as tuition costs continue to increase
more and more people are resorting to
sugar daddies to take care of them and
their tuition costs and this is not
necessarily a new story however there is
a documentary that's being made about
this actually it's going to be released
very soon in December that really delves
into the reasons why young women do it
the reasons why men with money do it and
some of the ramifications that these
people face in the future now there is a
trailer for this film I want you guys to
take a quick look at that and then I'll
give you some pretty shocking statistics
there's a lot of favorite with that the
only way that I will accept it working
is to be given a credit card I only
I have great credit can we just talk
about that like my credit line isn't
like I can't pick out so many mortgages
as I want to and they'll just like heap
like I brake on it with him it was it
was 500 for a I might be only
there for 20 minutes a hell of a lot of
credit cuts out like 14 and 15 the women
want as much money as possible for as
much stability as possible the man who
want to pay as little as possible for as
much novelty as possible power and I
look up and it's like 6c or like some
new year old way dude
here's really experienced now he like
tried to brainwash me and he has like
some missing teeth he likes to like go
to Japan and small
get me in serve like a pedal thing like
in to get us so up you got out I
started crying if they didn't say I
think I got raped it's time for things
to change like my life needs to change
Wow
so that trailer ends in a negative way
but it does have perspectives from all
sorts of women who have good experiences
who have bad experiences the Asian girl
that you saw there that was talking
about her credit cards actually says
that she's had good experiences she'll
go on websites like seeking arrangement
and you know what she'll do is she'll
say well I'm not necessarily exchanging
sexual activity for payment so she
wouldn't give a for $500 for
instance however she does say that you
know in the relationship somehow she'll
imply or indicate that she expects
credit card she expects to be taking oh
that's much better yeah but that's kind
of the incredible part of watching it
and look you read more into it and you
read their stories and the
justifications that they have and look
it's a sad situation when higher
education has become so expensive that
people feel like they literally have to
sell themselves physically in order to
make that payment so I have agree with
that but the other half is they just
want to get paid I mean look some are
our students and they need to get by and
others are like one of them says I don't
want to work as a waitress that's a pain
in the ass that takes too long right I
go and I give the I get the
money or I get the credit card I don't
know it's much easier so let's keep it
real that's also factors that you're not
taking into consideration if you look at
the unemployment rate among young people
it's much higher than it is for the
general population okay so what it took
for them to get regular jobs and yes
sure some of them might be able to land
a job as a waitress or a waiter or
something but do you think that's gonna
help you pay off a hundred fifty
thousand dollars in student loan debt
that's been there through four years of
college but that's been true forever
that you know you know I'm saying no
knows that that's a lot more sense to
dn't uh loans are a lot more now but I'm
saying it's always been true that either
be a waitress or as you're studying to
be a lawyer doctor whatever engineer
whatever you're studying to be right or
you could be a prostitute I mean that
that options been around literally
forever right you can do something or
you can go the easy route
be a prostitute now looking a lot of it
is the hard route as you see at the end
of the trailer there right and so it's
not just a current situation that's
changed but also I will say I think
another element of what's new is that we
now have made prostitution fairly
acceptable okay and I'm not against it
I'm one of the people who think
prostitution is perfectly fine I think
that's true but tell me why you think Oh
absolute enemy that asian girl there it
10 years ago 20 years ago under pain of
penalty of law whatever it might be she
would have never shown her face on
camera let alone be at unofficial or a
facial or whatever you want to call it
hooker by the way she's depicted and
that trailer is very different from the
way she's depicted in articles that I've
read about her because I wanted to know
more about her and she doesn't refer to
herself as a prostitute she doesn't
consider herself a prostitute right she
says that she will have a monogamous
relationship with an older man who's
taking care of her who pays for the
meals and they'll even refer to each
other as boyfriend and girlfriend right
so that kind of blurs the line it does
when does it when does it become
prostitution when is it considered you
selling your body for profit
are there emotions involved she makes it
seem as though there are emotions
involved if she's in a monogamous
relationship with an older man who's
taking care of her well then she's in a
relationship right well it's so easy to
say yeah yeah I don't know in fact that
emotional there for a second that caught
feelings for a second and a half where's
my money where's the credit yeah okay so
now look I almost every guy out there
right now is thinking the same thing
that you were just talking about and I'm
thinking which is well I mean that gets
into the uncomfortable question of where
is that line right cuz I go on a date I
pay the money and then you know and
there's no quid pro quo doesn't mean I'm
gonna get laid at the end of the day
right but you go on enough dates and
that's a relationship and you know
somebody's paying and then have you
given credit cards to your girlfriend's
sure right and sometimes it works in
Reverse as well of course right and also
in a lot of cases the sexual activity
begins before significant feelings have
even developed right so there's like
three date rule five day rule whatever
it is right right and so that's kind of
expected of you right if you're going
out this guy he's spending money on a
meal free
you well I mean you're expected to put
out I mean and look that's not a hard
rule but that's just kind of the
indication we can get as a as a woman
who's going out indeed yeah everything I
actually hate that expectation like I
mean of course if you're going on on
