The is Sami here from Ministry of attraction and today I wanna break the myth and explain
to everyone that one thing that everyone's been thinking a bout as why do assholes always
get the girl.
Why does the asshole always I got the girl?
And you know what some people have said that You know what this is, it's just the way it
is, now.
Asshole gets girls, so people just start on putting on this asshole persona and they're
like, "Oh my God, look, it's working.
I'm getting better with women and I'm getting better reception and girls are giving me so
it's better look so I'm getting some more attention.
But they haven't even really figured it out yet, so they're just like not doing too well,
they're just doing a little bit better than they used to be doing.
So what is the real reason why I asked is Get women?
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Now, let's get into the juicy part why is the US?
We'll get the group.
Why, why is it always the...
Why can't it be the nice guy?
I'm a nice guy.
Shouldn't that be enough?
A lot of the guys what the end up doing is to become bitter and there I E-you know what,
I'm just gonna be a nice guy, and I'm not gonna change, I'm not saying you not to be
a nice guy, I don't as you get confused I'm not saying don't be a nice guy.
And I'm not saying being asked for either I'm just thinking that the thing isn't so
two-dimensional as you may think it is.
Okay, so a lot of people see the plane as a nice guy, and as hole, and that's the only
plane there, is.
There's another plan, though, is a completely another plane and the other plane is just
from a nice guy, to ask hold.
It's from beat mail.
So, I am a...
What does that mean?
I'll explain it to...
So, the nice guy has some qualities, and he tries to be himself, and he tries to be good
and he tries to be a good person, but for some reason, for whatever it is, which I explain,
he doesn't get to grow, he never gets to grow or he tries and maybe...
Maybe he gets the friend zone 100 times, and one girl for the friends one he says.
All right, okay, let's just be in it.
Just date.
Where as the sole com every ASL around...
He keeps getting girls.
What's up with that?
Why does that keep happening?
Let's talk about the characteristic traits that these two have.
The asshole as a leader, I he knows what he wants, he doesn't care about people's opinions,
he's not to, he and secure by themselves or for the most part, yes, on secure by himself.
He's pretty confident he knows exactly what's going on, he knows exactly to do He is unfiltered,
and he's a man of His own Word and He's just like, uh, almost an alpha male, right?
It's a very small silver lining.
Women under track is, as holes.
They're tracked to alpha males.
Now, alpha males have very similar characteristics, assets because a panels, I know what they
want to their leaders, they're on there about themselves, they know what they want to go
after what they want, they're not filtered they are powerful power of people who people
wanna be around so that fine line is confused sometimes because women do already want do
as holes they don't really wanna ask foster want Aleman.
Now what ends up happening is that they're confused because...
But silver lining is so small in between them, but they can't read tell so they just fall
for the characteristically to say, "Oh so the confidence in, knows what he wants, he's
a leader boom.
But they end up falling for guys were to Tully assholes, because not many guys are of males,
but there's a lot of ass out there, those tones and those of assholes.
Now, let's move back to the other side of the spectrum where you have the nice guy in
the beta male unfortunately, the nice guy be the mail.
Both have very, very similar characteristics.
That's gonna be the males.
Are the leaders, not a...
Oh, what do you wanna do?
Oh, I don't mind what you wanna do.
It's a beat, a male that's the guy, he's not a leader, that's a guy who just, he just goes
with the flow, he's a submissive almost, he doesn't really knows what he wants, he's really
say what he wants at least he doesn't go after he doesn't grab okay, who's all quiet?
Can still be an alpha male, but a guy who's caters in one meaning he's just timid inside
internally isn't trying to show he's trying to call him a catch to mention, so he goes
with the flow as much as possible, and he tries to be kill them with kindness, like
"Oh I'm gonna be so nice to the person on E, so good to them and hopefully they'll like
me for being nice.
Unfortunately, that's not tracked.
Quality, so nice guys are confused for metals.
So when a Women meet you and they see you and you're like, "Oh this is utilized Guy,
guess what?
If you're a nice guy, and you follow be the male characteristics.
You're gonna be classified as a beta male.
Unfortunately, that's an attractive thing that's on the on one to...
So the first thing that he says "You know what, my offspring what I want to be asking,
I want them to be with a strong beat, a male.
No, they don't think I got...
They think I wanna reproduce with a very strong someone who knows what he wants, he's gonna
be confidence and we secure of himself, who's gonna take care of me and my children, that's
the biological thinking that they have in bread.
It's Biological beta males don't have that gut go feeling after going after something.
They're not allowed internally, they don't know what they're looking for, and they're
just not leaders, they're just not naturally born leaders.
So you have to realize the plane is over here from nice guys as holes, and then you have
biomass to a meals.
Now, here's a very, very, very interesting thing.
You can be a nice guy and enough a male at the same time how crazy that you can be a
nice guy and and uh, a male.
How does that work?
Well, you don't have to be an asshole if you're an alpha male and you're not an asshole automatically
your nice guy, that's it.
It's as simple as that.
So you kind of wanna sit down and list all these four characteristics, and see what all
of them have.
So you say alpha male, what does he have list each one that I just talked about asshole
what does he have bam bam bam list those up as well But then also notice that the asshole
is just a bad person.
Internally, maybe he's insecure of himself.
Maybe he's just a bad person, maybe he wants to see other people suffer.
Boom, that line should be clear.
So if you're just an alpha male and you're not a asshole, great, fantastic.
You've won the game you're ready.
A nice guy.
But if you're an alpha male, if you're a nice guy, then your characteristics can sometimes
unfortunately, tends to go towards the beam to go up list down.
What are the characteristics of an alpha-male, what are the characteristics of an asshole?
What the correct characteristics of a beat Emile.
And what are the characteristics of a nice guy?
Once you have those listed and you see that the plant isn't Do I mention anymore, and
you're be able to see, hey, holy shit.
These are things that I can shift towards.
You can start moving from being a nice guy or being a beta male towards being enough,
a meal by adapting these you characteristic traits in your own character, and if you're
a guy who's seen this and you're like...
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