this is Damon Cart from NLP Gym what
are you using NLP far what do you need
to know before I get into that if you
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these videos on a regular basis so I'm
going to jump around a little bit
throughout this video so I want to give
you the gist what this video is and
basically three points the first one is
I'm going to talk about why using NLP
for something specific leads you to
using NLP for everything so if you get
effective in one area of your life using
NLP
it spreads to other areas the second
thing is what am i reading and why
should you be reading it too I'm
starting a little reading page or
suggested reading page for my website
NLP-gym.com I get a lot of people
asking me what am I reading so I'm going
to get started on that today the third
thing that I'm going to go into is why
am I giving away something for free
without any strings attached so here we
go
someone commented on a video I made back
in January called overcoming heartbreak
NLP mind hack in order to comment on the
video which by the way I'll leave in the
comments down below so you can check it
out I had to watch the video because I
made it back in January and I didn't
really remember what exactly I had gone
into or what I would I discuss I mean
from the title it's a bit obvious but I
didn't really know without going through
the video how to answer the person's
question who was asking me for a
specific answer regarding something I
had mentioned in the video so as I was
watching the video I was like yeah you
know that's the NLP process I used on
myself to overcome getting dumped and
suffering from a broken heart and I did
it in record time in fact people close
to me have told me that they don't
believe I was really in love with the
person and that I was really heartbroken
because they basically said
no one gets over heartbreak as fast as
you did well if you know NLP and you can
use it effectively the unbelievable
becomes believable so in order to really
explain what NLP is you have to
demonstrate through applying it which is
why it's impossible to learn NLP from
books or to use it effectively when
when you only have a conceptual NLP
knowledge or you have your understanding
of NLP is really conceptual and not
applied or not experiential if you want
to truly learn NLP and use it
effectively to overcome your limitations
and achieve outcomes and you know do
things that just seem impossible you got
to take or the way that I've done it
anyway is taking one area of my life and
this is what I suggest that you do take
one area of your life and apply every
NLP technique every NLP process every
NLP exercise to that one area of your
life so that you really become a master
at NLP in that one particular area of
your life and along the way you're
really going to cultivate a lot of NLP
skill and a lot of NLP understandings
and it's not going to be just conceptual
it's going to be experiential
understandings it's a huge difference
from there you'll be able to generalize
those NLP skills and understandings to
every other area of your life and that's
when you become the master the magician
and even a wizard of your life and
you've heard people say once you learn
one new language then it's easier to
learn other new languages part of that
is because now you know it's possible so
it sort of opens that gate it breaks
down that border that wall that block
that's part of it the other part of it
is you train your mind and the
understanding and the skill of how to do
that how to learn another language how
to generalize the information that you
know about other languages into a new
language so that's how that works and
it's a very effective way to learn NLP
number two
I'm nearly done reading a book called
Conscious Hustle by Dane Tomas the
premise of the book is spiritual
awakening through entrepreneurship which
is right down my alley it's a great read
and i really suggest that you read it
because he outlines some just amazing
insights and understandings that anyone
can benefit from even if you're not an
entrepreneur another reason you should
read it is because as I was reading it I
kept thinking to myself in this guy must
know NLP he has to he was just obvious
to me by the direction of his thinking
his thinking of like always going toward
opportunity and always third possibility
and choice and the way he was framing
things i I just knew he had to be in LP
training so I looked a little closer
into his background and sure enough I
was right he is NLP trained so
conscious hustle is a good example of
someone who has integrated NLP among
other things it's not just in updating
it's not you can tell he's done other
things but it's a good example of
someone who's taken NLP learned it well
and integrated into what he does and has
used it to become successful and more
effective than what it does he's trying
to do and then through that he's writing
a book that can teach you how to do the
same thing he did without really having
to learn NLP so it's a great
understanding of how someone has used
NLP effectively and then integrated it
into this teaching and people often ask
me so like I mentioned earlier what I'm
reading and like I said this is a book
that I'm reading right now I find it
useful I think you would find it useful
even without the NLP part of it but it's
a really nice way to look at how someone
has integrated NLP understandings and
how NLP has helped him come to certain
understandings and certain ways of
framing and even teaching and
communicating so check it out
also by the way I'm the page that I'm
adding I'll put links to the books that
I post so that you can click on them and
go directly to Amazon if you'd like to
get them for yourself so number three
what am I giving away
for free with no strings attached and
why so I decided on giving away one
coaching session to three different
people so that's three free coaching
sessions this is not a buy for get one
free deal it's not even a buy one get
one free meal it's a get a free coaching
session with me deal with no sales pitch
I'm not going to spend a half an hour 15
minutes or even five minutes trying to
pitch you anything I'm not going to be
pitching you coaching I'm not going to
be pitching you any products it's going
to be a straight full on coaching
session and no incentives to buy
anything else for me at all so why the
hell would I do this it's because I love
you no not really but you know what I
would be fine because I have that NLP
process that I use to overcome
heartbreak so I wouldn't be afraid I
would just fall in love and be able to
get over it you know or not be afraid of
having my heart broken by you because I
would have that process to use to get
over it
okay joking aside one of the exercises
in conscious hustle the book I just
mentioned is to give three things away
to three different people if you want to
know more about the purpose of this
exercise I suggest reading the book it's
pretty cool so if you would like one
free coaching session with me you can
Reese you can email me at Damon at NLP
Jim calm put a brief description and I
do mean brief a brief paragraph as to
what it is you want to work on so when I
say brief like no more than six
sentences if it's too long I'm just not
going to read it because I'm sure I'm
going to get a lot of people sending me
emails which is perfectly cool I want to
read all of them but if it's a you know
if it's pages and pages along with your
life history and it I'm likely to
overlook it and go to the next email so
a brief description of what you want to
work on and remember I'm not a therapist
so I can't go into I can't treat
pathology or psychological pathology
is more something that you want to work
on and something that like I said is not
pathological and something how I'm going
to choose someone is not by who gets who
are the first three people that email me
the people I'm going to choose are going
to be problems or issues or goals that I
think that in one session we can do a
complete piece of work that I think or
at least get really close people who
have something that they want to do or
overcome that within a one-hour session
we can pretty much take care of it or
like I said get really close at least I
can set you in the in a in a good
direction so that you can sort the rest
out by yourself so send me those emails
I will go over all the descriptions like
I said if it's too long I'm not so just
keep it brief and I will let you know if
you got the free coaching session we'll
schedule something I normally coach by
Skype unless you live in Santa Cruz in
that case we can meet in person but
otherwise it'll be on skype and I will
respond some send those descriptions in
and I will happily give away three free
coaching sessions check out my website
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