endless dates and the woman is not
interested in you Weldon over you got to
move on right and so there's no sense in
dragging it out but at the same time I I
guess now I know why I've always felt
uncomfortable about it because if you
say well I paid for the dinner and so I
expect something
well then wanting to just get a hooker
right because then it makes it more of a
transaction than it does an actual
relationship but that's the state that
we find ourselves in that's why this
movie it's and its title is daddy's date
babies okay that's why it's so
interesting because the lines are
totally blurred when is giving a credit
card go from prostitution to your
girlfriend right right and so there are
no solid answers to that and then
there's a whole question of selling
yourself right and in one way or another
for profit we all do it you know you do
it for your job you know you sell your
body in different ways it might not be
sexual activity you sell your your brain
or your talent or your skill for profit
when you're in a relationship there is
regardless of how great you are of a
person there's always a little bit of
manipulation in the very beginning right
because you want the person you're
dating to like you so you hide certain
things about yourself or you emphasize
certain things about yourself there
there's a lot of really interesting
blurred lines when it comes to release
right I mean I make all the money that I
do such as it is because of that thing I
do with my tongue oh my god you know I
feel a little cheapen that I make money
by using this fantastic body of money
yeah the reason I keep I think she
jumped out of both of us is because she
looks like the girl next door like
that's a freaking junior in college
what's that doesn't look like a hooker
she doesn't have the stripper shoes she
doesn't have the fake stuff
that I hate she looks like she goes to
you see and she's like anybody who goes
to UCLA looks just like that yes which
is the reason why
stood out to me was like how proud she
was of herself oh my god like it's a
fantastic I get anyhow I like my credit
histories and it like struck a nerve
with me because of the fact that like
you know not recently but years ago I
was trying to buy a house and it's the
most difficult process that you'll ever
go through right so your parents easier
for ya you see this like 23 year old
asian girl who's like yeah around
with older men who take care of me I
could take out all these mortgages
because I have all these credit cards
and I'm like okay don't be so proud of
yourself you didn't actually achieve
anything okay so and then that's why
there's a second layer of confusion here
or because we're pro prostitution we
think it should be legalized yeah right
so we're not judging but at the same
time let's be honest we kind of are
right because you're saying like you
didn't earn anything and I agree with
you like what like oh what are you so
proud of like you know you're living off
someone else's dime like alright and
let's be super honest just because I
think something should be legal doesn't
mean that I think you should do it or do
it to excess it depends on what it is
right so if my daughter came to me and
said oh yeah I'm going to seeking
arrangement calm there'd be murder me
not a verb but of some people right you
know what I'm saying I'm just keeping it
real I understand that all right and
then I want to read one final quote from
that girl the Asian girl her name is
actually Stephanie she says the first
person I ever met off seeking
arrangement I had such an amazing
experience with he turned out to be so
nice and knowledgeable and supportive
he's still one of my very close mentors
today so it's it's I think that there's
a lot of justifying going on in the
woods but at the same time to going back
to now not judging well that kind of
makes sense she has something she wants
she has something he wants and then they
have some relationship that's respectful
right and he mentors her do it I mean do
what you want to do the only argument
that I would make is when you're sitting
down and doing an interview for the film
don't brag and boast about how many
credit cards you have and how many
mortgages you can take out because you
haven't achieved anything you didn't do
that on your own
you're living off someone else's
hard-earned assuming hard-earned money
so anyway yeah well well it's a new
world it's a new world and and there at
both sides of the relationships seem I
in some cases to be perfectly happy and
God bless I don't want to take it to
another extent but I might I mean I
think there is this there is a mindset
that I think a lot of these women have
to have to do it
some of them describe two things they
started to go through and it's still
seeing pretty scary it still seemed
pretty extreme and out there so that's
something that they can do that can't so
maybe that's why they getting paid
that's part of not that you're
accomplished but that you have this
courage yeah that's the best word for it
to do something that other people maybe
not want to do well someone gets hired
as a executive we know a lot of them
didn't do to get that but don't
brag about it and we'll still respect
them we can take them back yeah but you
know as far as society in general means
you know so if we're going to accept the
occupation of prostitution we may have
to change our mindset to an extent as
were like well we got to stop dogging
them up so let me say two quick things
about that you know Charlie Sheen has a
famous quote I don't pay the prostitutes
to show up I pay them to leave right and
so but for the process you could turn it
around and say they get paid to show up
right which is a scary thing to do as JR
s pointing out and and you know how
what's the number one way to make money
in America and in the world is we've
talked about on the show before it's not
necessarily working hard etc it's being
shameless right so on Wall Street they
know that like goldman sachs when they
move the aluminum around they know that
it's gonna cost the American economy X
number of millions of dollars and it's
gonna go straight into their pockets and
it's gonna come out of all of our
pockets but a couple of cents at a time
and they think well that's your sad day
buddy right I don't give a you know
you go watch wolf of Wall Street you go
watch any of those movies they think
that's a sad day for you big guy
I'm shameless I'm gonna just take your
money yeah right so here they make money
for you know without shame so