Hey guys, so we're going to look at nine signs
for how to know you are dating a promiscuous woman
and the one sign she's really and truly reformed
and you don't have anything to worry about.
Because the reality is
she may seem sweet and even wholesome
but that's not always an indicator
of angelic behavior.
And if she's spent a lot of time in hoe ville
there's a much greater chance
that she will cheat on you, leave you, or level up
and crush your soul like an evil demon.
The fact is *** clothing,
provocative behavior,
and even sexual activity
is not always a sure sign
of active ***.
And you need to pay attention for the signs
that she might still be a member of the in and out club.
And what to look for to know for sure
she's packed her bags on tramp town
and is actually worth the effort.
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It can be difficult to know
if she's actually a promiscuous woman
based on her behavior
or her clothing or her appearance
especially if she tries to hide things from you.
So, the more of these signs you see
the more likely she is still
a promiscuous woman or wants to be.
She admits to cheating
but blames the guy.
If she's been unfaithful in the past
in her relationships
and always blames the guy
even if he was a real jerk
and doesn't take responsibility
for any part herself
then yes, that might be a sign
that she's actually a promiscuous woman.
At minimum she should be able to own up
to her choice in cheating
rather than working on the relationship
or leaving first and this makes her
at high risk to potentially
cheat on the next guy she dates
if he does something "wrong" in her eyes.
This one may seem obvious,
she has or has had
a lot of one-night stands
I'm going to tie this one into the sign
she might be reformed,
but I'll explain that a bit later.
Now, it's one thing
if she's been in
some "semi-long-term" relationships with guys
and then had a break in between those relationships
before bumping over to the next guy
without cheating but
a string of one-night stands that she's told you about
or that you know about from
whatever sources you have
actually shows a woman who's either not ready to settle down
or incapable of settling into
a long-term relationship at this time
and she might still be a promiscuous woman.
Or she's indoctrinated into
pro *** feminism
and is emotionally damaged to goods
something that is a common trait
amongst modern feminists,
third and fourth wave, wave those girls bye-bye.
And if she brags about her body count
you can count on not being her last conquest.
And this brings us to number three,
she's not as selective about
her partners as she should be.
Okay, so let's say she has
had a string of "shorter-term" relationships
but they've been monogamous
and she has had breaks in between them
AKA no cheating.
So, she picks up a guy and dates him for a few weeks
or maybe even a few months
but after a short time
then she ditches him and moves on to the next guy.
If she never really takes into consideration
who she selects,
takes home allows into her body.
This could be another indication that
she's a sloppy seconds.
You are dating a promiscuous woman
who will punt you soon,
which kind of ties into this next one,
which is going to disappoint you a little bit.
Four, she talks about *** a lot.
Now, while talking about ***
isn't bad in fact,
in some cases it's really good.
Open communication is good in a relationship.
But if she talks about it an awful lot
and especially early on
it could be that she's reeling you in
or it could also be that
she's just promiscuous gentlemen.
I've got news for you.
Whatever she said to you
guaranteed it's not the first guy
she said those words to.
Letting women know
that men who like ***
also like to talk about ***.
Now, of course every new courtship
needs some sexual tension
and innuendo at the beginning
that's called flirting.
You got to have that to build attraction.
But if she skips straight ahead
to explicit conversations
and sharing pictures she wouldn't want her parents to see
that might be a sign that she's actually
still a promiscuous woman
and not ready for something more
emotionally "deep" and fulfilling.
Yeah, you know what I mean.
Okay, now let's look at
one of the most insidious ways
of knowing you are dating a promiscuous woman
and this one actually ties into
the one way to know if she's actually reformed.
Five, she hooks up with you on the first date.
I know. Hooking up first
without actually getting to know the person
is way more common nowadays
especially with younger generation,
but it's still an indication of someone
who places little importance
on actually getting to know someone
before offering up their body parts.
And once again if she's done it with you
guaranteed she's done it with others
no matter what she tells you.
Okay, I retract that.
Very occasionally you are that special guy
but if your relationship starts between the sheets
you won't really know for sure
especially if six,
she don't care if people think she a ***.
She doesn't care if people think she's promiscuous.
Even though modern feminism
will tell you there's nothing wrong with promiscuity
well some women still feel embarrassed
and ashamed by that kind of behavior.
Probably in large part because a lot of men
don't want hoe women
as long-term partners.
They are not the keepers in men's eyes
most of the time.
Being highly promiscuous with other men
is not a quality or character trait
men have high on their list for wife material
or even girlfriend material.
So, if she outright takes pride in it
then she might be someone
who has a more sexually active lifestyle.
Now, she actually has hung up her hoe shoes
this might not bother you more on that in a minute.
How to know if she's hung up her hoe shoes
if she's really hung up her hoe shoes
coming up just in a moment.
But if not and you are ready to settle down
then you could be in for a world of hurt.
So, this next one is kind of sneaky seven,
she dresses *** sometimes.
Now, this one may seem obvious
but it's not always that obvious.
Maybe she dresses rather conservatively
most of the time
but then really sexy and provocative
when she goes out on dates with you.
