Hello my wonderful friend! The topic of today's video is First Date Tips for Men:
Best Activities. Really I'm just going to be answering the question "Where do you
take her on the first date?" This can be really overwhelming and really
intimidating and it can feel like there's a lot of pressure. After this
video I hope you breathe a sigh of relief. Because the truth is it does not
have to be anywhere near as complicated as most guys think it is. And no matter
what you've been told it actually is a pretty simple and enjoyable process when
you do it right. So if you've been wondering where to take her on a first
date you are in luck. Because I'm going to be sharing with you some really fun
date ideas that will really help you enjoy your time together and really
impress her. And as a bonus some of these date ideas are actually completely free.
So if you're looking for free date ideas you're in the right place for that as well.
But before we get into that be sure to subscribe and ring that notification
bell if this is your first time watching one of my videos.
My name is Melannie, I'm a dating coach for Christian men. I help men find and
attract the girl of your dreams, so you're not going to want to miss any of
the videos I have coming. So be sure to subscribe, ring that notification bell,
give me a big thumbs up, and let's get started. Now as I mentioned earlier
knowing where to take a girl on a first date can seem really intimidating. And a
lot of guys feel a lot of pressure to get it absolutely right. And the main
thing I want you to remember is there doesn't need to be a lot of pressure.
If she's interested in you, she's interested in you, and you don't know how to
"purchase" her affection or her interest by wowing her with your first date.
This is just two people getting to know each other, having a good time. Now I've put
together a list of 13 really fun date ideas that really just help you get to
know each other and have a fun enjoyable time and really help you
decide if you want a second date and help convince her she does want a
second date. While we're on the topic of first date tips though, be sure to check
out this one which is How to Know if You Should Ask a Girl Out. There's a link
in the description below for that. And also check out this one which is How to
Make Conversation Really Easy on a First Date. Now you will have a list of fun
things to do and you'll know how to make conversation super, super easy. So be sure
to check out both those links in the description below. And with that, let's
get started. Number one is you could have a Nerf war. Let's face it, Nerf wars are so fun.
And if you already own a couple of Nerf guns then this is completely free.
There are a couple of ways you can do this. You can either set up targets
and shoot them down together, or you can kind of do a steal the flag version,
or you can just kind of have at it and go at each other, you can set up an
obstacle course, maybe at like a park or something. No matter how you want to
approach it there are so many fun options that can make a really fun,
really inexpensive date with just a couple of Nerf guns. And you will be able
to see how well you work together and how competitive the other person is.
Number two. Pretend you're a tourist in your own city.
Let's face it, we never really get around to seeing the cool things that
are in our own cities. I don't know why. We'll travel around the world to see
other cool things but the things that are really close to us we never get to
round to seeing. I'm definitely guilty of this. So it can be very, very fun to just
get online and see what's cool to do in your city and do that together. There are
sites to see, museums, all kinds of cool things that you can see in your own city.
Number three. Play some video games together. If you have not yet seen this
video I did on Why Video Games can Actually be good for Relationships,
you're going to want to check that one out. I'll put that in the description
below as well. But in that video, one of the
things I mention is more and more women are actually enjoying video games.
I actually, I grew up playing video games. I love to play video games in my
spare time. And sometimes not in my spare time. [laughter]
But it's so fun to just play video games together sometimes. So check out that
video I actually have some links to some really fun games and that's a really
good way, if maybe you're not so much into board games, you can still play some
games together. Number four. put some Lego sets together. Let's face
it, the inner child in all of us loves Lego. And there's nothing wrong with that.
And there are some pretty inexpensive sets. And it's really fun to just kind of
chat and put a Lego set together and just have a good time. Number five is
take some pictures together. Now you can either just like take silly selfies
together, you could even get some really inexpensive photo props, you can even
print some off from online. There's all kinds of options available. And just
take silly pictures together. Or you can go on a walk or something like that
and just see if you can find some interesting and fun pictures to take
together. And then look through them and decide which ones are your favorite.
