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- What I'm gonna share with you
in this video is the most powerful
and the most scary secret,
in our reality.
This is something that touches
on what a lot
of enlightened people touch on.
This is also why some people become depressed,
and don't even know it.
And the way that I explain this,
I think is gonna really change the way you look
at attachment, letting go,
and the way you live your life in general.
So it's gonna make letting go easier.
It's going to make letting go of attachment,
something that is natural.
And it's gonna help you understand more
about your true power,
to create your reality on your terms.
Welcome back to another video.
My name is Aaron
and I help people expand their consciousness.
Now, in this video,
I'm gonna share with you,
the power of something
that is both scary,
and powerful at the same time.
And it's a concept that they say,
I remember hearing like,
show or something,
it was a enlightened,
that said that,
when they went
through the process of enlightenment,
they tried so,
so hard to get it.
And they were really strict.
I remember OSHA was extremely strict with like,
he was talking about
how he would go to bed at the same exact time.
Every day he would walk
for a certain number
of miles every morning at 3:00 a.m.
And he had this really strict discipline
and routine with this intention of enlightenment.
But then what happened,
is he was getting frustrated,
because it wasn't happening.
So what he did,
is he said, screw it.
He completely let go.
He let go.
He was with some friends,
his friends came over,
and they were like, drinking alcohol.
And they're like,
you want some, and knowing he was gonna say no.
And he says,
give it to me.
And he was like stepping out
of that unknown
of what he was always doing.
And once he let go,
the next day he went for a walk,
and he had his enlightenment experience,
or he had that enlightenment.
And he said that he laughed.
He laughed hysterically,
at how stupid the idea
of enlightenment is.
And that was like his realization of enlightenment.
Now, enlightenment is something
that is naturally a state of consciousness
that we all have the ability
to connect to.
It's a part of who we naturally are.
So now enlightenment isn't something you attain or become,
it's something you realize.
Now I'm not enlightened,
but the perspective of it,
the parts of it,
I can see the dynamics of it.
When we talk about raising our level of consciousness,
or get into a level of enlightenment,
because the main part of it,
is understanding that all we have
to do to enlighten,
or raise our vibration
to that level,
is let go of all of which is not us.
Is let go of the things
that we've attached to,
that keep us in a certain bandwidth.
It's almost like we have beliefs
about who we are,
that keep us in a certain bandwidth of energy.
So enlightenment in a way,
is just a letting go.
Now the most powerful,
the most important
and scary thing in the universe,
is that of understanding,
that we and the things in our life,
the circumstances that happened to us,
what people mean to us,
the meaning in our life,
has zero built in meaning.
There is no built
in meaning on anything.
We can, some of us can agree
to different things,
but the built in meaning is neutral.
We give things meaning.
So with that,
it's realizing that that's both scary,
because there's no meaning to life,
and empowering because we give it meaning.
Now meaning, I have found the definition of it.
That's why my phone in my hand,
In semantics, metaphysics,
it means a relationship between two sort of things,
signs and the kinds
of things they intend
to express or signify.
So meaning is relationship.
Now think of it like this.
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If you maybe have a parent,
that you have a bad relationship with,
and maybe you have negative beliefs,
around your worthiness,
or negative beliefs
around your parents,
that may be trickling
into many different areas
of your life,
because the meaning,
the relationship between you
and your mom,
or you and your dad,
if there's unhealed wounds there,
maybe your mom cheated on your dad,
your dad cheated on your mom,
or you felt like they neglected you
when you were a kid,
and you say,
well, I'm not worthy.
And then you think
of all women that way,
or all men that way,
it comes up in your life
in different ways.
The meaning we have,
from things we gave meaning
in the past,
is on autopilot.
And until we become aware of it,
it runs our life.
So if we believe
and have a story,
that men are this way,
women are this way.
It's being reflected back to us.
Now, the thing to remember with this,
is that we can change the meaning.
The thing is,
we remained really rigid,
with the meaning we gave things
in the past.
I know for me,
there are certain things
that this is the way reality is,
and I don't wanna change that.
