage of the
interactions between people is said by our expressions and behavior rather than with
our words.
Adopt a position close to her, smile, show yourself open and avoid crossing your arms
or using your hands to cover your face, try to focus your eyes on her, if you spend the
time looking away or making annoying noises you will be sending the wrong message , what
you need at this moment is to show her that she can trust you and have a good time.
The important thing during a meeting is that there is a balanced exchange in the conversation,
it is not good to let her talk to her alone and not that everything is a monologue about
you, ask her questions whose answer can not be synthesized in a simple "yes" or "no" ", Let
her be expressed and you also contribute with comments and anecdotes.
Finally, once the first date is over, it is good to let her know that you have had a good
time and, if she has too, she will let you know by leaving the door open for a second
approach.
5. Be thoughtful.
Finally, success with women lies in the details, regardless of the stage you are in a relationship
with a woman always be thoughtful.
Women like to be surprised, so be creative and never let the relationship fall into a
monotony because this will make the interest to be lost and she will end up moving away.
With these simple tips you already have everything you need to go out and conquer the girl of
your dreams, without forgetting to have fun and being yourself.
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