if we're cuddling on the couch with
someone that we love and god has decided
we should have a baby we fit together
perfectly watching our movie and that's
how a baby gets in there
help hey y'all welcome back i'm mama dr
jones a board certified obgyn a
montefore and today we're going through
a video called where do babies come from
from the christian family series
learning about sex i'm going to critique
it tell you what i think they should add
what they left out how that could affect
people who are growing up with this as
their only form of sex education if
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learning about sex
where do babies come from okay i just
want you to put that in your brain
remember that title xan and jeremy are
curious about a lot of things just like
you
suzanne and jeremy are part of a family
there are all kinds of families
but god's plan for every family is the
same
there are all kinds of families they do
all happen to be in this photo straight
relatively light-skinned and have
children but trust us there are all
kinds of families he wants us to care
for and forgive and love one another the
way he loved us when he sent his son
jesus to be our savior every member of
every family adds more love to the
family and families are always growing
up the grown-ups grow older the babies
grow bigger sometimes children even grow
bigger than their parents
as a five-foot-two person raising
offspring created with someone who is
six foot and has very tall jeans in
their family i feel that on a visceral
level my children will all be taller
than me probably by the time they are
11. but all people began life in the
same way
just as god planned it
jeremy and suzanne learned how one day
when they visited a museum and saw a
display called the miracle of birth
the display showed many wonderful things
oh look how tiny that baby is i've never
seen a baby that little
that's really how big a baby is after
two months it's about as big as your
daddy's thumb
when a baby is that tiny it can't eat or
even breathe ah
two months is eight weeks
no that would be relatively large a
fetus at eight weeks is more like the
size of a gummy bear which is about two
centimeters and definitely not as big as
a thumb
just
just putting it out there that would
that would be not the right right size
it lives inside its mother's body and a
special place god made for a baby to
grow it is called a uterus while the
baby grows the uterus stretches just
like a balloon bigger and bigger here's
a baby when it's a little bigger the
baby still can't eat or breathe for
itself but one of god's miracles is that
it doesn't have to see that cord going
from the baby's tummy to the side of the
uterus food and air come to the baby
from the mother and wastes from the baby
also move through that tube to the
mother was i ever that little that i
couldn't breathe you sure were even your
mother and i were that small ones do you
know where the cord joined your body at
your belly button another name for that
is navel jeremy look the baby is getting
bigger hey dad these babies don't have
any clothes on
well they don't have to it's warm and
comfortable in the uterus its legs bent
and tucked under its chin and the bigger
the baby gets the bigger the uterus gets
right the uterus keeps stretching until
the baby is ready to be born it is time
for the baby to be born it comes out
through an opening which is called the
vagina it's the opening between the one
for urine and the place for bowel
movements
after a baby is born the vagina and
uterus return to their normal size i am
so incredibly impressed that they
actually gave correct anatomical names
and described a vaginal delivery at
least in basic examples i did not expect
that to be in here that being said i am
very concerned that they keep calling
things miracles because this causes a
few problems they still have not and
maybe they will but they still have not
addressed how the baby got in there and
in a sex ed video that seems important i
think also the other problem that it
causes aside from the obvious that if
you're not telling people how babies get
in there then they're not going to
protect themselves from getting pregnant
or getting someone else pregnant when
they start having sex if they don't want
to have a baby right then but the other
problem is that i have seen people who
grew up with this as their only
understanding of how babies are made and
they will tell me that for years of
their life like in adolescence and early
teen years before they learned from
their friends how babies are actually
made that they would pray to god at
night to not put a baby in their uterus
because they weren't ready to have a
baby and all they had heard was that
babies are miracles that god put
jesus in mary's uterus or whatever and
so they were convinced that they might
just wake up one morning and have a baby
in their uterus so this can cause
significant anxiety especially in young
adolescents i am of the firm belief that
parents and or the schooling and public
education system should be teaching kids
