You know, you hear me talking about limiting beliefs and changing them to
empowering beliefs. But today, I'm going to show you, I'm actually in a show with
you a very brief interaction that I had with a woman that had a really jacked up
financial mindset on money. And I want to share with you how quickly we were able
to shift that belief.
Money is stressful. Money is stressful. So, how does stress feel in the body? How
does it manifest? Like this. Some crazy awesome resistance, right? Yeah. Okay,
what signal is that telling everything regarding money? Stay away? Stay away. Yeah.
So, do you work or are you married? I'm married and 7 kids. Married, 7
kids. Is your husband the primary breadwinner? Yeah. Alright,
wonderful. So, right now I want to ask you. Do you contribute to the money your
husband makes? A little. Oh, so you think the person who actually shows up at work is the one
who's responsible for it? I guess. You know if you come out to one of my events, I'm going
to ask for you to show some bravery. Because I ask some really tough
questions and I put people on the spot. And when Jenny decided to come on stage,
I think personally it's because she was just sick and tired of living with the
stress of money. And you know, in her world, having her husband making the
money and her being a stay-at-home mom, it's stressful. Because do they really
feel like they're controlling financially, are they contributing, are
they really making a difference? Well, it's all family money. They're definitely
a part of it. But when she's not the earner but she is the one paying the
bills and things feel tight. That can really create this dominating
mindset of "money is stressful." I want to tell you that anytime you have any type
of negative belief towards money, anytime you feel any stress about it, if you have
any of that in your life, the reality is you're basically emitting a really
powerful energy. One that can be felt by the financial world in this ether. And
the message is stay away, it's not safe around me because I'm going to feel stress.
And I want to ask you. If you were in a relationship with me and I felt stressed
every time I was around you and you were the cause of my stress, would you want to
be in a relationship with me? Of course she wouldn't.
So, why would money want to be in a relationship with someone that lives in
such scarcity? So, um do you like being stressful?
Yeah. So, do you know what the chemical in the body is that control stress? Cortisol.
And you know what happens when cortisol spikes? Do you know what happens to
serotonin? And when the serotonin goes down the body says, "We're dying." Does
money impact your health? Yeah. Does it impact your connection? Yeah. What is it
not connecting? What is it not affecting?I'm seeing that it affects more than
I thought it did. So, this idea that money is stressful. Money creates stress. Is that serving you?
No. Sometimes people want to know why why do I do what I do? How do I help
someone actually get to breakthrough? And now I want you understand that there is both
an art and there's a science. But at some point in the process, I've got to ask the
participant. And I want to ask you what is the consequence of believing the way
that you do? In so many cases, when we're talking about money and stress and
negativity, when we take a look at that, it's like... The consequences are a lack of
money, a lack of perception money, a lack of opportunity, financial chaos, scarcity,
fear. And if you will just stop and take a look at the consequences like this
woman did, like Jenny did. That's when you start realizing, "Oh, my gosh this is so
weird. This jacked up. I got this belief money is stressful and now I'm realizing
that it is producing all sorts of results that I don't want in my life."
And when you get that, that's when a person steps into the courage to say, "I'm
ready to change this." And that's where Jenny's headed. Just probably as a child
watching my mother feel like there wasn't enough. Yes. So,
there's mom. You're witnessing that there's not enough and what did you
decide about you. That I'm not enough. You might want to close your eyes
and I want you to bring your mom a suitcase filled with money.
And how does she react to that?
Surprised? Surprised. She doesn't... She pushes it away. So, let me ask you. Is
money really the problem? Now, watch what Jenny is experiencing while I'm taking
her through this part of the process. Right now, you can see that she's
emotional. There are tears because this is her trauma or at least her perceived
traumas. And notice that I'm using a lot of imagination here. It's because I want
you to understand that the mind is more powerful than reality. A thing about... Have
you ever had a bad dream woken up and you're like, "Oh, my gosh it
wasn't real." But you were still left with the feeling and the energy as if it was.
This that is how powerful that the mind is. It can freaking psych us out. It is
what it does. And what I'm doing here is... I don't have the ability to change
Jenny's past memory. But I do have the ability to recontextualize it. And Jenny
does have the ability now to face it with my guided help. Which is really all
I'm doing. I'm facilitating a way for her to face it. And then I'm using some
imagination and a little bit of play to produce a different outcome. And all I'm
doing is shifting the energy and the feeling. If we can shift her out of this
reason that she's had for decades.-- to feel stressed about money, everything is
going to change. And that's true for you, too. So, money's going to be what you
choose for. To be rather than stress, what do you want it to become?
joyful, freedom, abundant. Freedom, abundance. Those are all beautiful words.
Let's get a specific turnaround on. We got this nasty one that money is
stressful. So, let's create a new belief. Money is... What are some ideas people? Help
her out. Money is freedom, money is relaxing, money is fun, money is a tool
for a better life. It's simply more resources. Jenny has taken the stage and
she's now pronouncing money as freedom. What she's doing right now is she's
going back through the decades. When she made this decision, that money was
stressful. And right now, one of the reasons why I love this work so much is
because her life... I've actually, followed up with her and her husband. I've been
able to see what's financially happened for them. And the reality is life gets
better when you change your beliefs. And that's what she's doing right here in
this moment is she's taking a stand for herself. This is the same stand that you
and I need to take in our life when we discover a limiting belief. Whether it's
some money or anything. You and I both have the ability to become aware of the
beliefs that are holding us back. To look at the consequences of them and then
make a different choice. It's not natural. It's not in any of our training of what
we're actually going to do. Unless we're actually shown and this is why I invite people
to come out to my events, go to my website and check things out. It's why I
even produce an app which at the end of this video, I'll give you for free that
it can be a tool to actually have me walk you through your breakthroughs. So,
that you can experience what Jenny did but a thousand times over. To create as
good of a life as you want for yourself. Hey, thank you for watching this video on
witnessing Jenny's breakthrough. And getting a chance to actually get a
little behind the scenes and see how this works. And my invitation for you is
to actually click the link below where you can do a couple of things. One is you
can learn more about coming to one of my events where you and I can
with each other. And the second thing you can do is you could also get access to
my app. And you can download it for free. And what I'll do on the Limitless
breakthrough app is all walk you through as many breakthroughs as you want. So
that you can get past to any of the ideas in your life that have been holding you
back to help you live more empowered limitless life.