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(glass clinking)
- Salut.
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- We're definitely revealing juicy things about each other.
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- I gotta do the whole shot?
- [Player] Ouch.
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- Hi, my name is Jasmine.
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This is my brother, Rawlin.
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- I'm Janaye.
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This is my brother, Chris.
- Hi, I'm Tiffany,
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and this is my big brother, Drae.
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- Growing up together was lit.
- We was lit, simple as that.
We was lit.
- We're pretty close.
We've been together since birth, pretty much.
- We actually didn't grow up in the same house.
Having this bond and forming this relationship
as we were adults has kind of been crazy.
- I feel like I can tell my big brother anything.
- We spent most weekends together and everything like that
'cause we got different dads.
- We spent a lot of high school together,
so we got like a lot of-
- Yeah, yeah.
- High school close friends that we still see to this day.
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- We're definitely gonna win - We're gonna win.
- Because I'm pretty open and so is he.
(text popping)
- We're gonna win because-
- We don't have any secrets.
- Yeah.
- Pretty sure I know
all of his first experiences, hopefully.
- I think we gonna win.
Just saying.
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- My first time snitching on my sibling?
I'm a snitch so I snitched all the time.
- We don't do that.
(glass clinking)
- I'm not a snitch.
- I'm the snitch, I mean...
(both laughing)
- But I done took some time for my sibling.
(glass clinking)
- I would say one of the more memorable ones,
rather than like first because there's so many,
Rawlin snuck out to go to this party
(Rawlin laughing)
that my dad's like, "You cannot go to."
This was like not even a block away,
(Rawlin laughing)
I'm talking like behind our house.
(Rawlin laughing)
- Literally.
- Yeah, it was literally the house behind our house,
and then I go upstairs and I tell my dad,
"Hey, Rawlin went to that party
that you told him not to go to."
- I got in a lot of trouble.
- Yeah, our dad went to that party,
went in there
(Rawlin laughing)
yelling "Rawlin!"
(glass clinking)
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- My first time realizing my sibling was no longer a virgin?
- [Janaye] Whoo.
- Uh... - [Janaye] Uh...
- When did you...
I mean, I'm low-key, man.
Yeah, shit.
- He was a little-
- No.
(both laughing)
- Me and my sister, we talk about everything, right?
One day, she just text me,
and she's like, "Hey, guess what?"
I'm like, "What's up?"
She's like, "I'm pregnant."
(DJ back spinning)
I'm like, "What do you mean you're pregnant?
How you five months pregnant and you forgot to tell me?"
- I didn't know how to tell you.
I didn't know how to tell people in general.
- I ain't gonna say her name.
- [Chris] Peace.
- Number one.
I think after that, you know what I'm saying?
- Yeah, you know.
- Start changing, you know what I mean?
- Okay, yeah, yeah.
(both laughing)
You ain't shit.
- Yeah, you start spending a lot more time with her,
you know what I mean? - Yeah, yeah.
- Take the shot.
(both laughing)
(glass clinking)
(choking)
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(glass clinking)
- [Janaye] My first time
being mad at my sibling as an adult?
- Oh, that's a good one.
- Woo.
- What I do?
I ain't washing dishes?
(both laughing)
- You never get mad at me.
- I'm always mad at you.
- Oh.
- This man, he left his phone in the car at the airport.
- This (beep) forgot to take out the trashes,
(beep) forgot to wash the dishes.
- So I'm driving around for probably 30 minutes,
looking for this man-
- No, no.
- He gets in the car upset with me,
and I'm going off, like, "Why are you upset with me?
You left your phone in the car,"
(Drae laughing)
and he's like, "I'll just find an Uber.
I'll just walk,"
and I'm just like, "What's wrong with you?"
- The only thing I really get mad at you for
is again, you don't include me
in things that I feel like you should.
- Rawlin invited me out to dinner,
and of course, I flaked,
so this is our first time being together-
- That is true, actually.
- Since that, yeah.
- I can't really think of any time
that I've really been mad at you
'cause I don't even get mad.
- I never got mad at you like that.
- In my mind, since we're sister and brother,
I thought, "Oh, she automatically gonna know where I'm at.
