As somebody who who gives advice to people, what is the one piece of advice
that you want everybody that you think is important for everybody listening to
this show right now to hear? Totally. A lot of people try to try at every
cost to avoid failure and when you try to do that you end up actually failing.
Because you're trying to avoid which means that you're trying to go for
perfection and in the youtube sense that's probably gonna probably just give
you, take you a lot longer to start growing a channel because every video
has to be perfect cuz you don't want that to fail and everything has to go
exactly right because you want everything to go so perfect and I'm just
gonna tell you right now that that is the slowest way to get it anything. You
know that's the stuff that I I tell my guys for dating advice is like they want
every single approach to go perfect. They're so scared to go and say hi to a
girl because you know they're afraid of rejection and failure and embarrassment.
It's like it is inevitable. You're gonna put out videos that are gonna suck.
You're going to get rejected by a girl. You're going to try to cook that perfect
steak and you're gonna burn it. It's not gonna be medium-rare so stop trying to
avoid failure and start doing, stop analyzing too much and just in the
specific YouTube sense whatever video you're gonna put out tomorrow, one year
from now you're gonna be like oh my god I can't believe I did that. And then
that's gonna keep on happening.
So you're always gonna be growing,
always gonna be getting better and so don't look at anything like oh I passed
or I failed but just look at it as you're constantly growing and trying to
get better. I am five hundred thousand subscribers so I'm probably ahead of a
lot of people here but I am still in growth mindset. I still make mistakes. I
still screw up. I still have videos that bomb and I'm still trying to do better
and better and better and trying to...I'm basically in competition with myself.
But friendly, I'm not being too hard on myself and trying to you know put myself
down for anything I did in the past but just keep moving forward and try to be
better and not think about whether something is a failure or not.
So take that word out of your vocabulary and keep trying to put out the best that you can
and keep growing. Fantastic advice yeah yeah thank you thanks again thanks for
coming on it's been cool it's been awesome awesome thank you yeah thanks
alright yeah I'm out of here also where's the 7-eleven is it nearby
yes it's yeah it's right down the street okay yeah you'll pass towards Maya yeah
you'll pass it all the way fantastic now I hope you enjoy that motivational video
and I'm very aware that the context was YouTube but if you were listening very
carefully it's not just about YouTube the advice was about how to be able to
look at failure in any instance now here's the deal I'm very realistic I
watch these motivational videos myself and when I watch them I feel very
inspired but then you know what happens that inspiration that motivation fades
within about five to ten minutes and I'm already off doing something else so
that's why I wanted to continue this video and give you the practical steps
so you can know what to do with this inspiration and know how to take it from
here so here's what I want you to do the next time you hear a piece of advice
especially in dating advice whether it's from me or any other YouTube videos any
other channels what I want you to do is I want you to write it down with a pen
or pencil and write it down on paper okay so am I talking about putting notes
on your phone but really writing it down because this is gonna help you absorb
the information okay so write down the first piece of information in a device
that connects with you don't just write it down because it sounds good what is
what do you hear and it has something practical something you can do like a
technique or a way of talking to women or attracting women or flirting with
them and whatever it is that you're like oh wow I connected that I get that I
understand that I can do that I want you to write that down okay so that's step
one step two is going and implementing that now for a lot of guys they feel
very unorganized with that they're like no but I have to learn this person I
have to do this person in order to be able to do that I gotta learn you know
this steps before that in order to flirt like I don't know how to continue a
conversation you need to put this into practice and that is what this whole
motivational video is all about is about getting you off of your butt and putting
this into raucous and so that's what I want you to
do okay step three is coming back and seeing how you did most likely you're
gonna implement that advice and it's probably not gonna work that well
because you are doing this as a newbie you're trying something new for the very
first time know that that's okay that is supposed to happen and if it goes well
hey that's great move on to the next step and then the next step is trying
that piece of advice again okay so for example they give you some sort of
opener to use go and try that if it works great
rinse and repeat and find another piece of advice and then do that if it doesn't
work so well and I want you to try it again try it again until you get it
right this is the process of becoming good at something and that's what you
want to do with dating advice or pretty much anything that you ever want to
learn now some guys feel that they can't do anything because the first thing that
they need to do is learn how to get over the fear of approaching and talking to
women I'm gonna put a link in the description down below that's gonna help
you with that approach anxiety because that will be the first thing you'll have
to work on and that would be the advice you'll have to take before you move on
to other advice so don't worry I got you right there I want this motivational
video not to be this motivational but to actually help you I want you to go
outside I want you to do something about I want you to take this video and use it
as the stepping stone to being able to be successful in this area with women
and dating so write down below what is the first thing you're gonna do what is
step number one for you and I already gave it to you so I'm gonna see a bunch
of these it should be the same thing repeated over and over what's the first
step in order to make this motivation inspiration work for you write it down
below check out the description for that video I talked about and I'll see you in
the next video good luck