Tripp Kramer here from TrippAdvice.com.
Today, I got three of my very best flirting tips for you.
It doesn't matter if you're confident or shy, especially if you are shy, you need to learn
these.
These are going to be crucial when you are meeting women.
First, let me explain why flirting is so important.
Flirting is the subtle mating dance that pretty much every single person has ever done if
they've ever been with a woman.
Any woman and man, whoever got together, there was some flirting that was involved.
This is the way that you show interest in someone.
This is the way that you build attraction.
This is also the way that you get a girl interested in you.
I'm going to give you three today and I'm also going to give you a fourth one as a little
bit of a bonus.
Stick around to the end where you're going to learn where to learn that one and I promise
that one might even be the best.
I’m saving the best for last but don't fast forward to the end of this video because you
still want to learn the first That can be crucial when you're meeting and attracting
women.
Let's get into it.
My first tip is when you're flirting with a girl, what you want to do is create what
I call an imaginary bubble.
You're creating this imaginary bubble between you and the girl.
This bubble is encasing both of you, and you're zoning in on her in such a way where there's
no one else in the room.
Obviously, there are other people in the room wherever you're meeting her.
The whole idea here is that you're just focusing on her.
You're showing her that you're focused on her, and that's going to create this little
connection between you and her.
It's going to act as if no one else is around.
That's what you want.
I call this zoning in, you want to zone in on her.
In a way, this is showing interest but you're not doing it verbally, you're doing it more
non verbally.
A great way to do this is just standing right in front of her, with about maybe one and
a half, maximum is two feet of distance to have a comfortable space and making sure you
guys are shoulder to shoulder.
You are zoning in and talking to her.
This is a great way of flirting because it does show that subtle interest.
The next tip is about touching.
Touching is a great way to flirt with a girl.
I have plenty of videos on how to do that, but I want to give you my really best tip
in terms of touching a girl.
This is easy for guys who are shy too.
It's not intrusive, overbearing, not uncomfortable, and not inappropriate by any means.
In order to break the touch barrier, this is very important because it’s showing interest.
When you're touching a girl, she will notice just like you're going to notice when a girl
might touch you like a light touch on the arm or she might slap your shoulder when you
said something funny, dumb or whatever it is, I want you somewhere in the conversation
to also touch her arm lightly.
Where on the arm?
Just right on it.
There's plenty of excuses when to do that.
Here's a couple.
If you want to know what her name is, you can touch her on the arm lightly quick and
say, what was your name again?
You lean in, touch her arm and ask her name or any kind of question.
It doesn't have to be what was her name again.
It can be any other questions or thoughts like where she lives, then you can just lightly
touch on the arm.
This might seem awkward at first, you might have to practice it, but it's a great way
to show interest.
At the end of the day, human touch feels nice.
If you're doing it appropriately, a little light touch on the arm, which is totally fine
is going to make her feel like, this guy's probably into me, or this guy's showing a
little bit more interest because he's breaking the touch barrier.
She's not thinking that consciously, this is all subconscious.
I know it sounds crazy, like one little light touch on the arm is going to make that big
of a difference?
Trust me, it will.
Wouldn't it for you if a girl was doing it?
Probably.
Here's the third one.
Again, you can combine all of this.
This is stuff that you can use in every single interaction.
The third tip I have for you is about disqualifying her.
Basically, this means that you're showing her that you're not actually interested.
I know this is kind of funny because we were just talking about how flirting is showing
interest, but it's also a dance, it's a back and forth of push and pull up.
You're showing interest, but you're also not showing interest.
I'd say you have to balance it out.
You're showing a little bit more interest and disinterest.
This is a great way to show her that you're not going to be so easy to get and she's gonna
have to chase you a little.
A great way to disqualify her is by showing her disinterest, if she ever says something
that you don't agree with or you don't like.
Here's an example.
Let's say that she says that she's a big bears fan.
There is a football team in Chicago, and you might be a fan of the Seahawks.
If you're a fan of the Seahawks, and she's a fan of the bears, you can say, oh my god,
really your fan of the bears?
This is not going to work out.
You know what, there are plenty of guys on the internet that you can find that will be
amazing for you.
But us?
No, it's not going to happen.
You're saying this with a smile on your face, it's almost like you're teasing her, and disqualifying
her in a way that's joking around.
Also in some ways, even though you're showing disinterest, you're also showing interest
because it's obvious that you're flirting with her.
Now I have one more for you.
In order to get that, I put my last and really amazing flirting tip on an Instagram post
on my Instagram.
I put a link to that post below this video.
All you have to do is click on that link and you will see there the last flirting tip which
is quick and to the point.
It is something that you should be using every single time that you meet a girl.
While you're there, go ahead and follow me on Instagram.
You will see all the updates and get more tips and see what I'm up to.
I post stuff every single day.
Go ahead, check that out for your fourth flirting tip and I'll see you on the next video.