I'm just gonna walk and she gonna see me."
(glass clinking)
- We don't argue. - Yeah.
- We just chilling.
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(glass clinking)
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- [Drae] My first time trusting my sibling with a secret?
(laughing)
- Oh, this is a good one.
This is a good one.
- Yeah, you definitely are very trustworthy
when it comes to secrets.
- I have a six year old named Aubrey-
- Aubrey.
- And when I found out I was pregnant,
Rawlin was the first one that I told.
You're so sweet.
- I know.
- I'm pretty sure he was the first one I came out to.
- Yeah, okay.
Yeah, okay, definitely.
- So I would say my coming out story.
- Man, I can pull bitches with you.
(both laughing)
(hands clapping)
(phone pinging)
- When I was in ninth grade, I had a phone.
I was not supposed to have a phone.
I had a little shorty, I was texting her,
(Tiffany laughing)
and I told Tiffany, "Yo, I got this cell phone."
- So I ended up getting a phone too.
- She ended up getting a phone too,
(Tiffany laughing)
so she's like, "Oh, you doing it?
I'm gonna do it too,"
and she messed around and got caught with her phone.
- [Tiffany] I got-
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- My first time getting in big trouble with my sibling?
I think the first time we ever got into big trouble,
I think we was in grandma car.
- Yeah.
- I'm just trying to think of a time
that we both got in trouble at the same time.
- Probably never.
(glass clinking)
- But I think we was like messing
(card clanging)
with the gears, the gears, everything-
- Oh.
- And for some reason,
I think we may have hit it in neutral and it rolled back.
- Yeah, no, we was turned up.
- Our parents are very strict parents, right?
If you make a C, you get in trouble.
It's A's and B's,
(clapping hands)
that's it.
So this one time I gotta C
(hands clapping)
in conduct,
(hands clapping)
so Zachary comes up to me,
he's like, "You know, I got you.
What I'm gonna do for you
is I'm gonna change your grade on the report card."
So this man, he goes
(clapping hands)
in the counselor office,
finds my name, and changed my grade
on my report card for me.
- I did that.
- Until this day, our parents do not know about that.
- Until-
- Until they see this.
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(glass clinking)
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The first time getting drunk with my sibling?
- Prom night.
(both laughing)
We all know about that.
- Yeah, prom night was crazy.
- Jasmine, she doesn't really drink that much,
and I convinced her to have four Lokos
because I was like, "Oh, it's like fruit punching a can."
- So we go to this club, I'm a little toasty.
I'm a little drunk, but this man here, he's on his ass.
- I got drunk for the first time,
I ain't know it would make you really say some crazy (beep).
- Yeah.
- I'm saying to all the homegirls,
saying "Aye, let's go back to the room.
(laughing)
Let's turn up tonight, aye it's prom night.
Da da da da da."
- We was in the limo, like bro was shot.
(both laughing)
- I was lit.
- We got back to my place and-
- I was throwing up.
- She was throwing up everywhere,
and she passed out drunk, naked in my bathroom.
(laughing)
- How did my clothes get off?
(Rawlin laughing)
- I don't know.
- By the end of the night,
I wanna say this is like maybe three
(hands clapping)
or 4:00 AM,
this man follows some girl home or some...
I don't know where they went.
- [Drae] Mm hmm.
- Oh, I was in the bath.
You know if you get drunk, and they throw you in the water,
and it's supposed to help, I did that.
- Throw you in the water?
- I did, to my cousin on New Year's Eve.
(laughing)
- What?
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- [Jasmine] My first time being proud of my sibling?
- Every day.
- I mean-
- My first time being proud of my siblings,
when you got into the studio with Dom, Dom Kennedy.
- Yeah.
- Big ups to that, man.
(laughing)
- Aye, I appreciate that. - That was a great one.
- That still kind of hit me, to this day.
- [Janaye] Yeah. - I ain't gonna lie.
- I graduated at normal age, 18,
and this girl graduated at 16 years old.
- You do compliment me a lot, actually.
- Yeah but I wouldn't say that's exactly proud.
(DJ back spinning)
- I definitely know that you very proud of me, though,
I ain't gonna lie.
- [Janaye] Yeah.