But how she chooses to dress
can play a part in how much attention she's seeking
from other men
not just how good she wants the look for you.
If she's a slob at home when she's with you
but sexually maxed out fashion wise when you go out
where there's going to be other guys
or when she goes out with her girlfriends
that might be a sign that she's promiscuous.
Or at the minimum still looking for validation
and sexual attention from other men.
Either way, red flag especially if
you've suggested you actually prefer
a more subtle and classy look
and if she's doing that for other guys
then she's probably doing this next one.
She flirts with other men in front of you,
but says she's just bubbly and friendly.
Or maybe she's so subtle about it
she just tries to catch other men's gaze
and make eye contact
without actually saying anything
but you know in your gut
some something's going on.
Trust your gut flirting with other men
is not only disrespectful but it's a sure sign
that you are dating a promiscuous woman.
She either can't or won't commit to you
romantically and sexually
even if she says otherwise.
And it's entirely possible
that she's got a string of other guys
that she's flirting with on the side
as her backup plan
or maybe her next plan.
On that note and then a bonus sign
to know she's still *** nine,
she hides her phone from you or has it locked.
Of course, it's natural in the early stages of dating
to expect privacy
but if you're heading towards exclusivity
and there's a lot of these other signs present
then this is one you definitely want to pay attention to.
It can also be a sign
of trying to cover up or hide
previous indiscretions
or potentially future indiscretions.
Whereas of course,
if she never hides her phone from you and never locks it
then there's probably nothing on there for her to hide from you.
Okay, now here's a sneaky one that
might be kind of hard to clamp down
because she says it's part of her career building strategy
and then the surest way to know
if she actually is reformed.
Bonus, her social media is filled with half naked pictures.
Whether or not she's trying to use social media
as a platform to gain followers
and sponsors and whatever else.
If she's got a lot of half-naked pictures
or very provocative photos on there,
then at the very minimum
she's looking for attention from other men.
Now, to be fair
not every sexy girl on Instagram is promiscuous
but the reality is we do tend to show off our best side
on social media
when she's trying to show off
her backside on social media
well, she might not be ready to commit to just you.
So, she posts a lot of provocative photos
even if they're from your date night
well that might be a sign that she's
still being promiscuous or wants to be.
And if you're actually cut out of all of the photos
because "business"
that's a pretty major sign that
you're not her primary exclusive
I'm proud to be with
please know that I have a boyfriend thing.
So again, the more of these signs you see
the more likely you are dating a promiscuous woman.
But what's the one major sign
that really shows that she's reformed
from her "open door" policy?
Voluntary celibacy.
Okay, you're not going to love this very much
but it's the surest way to know
that she is reformed from her *** days.
If she hasn't slept around
with someone for a long time
I'll give you a general
recommendation in just a minute.
then it probably means
she's put those days behind her
and she's ready for
something more meaningful.
Okay, major key point,
if she's ready for a relationship
in order for a woman
to trust herself in the selection process
the more men she's slept with
the longer she needs to stay celibate
to be able to trust herself
and for you to trust her value.
Okay, so that bears repeating
I'm going to say that in a different way.
If she's ready to settle down
and be monogamous
forever after or at least once to be
she knows she needs to get to know you
to ensure true compatibility
not just based on attraction
and sexual chemistry
before great sex with you
clouds her judgment.
So, what's the right amount of time to wait?
It depends on how old she is
how many guys she's slept with
and how long she's already been celibate voluntarily.
Key point, if she's out there looking for it
but just not getting any she's not ready,
but if she's like nope, not doing it
because I'm going to this time
choose the one I should really be with
then yeah, she might be worthwhile might be.
This is not a guarantee
that you're compatible or that she's ready
or that she's emotionally healthy
but it's the first sign you need to look for.
Rule of thumb and this is actually supported by
more recent studies
if she's been celibate by choice,
very key point there by choice,
for at least a year
then she might actually be
ready, willing, and able
to settle down into
a monogamous committed relationship.
And how do you know
if she's been honest about
her sexual history over the last year or so?
Well, that one's easy.
She's not doing any of the things in this list
including sleeping with you right away.
Now, if she's doing some
or all of the things in this list
then yeah, she might be actually ready to cheat on you soon
or maybe already is.
If you want to know what those signs are
then you're going to want to watch my video
12 urgent warning signs she will cheat on you soon.
And if that's the case that sucks my friend that sucks
and she probably is too.
Thanks for being here, God bless.
Hey guys,
so down by the river.
Yeah, so also note
if she's got
you know one or two of these signs
it doesn't necessarily mean she's promiscuous.
I know someone who
oh, there goes the short bus.
I know someone...
I know I'm getting in trouble for that one.
Who was dating a woman
who really dressed very promiscuously
so you know lots of cleavage tight dresses
short like the whole works
and that was her daily thing
even going to the grocery store.
But she grew up in a community
where that was more common
and she actually wasn't promiscuous
and she was loyal to him for a long, long time.
Well, forever but she eventually died that's sad.
But... So yeah, so one of these
one or two of these signs isn't necessarily
indicative that she's promiscuous.