Hi guys, I'm Stevie and this is whiskey.
Do you want to talk about breakups today?
Do you want to talk about exes? Listen whiskey? Neither do I okay?
Well, we have to do it. That's what the people want
Hi guys, I'm Stevie
You might know me as one of the only people on YouTube
Teaching queer sex ed as a way to combat our terrible education system and some of you may know me as someone who once dated
Group Natalie apparently so here's a video about why me and my ex will not be getting back together
First of all, I asked her if she wanted to and she said no so
Second of all, we're really not compatible
Ever done wrong in the whole relationship and then threw it across the room. This is the dry erase board. This is the floor
And because my writer is making me make horoscope jokes all the time she's a Sagittarius and I'm a cancer apparently that's incompatibility central
Well, I love with my entire body and soul. I'm full of love
Also, if you're mad at me, I don't want to speak to you or love you anymore
Even if your reasons make sense because it doesn't make any sense to me. I'm like Loki mad sixty eight percent of the time
and
Then Heike mad the rest of it, but why can't you guys just try a little harder to get along?
Also guys
we got a talk everyone who follows either one of us as commenting on literally everything we post about each other for
Two years. We've been working out for two years on a video about something completely irrelevant on a photo of me with another person
It's just a question
it's really hard to be going through a difficult and
Low-key traumatizing point in your life while thousands of people are calling you names and begging you for answers you cheated on who?
When are you getting back together?
Why did you break up you cheated on her didn't you Stevie if she kills herself, it's your fault
Some of you even send messages to people you think I'm dating and tell them to leave me alone
And/or die like holy Sh, right the last two years and my comment section has been a go**amn dumpster fire
This is actually a great time to talk about the video sponsor
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but people were
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I didn't want to like be sh**ty and share our personal stuff on the internet and on the other hand
It was so sh**ty because no one knew what the hell was going on
I needed a third party aka a counselor therapist to like be an objective party in
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I don't want to get back together with my ex. But if you're considering it, I made up some rules
Let me do a Lipa except they're different rules. They're different ones
Oh, I don't really like rules
But I think the best way to get back with your ex is to show up at their house unexpected
I think the best way to do it is to keep them deep in your heart and then if you're both around other people bring
Up really personal things so that they know that you know them better than any other person on the planet
I'm still with my ex today marks the day that I fire my writer for putting horoscope colognes in my videos, Danielle
You're fired rule number one if you're getting back together with your ex
You better finish all your old fights or you're gonna be two spoonfuls
into a bowl of Captain Crunch
y'all be screaming on each other about how you find a mutual friend the day after you broke up and
Your ex is fr**cking your son's ex-wife. Yeah, I'm still mad about that. Today is a new day, baby
I don't even know what day it is free
love
If you don't hatch out everything you're soft mad about
You're gonna end up being hard mad about all of those things all over again your ex straight-up broke your heart
You don't want to be walking around sulking about a broken heart when you're technically in a new relationship
you should be building and concentrating on you have to
talk about it or when you hit one tiny little low point you'll feel like you're being haunted by ghosts of
Ex Christmas pasts the ghost of Christmas past exes. No one breaks up for no reason
No one's like in a great and ribbon is like hey, this is going great. Let's break up I do
Well, it's not no reason. It's a reason I feel deep in my bones and then six years later
I realize what was actually going on
Okay, some people break up for no reason and if you did fine get back together then but two people can be really lacking amazing
and still
Incompatible with each other Ali and I are friends and we're really good friends if we're hanging out all the time or not
Because we loved each other through some of the hardest points in each other's lives
We learned a lot about ourselves
and what kind of relationships we do want because we were together and we also ended up being assholes together because that's what happens when
You're incompatible. It's freaking Frank and you try to make things work anyway, because you love each other
Spoiler if you love each other maybe you could be really good friends. It's hard because I'm in love with all of my friends
I want to call my friends too. Those are two different things. Actually, you're two different things. So
I am one thing. I am pure love
Okay starting to see what happened here
anyway
Get back together with your ex
Or don't I don't care what you do check out better help to get some counseling on either of those choices
Thank you so much for watching and thank you. So so so much to my patrons for
continuing to support me literally being a lesbian means I can't make money off my youtube videos, so
Lol Oh
Lol, if you want a shout-out or some lube click the patreon link in the description so we can become one with each other
Thanks to Logan Casey and Juliette for being my shoutout patrons up for this video and I'll see you guys next time
Love you with all of my loins
Dearly toot-toot-toot that means