- Every time I tell you something, you always smile.
You know what I'm saying?
- Aye, bro.
- I definitely...
You were-
- Knocking down some doors.
- Aye, I appreciate it. - I know, good.
- I've always lived in California,
and he recently moved here-
- That's true.
- And since he's been here,
I've seen him in a major, major print ad in a store,
and so going into that store and seeing him,
that was pretty amazing.
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- All right, first time feeling left out by my sibling
as an adult?
You be pulled up to events with some bad bitches.
Where you go to?
Palm Springs?
- Yeah.
- Oh no.
(hands clapping)
Oh, I wish I was there.
(laughing)
I wish I was there.
- You leave me out with everything-
- No, I don't.
- And you just try to include me
when your friends are not available,
(both laughing)
such as that dinner a few weeks ago that you invited me on.
So that's also why I don't exactly prioritize our-
- That is not true.
- Yeah, our dinners and things like that.
- Okay.
- My son's auntie, one of his auntie's birthday,
so I had to stay at home with my son,
and watch my son while his mom, my sister, and her sister
go out and have a good time,
and then I woke up and they still wasn't back.
- I don't invite him to anything.
(Rawlin laughing)
I'm sorry.
You are not invited.
He's like a pit bull off a leash.
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- [Rawlin] My first time covering for my siblings,
so they didn't get in trouble?
- I don't think I ever covered for you.
(Chris laughing)
- Yeah, I don't know.
(card clanging)
- You just wanna take a shot.
(glass clinking)
- He snuck out of the house and he lets me know.
He's like, "Hey, you know, I'm going to this party."
- I think I was blaming him a lot of the time.
I was like, "Nah, Chris did that,"
(Chris laughing)
even when I knew-
- She didn't know me...
Aye, thanks for letting me know where you really was.
(Janaye laughing)
Aye, I ain't got no problem with being no villain.
(glass clinking)
- My dad comes in, do his nightly check.
He doesn't hear a sound or whatever.
He's like, "Zachary, Zachary,"
he goes outside and he sees that the window is open.
He's like, "Okay, so this man has snuck out of the house."
He comes back, I let him in, in the window,
and I sneak him in the bathroom.
- Appreciate it.
(Tiffany laughing)
Everything she's done, I appreciate it.
(Tiffany laughing)
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(glass clinking)
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- [Tiffany] My first time acknowledging
I wanted to change my relationship with my sibling?
- Damn.
(card thudding)
Like-
- I mean, you know, we brothers...
Well, we sisters as well?
(both laughing)
- He's been in the military for 10 years,
so it was really hard for me being without my brother,
so that was one of the times where I was like,
"Oh, I wish we were closer
because all we can do is FaceTime,"
and then even then, we don't...
we're not even on the same time zone.
- Like I said, we didn't grow up together,
(hands clapping)
so we still talked like every week,
and we had
(hands clapping)
family vacations together-
- All right.
- But I would say probably around college.
- Oh, that conversation is the Pancake Factory.
- We've always been too close. - Mad close.
Yeah.
- Yeah, growing up and everything-
- Yeah.
- But I think it was probably after our high school
when we really got close.
- When I hit college,
and you were a sophomore in high school-
- Mm hmm.
- I was feeling really alone,
and I just needed somebody there and-
- Oh.
- Someone closer than a friend,
but not mom and dad, obviously.
- I will safely say,
after our conversation at the Pancake Factory
when you came back from Vegas-
- Mm hmm.
- That definitely changed our relationship.
- Oh, yeah, okay.
- We went and got tattoos- - Yeah, yeah.
- And it...
You feel me?
Yeah.
Nah, I was like, after the Pancake Factory-
- Okay, yeah, yeah.
- We was like locked in.
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(graphic pinging)
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- So yeah, I knew we were gonna lose
(hands clapping)
because you like keeping secrets.
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- I'm glad we did this,
(hands clapping)
like a lot.
You is, you my dog.
My twin, you know what I'm saying?
- It's definitely, this experience,
has probably made us even more closer.
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- I just want to say
I'm glad that we know each other very well.
We've spent a lot of years with each other.
We actually have a lot of love for each other,
and it's genuine.