Hey, what's going on my friends welcome to my youtube channel, my name is Victor
And today I'm going to share with you five things. That might be blocking
your heart chakra
And with this awareness of these five things you can choose to let them go and give them up
Maybe and that will allow your heart chakra to open but what does that mean?
What does it mean to have your heart chakra open? It means to become more present to the underlying
structure of reality which is love to become more present and consciously aware of the
Connection you have with all of life all of life, even the stones and the walls are alive
They are they have a consciousness
They have a loved God like energy that permeates all of them
And when our heart chakra is blocked
Then we don't get to
experience that connection and we tend to live more in our heads and get stressed out and
Sort of it can be this spiral of just not feeling
Our best and this can lead to addiction the negative patterns and all that messy stuff all because we're sort of severed off from source
Severed off from our source, which is that of love. I recently made a video. In fact, I'll leave it up here
It's seven signs of your heart chakra is opening seven signs your heart chakra is healing and it was a very well received video
but I thought you know what some people might have seen that and said
You know what?
I'm not experiencing that and if that's the case then I want to provide this for you
Or maybe you're experiencing some of what I said, but not all of them
It's important right now that we all
Open up our hearts and these five things that you can give up today are gonna help you do that make a profound difference not
Only in your heart chakra opening but just in your life and your overall happiness
Number one one of the main things that I've seen when I would coach people that really blocks people from not only their heart chakra
Opening up and healing but also just their own rapid potential forward moving progress in their spiritual awakening and of life
It's the definition
The anxiety is bad
the definition that anxiety is something to be suppressed to be that people long for it to be gone and
and they don't want it and
Frankly, none of us can blame anyone for not wanting to feel anxiety. I'm not saying I like the flavor of the anxiety
It's sort of an uncomfortable energy. I agree. But what it is is information
Anxiety that's those are a moat
That's an emotional state of being that is a clear indicator that something is out of alignment within yourself that you're maybe
Unconsciously harboring a belief as filtering your own source energy
You're filtering it through that belief in it
It's creating this emotion and when you can sort of use your anxiety as information
Then you can you can you can collide
Yourself and let go of what's no longer serving you so anxiety is good anxiety is saying hey
You're about to take yourself to the next level
Vibrationally, but you need to investigate and see why you're feeling anxiety in this particular
situation
So when I have anxiety I don't I don't fight it I don't suppress it I always always ask myself why
Victor why would you feel anxious in the situation just around your friends and peers?
They're not trying to harm you they don't
Wish you harm or have ill will towards you. In fact, they're being quite pleasant. So why oh, why would you feel
anxiety now
rather than
resistance frustration suppression
Closing off the heart space. I always ask why and whenever I ask why because the energies are so high right now
I usually get the answer pretty darn quickly it let it go when I let it go the anxiety goes away
But it always comes back in new situations when it's time to take another
Growth spurt and as long as you can start saying what's up, how you doing?
Thank you for being here to help me learn more about myself to your anxiety become friends with it
You will your heart will open up you won't be one that's closed off at all
Number two, one of the biggest things that keeps people anyone out of their heart is a resentment
and
It's easy to forgive people for things that don't really bother you all that much
Even though maybe you could justify being upset
But the things that truly do get under your skin and trigger you though
Those are the ones that are can be challenging to
Let go of and yet they're all the same a resentment is gonna trap you it that's what if you resent
Somebody that you are separate off from the that divine connection you have with them, even if they're not a nice person
I'm not saying to condone the
Unjust deeds of other people, but to resent and to resist is to close yourself off
And I've seen firsthand in my own life the the true
Monster of a resentment how it really can manifest don't give an example briefly which I'm almost embarrassed to share
I had this business partner
His name is Marv, and we were real close friends
But as we started to work together for a little while there a couple years
We we got on each other's nerves and and when the business started to kind of fail
We blamed each other and we really got resentful
and sort of didn't acknowledge our own take in the matter and we got very resentful and
I I kind of ignored the resentment I held on to it
I didn't let it go and it built and built and built up and built up and built up and built up and finally I
Was so severed off from my brotherly love for this human being who I still loved to death. He's a close friend of mine
I was so severed off that a one night out of a heated sort of festering. I
Chose to write him this long letter this long main letter clearly pinpointing all the things
I thought he was doing wrong
and it was just a very nasty letter that I'm so ashamed that I
would even write it and then choose to give it to him and he read that letter and
He was hurt and he responded back with his own letter
I think that's what it was the exact same nature and I was hurt and we both just hurt each other badly because of
that
resentment
Okay. I have never seen anything take me out of my heart
Faster and more just more purely than a resentment
I realized that resentments have no place in my consciousness whatsoever in the moment
I find I have one
I immediately try to figure it out and resolve it because I don't like being disconnected from my own heart
I don't think any of us do as well number three and I'm guilty of this too is the hierarchy
Mentality, it's this is especially prevalent in the spiritual community. A lot of people when they first wake up including myself
Decide and conclude that we are spiritual. We're of a higher
Frequency and then we start to look at life to the lens of that hierarchy
Mentality and start to judge people based on low or high low frequency low vibration 3d mentality
Oh goodness. I got along here. Oh goodness. I hate it here. I can't stand being here