I don't wanna challenge that,
but sometimes,
or because it's comfortable,
Doesn't mean it is something I can,
I should continue to do.
I used to,
I look at my own life, it's funny.
I was talking to my dad the other day,
about something because my dad
and I both has this experience,
in school where we were both like C
or D students,
in high school.
And then all
of a sudden something happened,
and we became smart.
I graduated with like a 3.8 GPA.
And it was like an honor student,
my dad the same thing back
in the day, and he told me a story.
He said that he was
in a chemistry class,
and my dad's a fire investigator.
He's like an analytical guy.
And he was in a chemistry class.
And the moment he started
to view himself as smart,
he was in this class.
And what happened is,
there was this a test,
And he, or there was this answer,
there was like this problem.
And he got a different answer.
They were all doing the answers
and figuring out this like solution,
or whatever to this problem.
And everyone in the class like agreed
that this was the answer.
And he raised his hand said,
no, that's not what I got.
I got this answer.
What ends up happening is,
my dad had the right answer.
And from that situation,
he said he learned two things.
One to speak up
when you believe something different
than what everyone else believed.
But two, he didn't realize,
and started to see himself
as a smart person.
Same thing happened to me.
I saw myself as a C
or D student.
That was my self image.
That was the meaning,
the relationship I gave
to myself in school,
and just other people.
Then all of a sudden,
I had a class in English.
It was an English paper,
in English like quiz or something.
And everybody in the class scored like a,
like on average,
like a C or a B. And I was like one of the only ones
that got an A,
and the teacher announced that somehow
or something like that.
And I was like,
maybe I'm smart. And then all of a sudden,
the meaning I gave to me
and other people,
and my own intelligence was
that I'm smart.
I gave it a new meaning.
So, and they tested this by the way,
with kids as well in school,
if teachers imply
or believe that certain kids are smarter than others,
or smart in general,
they treat them a way,
to where the kids.
Then it brings that out
of the kids,
because kids are so malleable.
They've tested that many times.
So meaning is both something
that is a frame we project.
And it is also something we think about ourselves.
Now, the reason letting go is hard,
is because we've given meaning to something,
we've given meaning to a job,
we find it hard to let go of,
even though maybe it doesn't really make us happy anymore,
but it brings us certainty.
Or it brings us comfort.
We give meaning
to a past relationship
that maybe is draining our energy.
You're not good,
But at or abusive or something,
but the meaning you've given to things,
you are rigid with,
and you don't wanna let go
of that meaning.
Now here is the key to letting go
and understanding this meaning.
The more you let go,
is the more you raise your vibration.
The more you look
and realize that you being attached
to these old patterns,
these old things,
they are anchors that are keeping you
in your old reality.
They are keeping you
from moving on.
The key is realizing
that stepping into the unknown,
is where all the magic happens.
What that means is you're going
to be aware that you had one meaning
with someone very special.
You had a meaning about this job
that you had,
you didn't really care about,
but it got you this certain level
of success or money.
And that meaning,
is afraid to let go of,
because you're afraid that it's gonna go into chaos,
or you're afraid you're never gonna be happy.
But if you were to let go of that meaning,
you could then create new meaning.
Which means new relationships,
new relationships as to what things mean.
So new relationships, new people,
new relationships to a new job,
or something you're passionate about.
That is the whole entire thing
on life in general,
everything has no built in meaning
than the meaning you give it.
One day I was working a nine
to five job.
That was my reality.
My thoughts, my emotions,
my actions were equal
to that reality.
All of a sudden,
what I did is I changed the meaning to myself
and how I relate to the job.
I said, I don't really wanna be here anymore.
I'm going to start,
to be a full-time YouTuber.
I'm gonna link up my thoughts,
my emotions, my actions to that.
And that was the meaning I gave.
That was the relationship I gave to myself.
And as I started to do that,
my outer reality began to change,
because I believed in myself.
Belief, all belief is by the way is meaning,
you believe in yourself,
you're giving meaning
to your own ability,
to your own power.
That's all belief is,
it's a story about who you are,
how you relate to everybody else,
and your meanings, your stories,
you can let them go.
