Tripp from Tripp Advice.com and what if she rejects your kiss?
What if you go to kiss a girl on the first date or when you first meet her and she rejects
you?
What are you supposed to do?
Why is this happening?
What’s going on here?
That’s all that we’re going to cover here today on this video.
Now you might just fast forward this and try to get the one line or the thing to say.
You might even read in the comments below, I’m sure someone’s going to post it.
However, I want you to make sure you watch this video because the line itself is not
what is going to make it better and make it more comfortable.
It’s your attitude behind what you’re saying and your overall demeanor.
It’s much more than just the words that you’re saying.
So listen up here and also I’m going to be teaching you how to prevent this from happening
ever again.
Let’s get into it.
Why did she reject your kiss?
Well there’s a few reasons why she probably rejected your kiss and the reasons are this.
One, she probably wasn’t ready for it.
A lot of guys aren’t great yet at reading the signs that a girl is ready to be kissed
and here’s the thing about it.
You don’t have to tick off little check boxes like oh this happened, this happened,
ok she’s ready for it.
Sometimes it’s just a feeling.
I want you to understand what that feeling is like.
When you’re with a girl, really tapping into how she’s feeling toward you.
A lot of that is going to be in her body language.
The way she looks at you.
The way she laughs at your jokes.
The way she touches you.
The way that she looks in your eyes as you guys are spending time together.
That is the vibe you’re going to be getting from her to know if she’s ready for it.
You’re gonna feel it.
If you’re asking yourself “Hmm, is she ready for the kiss?”
Then she probably is.
Make sure you’re paying attention to that.
However, just because you think she’s ready for it, still other things might arise.
Like people be around.
Some girls just don’t want to do a kiss or make out in front of people.
Some do, some don’t.
But that could be a reason.
So it’s always best to isolate a girl and take her away from maybe her friends or a
populated area.
If you’re on a first date for example, maybe don’t do it right there in the restaurant.
Take her outside for a second and go a little bit away where you guys can have a little
bit of alone time.
Girls get embarrassed, girls get shy.
She might be ready for it because there’s people around and she’s not caught up in
the moment quite yet.
The next reason is the biggest one of all.
She’s not turned on yet.
I know you might be thinking isn’t that the same thing as she wasn’t ready for it?
Kind of.
If she’s not ready for it, maybe she was a little bit caught off guard cause you did
it out of nowhere.
You didn’t do it when you guys were having this nice little moment together.
You just went for it and you lunged for it.
But she’s not turned on yet.
That means that maybe there are no people around and maybe you guys are creating a moment
but you haven’t really created and built sexual tension yet.
You haven’t gone to the point where you built enough attraction and seduced her where
she’s ready to be kissed.
These are the 3 main reasons why she might reject your kiss and I’ll tell you what
to say in a second.
We’re also going to teach you how to make sure that you avoid this.
Basically this is what she’s saying to you.
She’s saying this to you and she’s doing it telepathically.
She’s not really saying this out loud.
But she’s saying I’m not ready yet because you haven’t seduced me.
That’s very important for you to understand.
I’m not ready yet because you haven’t seduced me.
That’s why she’s not going to kiss you back or she turns her head and gives you the
cheek.
Make sure you really understand that.
Seduction, like I just said, is the key to getting her turned on enough to want to kiss
you.
This is what she’s saying.
She’s not necessarily rejecting you because you’ve been friend zoned because I’m hoping
that you’re going for the kiss not just out of nowhere.
Hopefully you’re on a date, or you guys have been talking or you at least know she’s
somewhat interested.
Most of the time, this is what she’s saying.
I’m not ready yet because you haven’t seduced me.
Okay so now what?
What are you supposed to do at this point because she just turned her head.
Maybe she said no, maybe she figuratively turned her head and you got some corner of
her lip or maybe a cheek.
Here’s what you do.
I want you to say this…”That’s ok, you’re not ready yet.”
You’re not going to do it in the way I just said it right there.
You’re going to say it like this; That’s ok, you’re not ready yet.
You’re going to be saying it to her like you’re telling her, like you’re the one
in control.
Cause that’s what’s going to be very sexy to her.
That you understand it.
The fact that you understand that she’s not ready yet and now she knows that you know
because you’re verbalizing it.
That is going to make her more attracted.
You’re going to pull back and smirk and be aware of it.
The fact that you’re calling it out is making it a little less awkward instead of being
like uhh, what am I going to do and you have an awkward silence and try to think of something
to say.
Just look at her in the eyes and smile, squint your eyes a little bit and say that’s ok,
you’re not ready yet.
And then continue conversation and then move on to whatever it is you guys are talking
about or bring something up and totally move on like it never happened.
Don’t make her feel awkward for it.
Again what is she really saying to you?
She’s saying I’m not ready yet because you haven’t seduced me.
All you’ve got to do is continue talking to her.
Maybe hold her hand a little bit and then I want you to try again.
What guys don’t understand is they think they’ve been fully rejected.
They don’t get the kiss, that’s it.
The girl doesn’t like them, it’s completely over and that’s not true.
That’s not true at all.
She’s just saying to you, I’m not ready yet, because you haven’t seduced me.
When she feels more seduced, and by the way this line itself will make her feel more seduced.
That’s the beauty of this.
When you say that’s ok you’re not ready yet, it’s going to seduce her more because
it’s going to make her feel whoa, I’m with a man right now.
And then try again 10-15 minutes later.
I want to give a disclaimer.
If she’s like no don’t touch me, she verbalizes please don’t try that again or she is obviously
very serious about you not doing that, then don’t try again.
I want that to be common sense.
If she’s kind of shy and doesn’t say anything and she turns her head a little bit and she
doesn’t walk away and you guys are still able to take after you tried the first time,
then try again.
Because most likely she just needs to feel a little bit more comfortable.
She needs to be more ready, she needs to be more seduced and then as your persistence
continues, then she’ll say yes.
Go for the kiss again.
I want you to be able to prevent this.
To prevent this I want you to build more of that physical chemistry with her.
I want you to touch her more on the first date.
That can be as simple as leading her through the doorway.
Making sure that she feels safe.
Giving her a nice big hug when you first meet on the first date.
Or maybe you guys are talking and you’re at a bar.
Make sure that you actually touch, break the touch barrier and you give her a hug.
Or maybe give her a little twirl and spin her around.
Being able to physically seduce her is going to prep her more for the kiss.
And of course with your awesome laser eye contact and talking to her.
Making her feel wanted and desired is going to make her feel seduced.
That’s going to help you in terms of going for the kiss and not getting rejected.
Either way, it’s not a rejection because you’re going to go for the kiss again and
she is going to kiss you back.
What I want you to do right now is write in the comments “Rejection isn’t real.”
If you got this far, and I hope you did, write in the comments... "rejection isn’t real."
Because it’s not.
There’s no such thing as a rejection, there’s only trying.
Write in the comments... "rejection isn’t real."
Here’s also what I want you to do, I want you to get my famous Tripp’s Tension Technique.
This is going to help you build sexual tension and I demonstrate it live.
There’s a video you can get.
All you’ve got to do is click here on the screen or click below in the description and
you’ll get a video that’s going to show you how to build sexual tension with a girl
on the spot and get her ready to be kissed.
Go check that out.
Don’t forget to write "rejection isn’t real" in the comments below.
See you on the next video.