only a person who lives in a beautiful aloneness is capable of relating because it is not his need
he is not a beggar
he is not asking you anything
not even your company
he is a giver out of his abundance of joy and peace and silence and bliss he shares
then love has a totally different
aroma to it
then it is a saving
and if both the persons know the beauty of aloneness
then love reaches at its highest point
which has very rarely been possible
then it touches the very stars of the sky
you cannot even dream the beauty of it
and the benediction of it
because both are overflowing with joy
both are overflowing with laughter
both are ready to give and nobody is asking for anything
both are ready to give freedom both are ready to give
unconditionally
this love
becomes
one of the most beautiful meditation in which two persons melt and merge and become one
aloneness does not mean you cannot relate it simply means you will have to relate
in a totally new way which will not create suffering and misery
which will not create conflict which will not be an effort direct or indirect to dominate the other
to enslave the other
because it is not out of fear
it is pure life out of fear is only death
out of fearlessness
grows everything that is beautiful