Letting go of attachment is a trust
in the universe,
that when you let go
of one meaning,
you're gonna be able
to create a new meaning.
That's all it is. It's a letting go of meaning.
And it's a wire into something
in the unknown.
In the unknown is
where you can create magic.
In the known is over
where you got the same meaning,
to the things you've given in the past.
This is the key to transformation.
This is the key to enlightenment.
It's letting go. Even healing.
Look at healing.
There was experience.
I went to this like training thing,
back in the day, years ago,
and it was like this large group awareness training,
where you go through,
kind of like a Tony Robbins style thing.
And basically, people would go up
and express their trauma,
or express like what they're working with,
or what their challenges are in life.
And the instructor would always show them
that there's these two different Venn diagram things.
There is what happened in the past.
And the story
about what happened in the past.
90% or 99% of what messes people up,
is not what happened.
It's the story about what happened.
So for me, it was like,
I had the abusive step-mom.
She was controlling and manipulative.
I didn't have freedom.
I was always tuning myself
to her to survive.
What happened was, it was,
like the ex step mom was controlling.
That's what happened.
Maybe that was even a story.
I don't even know.
It like, my interpretation
of it being controlling.
No, I mean,
she was abusive and controlling.
That's what happened.
But the story is,
this is my brother and I,
we didn't have any freedom.
We were, the story is
that we're unworthy.
There's something wrong with us.
We didn't deserve it.
It, I didn't kept attracting people
in my life like my ex stepmom after that,
because that's felt comfortable.
That was the meaning I gave to women,
and what I needed in my life
to remain grounded or something.
I don't even know.
I had to become aware
of these things.
But most of it is the story we tell ourselves
about what happened.
Now, the thing is,
what is the difference between,
I look at the way I responded
to my past,
when my brothers responded to my past,
we both gave it different meanings.
I gave it a bad meaning.
Then I went through a spiritual awakening,
and it completely transformed,
because I changed the meaning.
What happened is,
originally all this pain I went through,
didn't have and it was like,
it reflected back
to me on worthiness.
And then all of a sudden what happened,
is I started to see that
that pain from my past,
led me years later,
after my dad divorced my ex stepmom,
led me to a spiritual awakening.
That pressure created transformation.
I changed the meaning.
When I changed the meaning,
then I changed how I let go
of all the things
that wasn't serving me,
my whole entire life changed.
That changed everything,
simply because I changed the meaning
to the past.
And when people went up
at this large group awareness training,
it was like the story
about what happened.
And then what happened.
And most people, 90% of it,
it's the story about what happened.
It's our interpretation
of what happened.
And there were other people in the crowd,
that would hear people's what happened,
and they would have a completely different response,
or they took,
that same thing happened to them,
but they had a very different meaning from it.
They attributed it to a new meaning.
You can change your meaning like this,
to your past,
you could change your meaning like this to relationships.
And the reason it's hard
to let go is
because you remaining rigid with meaning, that's it.
You let go
and you trust
that you'll bring in something new,
and you're create new meanings.
Then you're good.
You have the ability
to create new meaning.
You have the ability,
to change these things.
Now that you're more aware of it.
What will you create in your life?
This is something
to really be aware of.
And this is something
that changes everything.
So with that being said,
there is a meditation for raising,
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your dominant vibration permanently.
And a lot of it has to do
with the letting go,
and feeling into a higher vibration state of consciousness.
I'm gonna go on
and link that below.
Listen to that meditation.
Let's all commit
to this meditation for 21 days,
and let's do it,
because the more of us
that do it,
it amplifies that energy. And we'll be able to kind
of feel the energy
of everybody else doing it too
within the collective consciousness,
they've proven this it's called the meditation effect,
but that meditation,
read the comments
to see what's possible.
I get (indistinct) about this meditation all the time.
It's clearly free.
Click the link below,
check it out.
Let's all commit to it
for 21 days.
If you're in comment below
and say I'm in,
and let's raise our dominant vibration permanently.
With that being said,
hope you enjoyed this video.
And as always peace,
much love and namaste.