about sex before they have an
opportunity to learn it from their
friends because that is a recipe for
disaster at very least if you're going
to create a sex ed talk you have to talk
about how the baby gets in there and
again maybe they will that's neat
is that why susie is always saying girls
are better well
let's say different
on a boy's body you can see more of the
parts like the penis and the scrotum
boys and girls really are different
maybe they're going to do it here
they've got to do it here right
yes but there are also many ways in
which boys and girls are the same
they can both grow and think and feel
and love it's interesting that god
planned for just about the same number
of boys and girls to be born
both are important to him it takes about
nine months for a baby to grow large
enough to be born and how the baby
started is another of god's miracles
you know that when a man and woman love
each other and decide to get married and
spend the rest of their lives together
they show their love in many ways i know
hugging and kissing and stuff
right but maybe we can explain it a
little more clearly when a boy becomes a
man many changes take place but one of
the most important is this jeremy in the
scrotum the bag of skin that hangs
behind the penis are the testicles the
testicles of a man make millions of tiny
cells called sperm and when girls become
women in these little organs called
ovaries a little cell called an ovum is
released every so often they just went
through sperm and eggs and all of that
and they actually showed pictures of
testicles and a penis they're going to
explain that they're going to do it god
is happy when two people decide to get
married and start their life together
with his blessing he made a husband and
wife for living together and showing
their love to each other all their life
at very special times they like to hold
each other close god made their bodies
so they fit together in a wonderful way
at one of those special love times the
sperm from the man's body can go into
the woman's body sperm and an ovum join
in the mother's body that is when a new
baby begins
they got so close
why
i
hate it i hate it why did they leave out
the sex part they did the hard work
right they already talked about a vagina
they showed a penis and testicles they
talked about the sperm and eggs and then
they just skipped the whole how it
happens the sex ed part like
what
where did the sex ed part go
i hate it
i hate it if we're cuddling on the couch
with someone that we love and god has
decided we should have a baby we cuddle
and we fit together perfectly watching
our movie and that's how a baby gets in
there
that's what i just learned in this video
that's what you just explained to me i
think maybe one
one key step might have been forgotten
might create unnecessary confusion both
mother and father have a part in making
the baby but god has the biggest part
can you and suzanne guess now why your
father and i wanted you to know more
about babies and how they're made you're
going to have a baby god's answered our
prayers isn't it exciting i think it
will be wonderful i can take care of it
just like one of my dolls
yes darling a new baby needs a lot of
special care
i can feed it can't i
not right away i plan to nurse the baby
for a while like i did you and jeremy
you mean we're going to have a nurse
staying with us too
nursing means i'll feed the baby milk
from my breasts god also planned a
woman's body so she could feed a baby
everything it needs for quite a while
that's great i'm so happy that they
described
nursing and left out
sex but anne's little sister drinks from
a bottle with a nipple on i wonder why
she gets her milk that way some mothers
feed their babies milk from bottles that
milk helps them grow strong and healthy
too i love it normalize feeding your
baby however you want to feed your baby
but the sex ed
this video is sexy suzy you and i and
jeremy can help feed the baby later when
it's ready for cereal and fruit juice
and baby food but we can talk to it and
play with it and love it can't we we
sure can and that's a very important
part we're a family
and families are people living together
having good times together helping each
other
forgiving and loving each other the way
jesus does
it's all part of god's plan thanks i
hate it they got so close and i just i
cannot for the life of me understand why
they would go through all of that all
the detail all the good anatomical
descriptions and leave out the most key
part of that
help i'm never gonna recover from this
it's like this every time i watch one of
these this happens every time they leave
out the sex part like you can't call the
video sex ed video and leave out the sex
part if you like this video and you want
to watch another one like it i will link
the sex ed review playlist right over
here and i will see you next monday
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sex makes babies in case i didn't say
that in the video
sex
penis in vagina
then
then the sperm can get to the egg and
make a baby just so we're all clear on
the same page