- How to make him worry about losing you.
And should you actually make him fear of losing you?
And if you should,
how to do it in a healthy way,
rather than playing a game for attention.
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Hello, my name is Greta Bereisaite,
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And just before I share with you,
there are five ways on how to make him fear losing you
in a healthy way.
Don't forget to take my free self awareness test
to find out are you a woman of high value or low value,
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So first, sorry about the low value title. (chuckles)
Yet if you will stick to the end of this video,
you will understand that all the tips
I'm giving you here are very healthy.
And if you will follow them
it will make you enjoy your life more
and have people, I mean not just man,
respect, value and appreciate you more in general.
So here come the five tips
on how to make him worry about losing you.
Number one, always keep improving,
grow as a person, aim to be the best self.
When you keep improving yourself, you are evolving.
You are growing, you are not staying stagnant
and your growth, aiming to be the best of yourself
is not only enjoyable for you
as every step that you take towards it
makes you feel more valuable and worthy
but it's also very attractive for others.
As far as you are not staying the same all the time.
Think about it, right?
How many times do you like to read the same book?
After about two times it's boring, right?
But what if the pages never end
and then there is something new in each chapter.
And this is exactly how you aiming to be the best of you
gives a healthy amount of uncertainty
to the opposite sex.
Keeps him wondering
and makes him fall in love with you.
And naturally fear of losing you as,
hey, who wouldn't, you're amazing.
Number two, setting in healthy boundaries, they need that.
When you set in boundaries with people
you show with your actions that you value yourself.
You do not allow people to abuse,
bully, manipulate and use you.
Which makes others respect and value you instead.
So how do you make him fear losing you?
Well, setting in boundary requires a lot of strength
and by setting it in, you are showing that look,
if you're not going to treat me with respect,
I do not have a place for you in my life.
And when people sense your strength
after experiencing a few boundaries,
not only the respect for you increases
but also we start to see you as more valuable.
Therefore fear of losing you kicks in.
As think about it.
Don't we all appreciate things
or people that have value
more that the ones that don't?
How to set in the healthy boundaries?
Please watch my video right here.
Number three, put God first.
Do not put all your focus on a man.
Do not put him on a pedestal.
Do not to give your life away for him
or jump at his every single unreasonable wish or demand.
As soon as you will do that
he will start to lose interest in you.
Why?
Because he is looking for a woman with a personality,
for a woman that inspires and motivates him,
for a woman who has a character
rather than neglects herself for a man,
sets her life into pleasing him. (chuckles)
Ladies that is not only extremely unhealthy
for both of you,
but also very boring.
Instead, well, I'm a Christian,
I'm talking from a Christian's perspective,
put God first.
Put the life that he has for you first.
Follow your path and stay on it.
And yes, of course you should support
and be there for each other and so on.
But by no means, turn that support
into putting him on a pedestal
and start worshiping a man.
Instead follow Lord's path.
Keep your eyes on what is the right thing to do
and your guy's eyes will stay on you.
Number four, do the right thing
even if it's really hard.
Follow your logic, not the heart.
The heart can be easily deceived and manipulated
and is why it says in the Bible,
"Guard your heart."
A heart can believe what's wrong is right.
Ladies, we do not live in a society
where everyone is very kind
and does the right thing.
We have a lot of manipulators
and selfish people who aim here to take advantage of you
and do not take any responsibility
for their nasty behaviors.
Therefore you must guard your heart.
Follow the logic, observe the other person's actions,
behaviors and do the right thing based on them.
When you will focus on the other person's actions,
more than on words
and after a while automatically doing the right thing
will become much easier.
Number five, I think this one will inspire
so many of you. (clears throat)
Don't be desperate to have a boyfriend,
be in a relationship or get married.
Ladies, have standards.
Create a beautiful life for yourself
and for others.
Do the right thing, make a difference.
If you feel lonely or needy, great,
just help more people, expand your circle.
Do not settle for what is not good enough.
You do not need a man to feel worthy in the society.
This is social media societies BS.
Let me tell you what the Bible says
and it's really super awesome.
So I will not read it,
but I will explain what it says,
yet if you do want to read it,
take a screenshot right here
or you can find it in 1 Corinthians 7,
called the unmarried and the widows.
The Lord appreciates a single woman
or a single man that is close to God
more than a married woman or a man.
Why?
Because when you're single
you have more time to build a relationship with God.
On the other hand,
when you are married there is a husband involved,
there are kids and so on.
So the relationship with the Lord
automatically becomes lesser.
So think about it now.
If Lord says that being single
and close to God is better then why are we so influenced
by a society to feel worthless as woman
if we do not have a husband.
Can you spot it proper, everyone's BS around us?
Anyway, my point is,
if being single is more appreciated
and being married is stepping one step below,
well then if you really wanted to step that step below
and you really want to get married,
well have standards in choosing a man
and see is he worthy of being married to
because as a single woman
you actually have it the best right now.
And just to make this all clear,
God, of course, blesses marriages also.
We all know that.
Yet a step up as being single
and having a close relationship with the Lord,
which you can find yourself in 1 Corinthians 7.
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