hello so let's talk wedding i'm getting married we're getting married in eight months
and today i wanted to share with you the venue that we picked we've put a deposit down like we
signed papers with them this is literally the year of the most wedding since 1984.
and so many people want to get married in october so we're getting married in october
we're getting married in new york city that's where the restaurant is we have
a really really small wedding a micro wedding there's only like 18 people coming i'm using
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this video and let's get back into it okay so basically we're getting married drumroll at
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one if by land two if by sea that is where we got engaged this was taken december 22nd 2019
the night that we got engaged this is upstairs in the restaurant it's called the constitution room
this is where the like after party is going to take place so we're gonna get married at the
restaurant i'll show you guys what it looks like where we're getting married it's all gonna be
under this roof so ceremony cocktail hour and then all of us eating dinner the father-daughter dance
i get so excited when i watch this video this is the vibe it's vintage but also modern it's not too
overdone like i don't know how to explain it it's not like 2020 2019 it's combining like vintage
classic elements with like chic modern elements and it's flash photography all the way if this
photography style doesn't scream new york city like chic micro wedding too i don't know what does
like i need to have this vibe and oh my god i'm just so excited the venue actually
provides flowers votive candles and they provide a pianist for the whole evening so that's included i
already know the song i'm going to walk down the aisle to there the whole restaurant's
going to be shut down no one's going to be in there this is the venue this is the venue so
how perfectly does this match the vibe guys i don't know why we didn't think of it earlier
but anyway thankfully we did this is the bar area so this is actually going to be our cocktail hour
it has two fireplaces it's such a beautiful room so after the ceremony they'll come in there and
then past this room you go into the room that we're getting married in the chandeliers the brick
wall this is a really historical like old building so it has that vintage feel
but we're gonna modernize it with like the flowers we do maybe flowers down the staircase i walk down
the staircase oh my god it's gonna be so dramatic and then that's where the cocktail hour is
this room there's a butler that's gonna have like champagne to greet the guests when they come in
in the constitution room there's gonna be an area that's cleared right in front of a fireplace i
don't know if you can see it from this view so i was facetiming with the owner she gave me a tour
what you're looking at right there first when you walk in is a fireplace this is inside the room so
you see the door on the right and then when she pans to the left you see the fireplace there
all the chairs in front of that and tables will be cleared and that's where we're gonna do the dances
it's not gonna be dancing like a dj type of thing it's piano all night long
and then we're gonna do one long table against the glass wall for everybody like everyone
will be able to fit at one table so that's the fireplace where we got engaged right next to that
and then that fireplace that's where we're gonna do the dances the fireplace that's right where we
got engaged which is so cute i also kind of want to have a vintage car i don't know if i want it
for the engagement shooter for the wedding day but i kind of like the idea of a black
vintage car because everyone does white and for the wedding we want to do a black and white feel
all the guys wear bow ties and i'm gonna ask my dad if he can and like steven's dad
and um grandpa and my grandpa this is what i'm thinking for the dress
i'm so obsessed with it and i think like a faux fur in either white or black would be so cool
uh hi it's about two or three weeks after you saw me in the beginning of that video
and sitting on the floor so today was the day that i told my like 40 person family
that we're having a microwedding if you guys are having a micro wedding and you want advice
on like how to tell your whole family that they're essentially not invited to your wedding
thumbs up this video or leave a comment and i'll do a whole video on how we told about 80 people
this news they all took it really well we're super receptive and respectful and i genuinely
think it's because we prepared what we were going to say and the way we said it and structured it
that was the hardest part because of course we love our family of course we want them to feel
included and we would love for them to be there on that day it just didn't work out like that
and i have some updates because i just talked to the lady who's like coordinating everything
at the venue so the flowers that we are thinking we want to do white in the room
where we get married and then we're thinking of doing red in the room where we have dinner
uh the cake we want to do something very simple like white and very simple
i wish the girls could come you wish to go i'm so excited for this venue it's so beautiful so
i wish all of you guys could come that's all i know right now all right