I'm so above it right I had that I had that when I would look at people in the world
Eating their fast food or you know with their their moods and they're heavier energy and I would judge them
I would label them and I would disconnect myself
from the true underlying
Commonality that I share with them, which is that overall
Spirits were all made of God
We're all built of love and we're all doing our best
We're all on our own individual journey
we're all eternal Souls having this temporary human experience with our own agendas with their own plan that are all wise and
perfect for each
Individual but that hierarch mentality took me out of that wisdom
it took me out of my heart and it made me actually isolate and sort of live the
Repercussions of one who judges others and judges themselves and puts themselves on a pedestal. I was lonely
I was imbalanced. I was not happy even though I was having all his cool mystical things happened to me. I wasn't very spiritual
I just thought I was and it's something that
I don't know if I if I would have I might not have even
Wanted to hear this if I was where I was back then because it would have been tough
but maybe some of you are doing a little bit of that maybe some of you were doing a lot of that is kind of
what to you if you really want to get into your heart you got to find the love the
Commonality of love then the connection you have for all
people the further I've grown the more dysfunctional I've realized I am and the more similar I am to
Everybody star seed light worker indigo, none of that means anything
we are literally all people doing their best to evolve and grow and be decent and
Some days are better than others
But we're all in this together not just to lightworkers and all that kind of stuff everybody
And once I realized that I had a much easier time being around people
I started making new friends and relationships and I was able to truly feel love and
compassion for those out there who might be struggling like I sometimes do number four is the resistance to
crying
to expressing
Honestly an uninhibited way the emotions that are present
You really see this during a stamp a draw ceremony. This is a cactus plant
Medicine that is designed to bring people into their heart and open them up and make them very aware of their
Emotional states of being but those that have been really closed off
Have a real hard time with this medicine and you can see it in ceremony
This is something I've been fortunate to be good at for that reason. You see I probably cried a hundred times on my youtube videos
but
But and I know it's hard harder for people who have been really wounded in life
It's harder for guys in general that I've observed being, you know, sort of generalizing there
But it's important that we all be are honest with how we feel
Because when we suppress and hold down our emotions, they don't they they go out of the forefront of our conscious mind
But they're still there in our energy bodies affecting us and weighing us down
pulling us down and out of
Our heart space and a lot of times a heart chakra opening is just on the other side of a good cry or a good
punching of a pillow or a good aah
scream
Let out your emotions don't keep them in right now
We're all going through an awakening process as causing all of those dense emotions supreme'
Infringing upon our hearts being opened. It's all coming up and it's gonna be almost impossible
Nowadays to really suppress it. Good luck with that
So I'm gonna start manifesting in your life if you choose to do that, and I know it can be scary
It's never rarely it's really fun to feel vulnerable
But I'm telling you for my own experience. Again, there's one of the things I am good at is I let my emotions flow
I don't suppress them
And therefore I move through things really quickly and can process through
Challenges pretty easily because I just let the emotion sort of play themselves out
Okay, so this advice might not be applicable to everybody but those of you tough macho guys
Maybe it will help you a little bit number five. Perhaps the most
Universal of all things we are all of doing
that are really making a significant difference in the degree that
we are connected to our heart is this is being
unloving
towards
ourselves
I've met a lot of you you're exceptionally nice people
exceptionally
Mindful and considerate people and yet it's a lot of you and me to are
Incredibly cruel
to yourselves
We beat ourselves up. We hold ourselves up to this ridiculous
expectation that makes no sense
And when we don't reach it or embody it 100% of the time which is frickin impossible. What do we do?
we have the negative self critic the negative dialogue we
Self-sabotage we go forth and numb ourselves
With addictions and so forth and escapism and it all comes down
to that core
unlove of ourselves that that that choice to be lenient and
Forgiving to others
But not us. We don't deserve it. We're not enough. We don't we're not worthy of
our own love
That's the crazy-ass
Perspective a lot of us have and I'm still very unloving to myself
I'm not super loving to myself all the time
But I'm aware of it and I do my best to do things to love myself. This could start in a very simple way
There's one time when this is kind of a theme in my life and I remember being in the shower
and just sort of like
Washing my hairs one does and I just was massaging my head like pressing in a very like loving way and just sending myself
Good vibes and loving energy and you know what? It felt really good
It was really easy and take any time
It was just a moment where I woke up and I chose to be loving to myself and I could feel it I could feel
It throughout my whole body
Another way we can do this is to forgive ourselves. We're living in a very challenging
Energetic climate that's extremely
growth
catalyzing it will lead to a lot of imbalance and indiscretion and so forth and
that's to be expected as we have chosen to raise our frequency so quickly so in light of that
Wouldn't it be wise to give ourselves some slack?
I'm gonna write that down Victor give yourself some slack. I'm here with you my friend. I'm not preaching to you
I'm preaching to myself to all of us
Okay, the more you can love yourself
The wider your heart is going to open the more loving
Relationships will come into your life the more blessings you will allow
Into your life the freedom the abundance the health the fun the excitement the passion the purpose
We will receive when we allow ourselves to receive. It's really that simple
So my friend give yourself a hug right now
Hopefully this video will ring with you
Throughout your day and you can catch yourself and your beading up by yourself and you can do the opposite done
Okay, my friends. I hope you enjoyed this video much love cue ball. Thank you
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