If this does turn into your dream girl and this is your first date with your dream
girl then having those memories is really kind of awesome. Number six is to
meet for a smoothie, or a coffee if you are a coffee drinker. I'm not, for me it
would be a queso at Chipotle. Pretty sure queso at Chipotle is my love language.
But whatever it is you're into, hot chocolate is another good one in the
winter. But whatever it is you're into, just get together and meet and chat and
have a good time. P.S. Drop me a comment. What is your favorite food this way?
Are you a smoothie person? Are you also a queso person? What sounds fun to you
that way? Just tell me about it in the comments below.
Number seven is go to the zoo. I'm sorry, looking at the animals at the zoo is so
fun. I just love it! Number eight is to visit a farmers market. These can
be so fun to walk around. There are so many different vendors and booths and
so much to see. And it really gives you a lot of opportunity to just kind of chat.
Sometimes there's a snack you can eat there and it really helps you just get
to know each other and it's a very relaxed, fun experience. Number nine is to
go for a walk. When you are with the right person, going for a walk is
actually really fun. And it gives you a lot of opportunity to just chat and
enjoy spending time with this person. I have personally done that with a
couple of guys, and that's one of my favorite first dates for sure. Number 10
is to get some cheap paints or drawing supplies and challenge each other
to draw each other. Or you could even sit down next to each other in a
park or something and draw the landscape. This one is really fun if neither of you
are particularly confident in your drawing skills. If you just let
yourselves like embrace the silliness and just laugh about it, it's a really
really fun date. Number 11 is to go to a shooting range or axe throwing or
archery, something like that. It can be really, really fun. Number 12 is to learn
a new skill. It's really fun if both of you have no idea what you're doing and
you're just trying to learn something new together, like juggling or something
random like that. And it becomes an opportunity to laugh together to learn
together and really just have a good time. And we're to number 13, and that is
s'mores or just sitting around the campfire. A lot of parks have fire pits
you can use and so that's a really good opportunity. Or you can even get like
those little on the table s'mores makers. And if you happen to have
invested in one of those, you could even just take that to a park set it up on a
picnic table and just chat and make s'mores and it's a lot of fun. And there
you have it. Knowing where to take a girl on a first date, and what to do on a
first date, does not have to be intimidating. It doesn't have to be this
big huge thing. It's just an opportunity to have some fun. Now that you know where
to take a girl on a first date, how would you like to know the things that make a
girl fall in love with you? I have a free guide for you. 17 Traits Christian Women
Want Most in a Man. All you have to do is check out the
in the description below. It'll ask for your name and your email, as soon as you
enter that information I will send it your way. And, bonus! You'll also get
access to my free training on how to get the girl. So you're not gonna want to
miss it, check out that link in the description below. Thank you so much
again for watching my wonderful friend. If you enjoyed what you saw, be sure to
give me a big thumbs up. And if you have a friend who's really struggling on what
to do on a first date, be sure to share this video with him. Again if you have
not yet subscribed be sure to do it now and ring that notification bell. Also I'd
love to hear from you in the comments. Do you have any other ideas of some really
fun date ideas? Be sure to leave those in the comments below. That way other people
can read them. And hey, you might help someone out. And as always, if you have
any questions or suggestions for other videos you'd like to see me do be sure
to leave those in the comments as well. If we're not yet friends in social media
be sure to check out the links below. I share some awesome stuff over there so
be sure to say hi. Thank you again my amazing friend, and have an amazing day!
[blooper beep] Have you ever been in this situation? Where you... [forgot what to say]
Did something? [laughter] [end of bloopers beep]
PS don't forget about your free guide, okay?
It tells you how to get your dream girl. And that is
valuable information. Plus 17 things that make her fall in love with you. And
I don't know, I mean, that sounds pretty valuable to me. [laughter] So be sure to check it out.