My life has been absolutely changed by coaches and mentors. I know that I want to be able to
make an impact in people's lives and help them to transform their lives by being a
great coach and mentor. So I'm going to share with you today the things that I've learned
from good coaches from bad coaches and how you can be the best.
Just because anyone can be a coach or mentor doesn't mean that everyone should be a coach
and mentor. Do you know the two characteristics that you must possess to be a good one? I'm going
to share that with you today. Nex,t let's talk about your journey and how it's relevant to you
being a good coach and the importance of having proprietary mechanisms in order to stand out
in a sea of coaches and mentors. This is what's going to position you as the undeniable expert
in your niche. Let's talk about the two characteristics that you must possess
to be a good coach or mentor and this might surprise you. Because of course, I want you to
have personal development and be able to grow in your technical skills that you can help your
your clients more. But the first two that I'm going to recommend to you is awareness and empathy.
Let me give you an example to demonstrate this. Let's say you're watching a movie. If you don't believe
that the actor believes in his character you're not going to believe so much in the movie.
Actors have to show not tell the emotion that they're going through. If the actor is angry they're not
just running around the room saying, "I'm angry". You see them knocking over furniture, punching
a hole in the drywall, to believe in that moment. The actor has to find an experience inside them
where they've felt anger to be able to portray it. To get to that point to truly demonstrate
that emotion it has to be raw and real and that's why some coaches in their content can fall flat.
If they don't have that awareness of self. If they don't have the awareness of their audience that
they've never walked in those shoes and can't understand where they're coming from. They're never
going to be able to create true results for their client. Authenticity comes from awareness of self
and awareness of self comes from doing the internal work of doing that personal development.
Whether that's therapy, whether that's courses, whether that's just meditation and learning who you are.
So that you can speak to your audience no matter where they are at. That might mean going
through rough times, healing it and feeling it, and that's for any kind of a coach. Even if you're a
technical, marketing, business coach. Personal development, self-awareness is going to be so
important because your business will only grow to the level that you do. You can only speak to
the customer your client if you have awareness in yourself and awareness of where they may be.
In order to earn the trust and respect of your clients you have to walk that talk and be speaking
from a place of awareness and empathy. I'm gonna share with you more of my strategies for becoming
a better coach but before I do so. Make sure that you hit that subscribe button and subscribe to
this channel. Because I'm putting out more content like this every single week. Some other ingredients
that you need in order to be a good coach and mentor is experience and perspective. Most of
the time the clients that you're coaching maybe a version of you three years ago. It's a version
of your before picture and your after picture your current reality is what your client is hoping for
their after picture to be. They want to hire you so that maybe they can take the same path that
you did to get toward a similar result. Most of the time you are steps ahead of where that client is
getting to be now. If you can show up be present and offer a perspective that maybe they can't see.
As a coach it's your job to show them that perspective because you've experienced it. For many
of us we know the feeling of not being able to see because we are so close to it and having that
different perspectives can offer a solution. For many of us we can't read the label from the inside.
So your job is to show up and be present and help them to see that and oftentimes, you're going to
coach from the journey that you've taken to get to where you are today and think again about
your before and after picture. Think about how they are often your before picture. What would
you tell to your past self to get to where you are today? That's often where you're going to be
coaching from and lastly, I want to share with you that the way for you to stand out as a coach in a
sea of coaches and mentors. Perhaps you're in a niche that is so oversaturated. Maybe you're
a mindset coach, a weight loss coach, where there's tons of them on every corner. How do you stand out
as the go-to one-of-a-kind expert the undeniable best choice, I'll tell you how. It's by creating
your proprietary mechanisms. What are the unique strategies that you use to help people get to
their desired results? Let me give you some examples. My friend Cristy Code Red is a weight
loss coach, there are tons of different weight loss programs. There's weight loss shakes and exercise
and diet shakes and pills and all these different options. But what Cristy Code Red has is her code
red 10-pound takedown challenge, where she very clearly helps people to lose 10 percent of their
body weight every month without diet pills, shakes, or exercise. See how that's a very clear benefit.
See how what she does is help them get a result using her proprietary strategies and because she
can show the social proof of hundreds thousands of people that she's been able to help get the
weight off and stay off. That makes it very clear that she is the expert in her field. I have another
client Wayne Lee he is a peak performance and mindset coach and he wanted to create
a program that was like a mindset challenge. Now, instead of creating a mindset challenge because
that's very common. You could google that, you can watch YouTube videos, you can read books about
mindset. We worked with him on creating proprietary mechanisms and what he came up with was a 21 day
subconscious reset challenge. Now, hopefully just hearing that term makes your eyebrows raise or
your ears perk up thinking, "That's something I've never heard of before." Well, he took it one step
further with his system that he teaches in this challenge. His mental endgame activation system.
So he went from mindset to his own unique proprietary messaging that you can't get anywhere else.
You can learn mindset from tons of people but you can only learn the mental end game activation
system from him. So think about your strategies as a coach or a mentor that you can give a name to
that's going to help brand you and make you stand out from the rest. Now that you know what it takes
to become a better coach. It's time to build your business scale it all the way to high
ticket coaching clients and I'm going to show you exactly how I'm going to actually give you the
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