Over the past three years, I've crafted the perfect approach sequence so that way a man
never is rejected off the open, never insecure off the open and also never nervous about
the dependency of the outcome of what that woman says. Now if you stay with me until
the end of this video, you're going to discover exactly how to ensure that you approach a
woman the right way every single time without it ever being awkward. Hi, my name is Casey
Zander. For those of you that don't know me, I'm the founder of head man. The entire purpose
of this channel is to ultimately help men ensure that we can revitalize masculinity
and make men strong again. So that way we have direction, we have focus, we have purpose,
and we're strong, healthy individuals. Now, let's get into the meat and beans of why you
clicked this video. Okay, you click this video, because you want to know the exact way to
approach a woman so that way, you're in control of the outcome, but at the same time not dependent
on the outcome, you want to know the actual best way to approach her and I'm going to
show you this, it really only comes down to a three step process. And within this three
step process, this has been boiled down to an exact science. Not only is this the exact
process that I've shared with hundreds of students, but by the end of it, you're gonna
actually have clarity while your mindset has been stuck from time to time, and you're so
nervous on the approach. Number one, okay, tip number one, state your intent. You have
to state your intent why you're actually there. For those of you so nervous about making a
man to woman interaction, you're so nervous about things becoming awkward? Would you like
to know a little hidden secret? Why things become awkward? Things become awkward time
and time again, strictly because the man does not state his intent. stating your tent is
actually what takes the awkwardness out of it. Like, Hey, I'm a man, it's normal for
me to approach a beautiful woman, that's the congruency in your head that you want to come
at this from. And when you say your intent, you want to be very straight up with her.
Hi, my name is Casey, I found you attractive, you seem like the type of woman I might want
to get to know. This is very easy to do. You seem like the type of woman I want to get
to know do you have a minute? Do you have two minutes? Do you have five minutes, I don't
know how long you got. These are logistics I need to figure out. The second that you
take the pressure off yourself to stop making this perfect and you just talk to the woman
as if this is somebody you have to talk to like a store clerk you're about to buy ice
cream from things become normal. And in 2021 I want to actually make things normal for
men to talk to women and women talk to men again, without there being this phone barrier.
Well, things are so awkward. And by the end of this video, I'm gonna show you why this
is actually became a confusing state for men to be in. That's number one. State your intent?
Yes, I do slightly validate off the open due to the fact that if I don't, she's gonna be
like, why is this random stranger coming up talking to me with nothing good to say, Okay,
this is a message you want to convey. And if she doesn't like it will cool because I
only wasted 30 seconds. That's tip number one. Tip number two, okay, take the pressure
off of her, you have to understand just how rare it is in 2021 going into 2022 for a man
to actually approach a woman, like virtually no men have the strength to do it. Even very
attractive men, very tall men, good looking men, those men who even have to be drunk or
under the influence of some substance as well to do it. So take that pressure off of her.
When you do approach a woman and you're very forward with what it is that you want or what
you're thinking or that you want to get to know her, she's going to go like this the
whole time. I'm nervous, I got a boyfriend. That's what
she's gonna say. Because of that, take the pressure off of her, Hey, I'm sure this probably
doesn't happen to you quite often. But because of that, I just wanted to let you know that
if you're not feeling it, if we don't vibe throughout this quick little interaction,
you know, you're free to go, you know, take little things like that, stating the intent
but also give her permission that hey, if you're not feeling this, if this isn't the
right mood, if I'm not for you as is because there's a chance she won't be attracted to
you give her that opportunity to bail and be forward with you. As soon as you're able
to take the pressure off of her, she's going to know a few things. Number one, it's not
going to hurt your feelings. If she says no. Number two, this is a normal situation for
you. And number three, you don't necessarily care what will happen, but you're going to
put your best foot forward so that way you have the best chances of actually attracting
her. And when you do that this is naturally going to heighten her sensitivity and her
attraction towards you. Tip number three is you must be outcome independent. Okay, I'm
not dependent on getting that girl's phone number. I'm not dependent on getting that
date. I'm not dependent on anything. Because when I get back to my house or when I get
back to work, I'm still on my purpose. I was still was born with great abilities and great
skill sets. And even if I wasn't I'm developing them, and I'm still a man of value whether
this woman takes me or leaves me. You got to remember there's a fit for everybody. You're
not going to be every girl's fit. Just like I'm not going to be just like every single
girl out there is not necessarily going to be your fit. Okay, and one man's 10 out of
10 dime is another man seven Okay, and one man seven is another man's four and one man's
four is another man's man, like you have to understand like this varies from individual
to individual. And on the inside, all women are the exact same, they all want to look
beautiful. They all want to have options. And they all want to find Mr. Perfect because
of that, why not just craft yourself as is or display the traits that she's going to
view or find attractive when you're outcome independent. Okay, when you take the pressure
off of her, when you actually state your intent, this is a hidden cheat code to win the heart
of virtually any woman. And I'm going to explain why women do not fall in love through looks
as much as men, women fall in love through your words, your actions, the context of your
mannerisms, and how you make them feel. How you make a woman feel when she's around you
is very important. If you give her butterflies if she feels safe around you, if she loves
being by you, you got to understand that those are emotions, she can't necessarily help but
have pulled out of her. That's why cold approach is a cheat code. That's why approaching women
and having the strength to do it can take a guy who's a four or five, six or seven,
and instantly convey the value of a 789 or 10 in that woman's eyes, and he can almost
hack the game. See when you operate off of this, a woman can't hear how you speak a woman
can't see your demeanor, and a woman can't see your social calibration, which means all
she has to go for is left or right looks or no looks. And because of that it's scripts
you have so many of the attractive qualities that drive a woman wild in a man. Okay, these
are the three secrets to make approach very, very easy. And if you found value in this
video, I'd advise you to do a few things. Check out my links below. We have men who
are losing their v card inside of the MBT webinar. We also have men working one to one
with me inside the men's fullstack one percenter program. And these are two opportunities where
you can actually take your guidance, your coaching and your mentorship to the next level.
Okay, one of the analogies that constant give is like Tom Brady is the best Superbowl quarterback
ever. But guess what Tom Brady had mentors and coaches and Bill Belichick in his corner
every single year to help give guidance and direction. Even if you're a great, why not
make yourself excellent. And that's where mentorship and a roadmap to actually Fast
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