This video is about "Why Most Men Are Done with Dating" Stick around to the end as I
shall reveal typical reasons why most men are completely done with dating and relationships!
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"I just can't take it anymore... I can't even get a single match... All women are the same... I always get
rejected.... I can't catch a break.... What the hell is wrong with me... I was born in the wrong generation
I am done with dating!" Have you been guilty of saying or believing something like that and more? Well I
have... as of certain friends of mine and plenty of men young and old of different backgrounds, beliefs
age groups etc But thankfully I changed my tune and my life and my overall approach to dating
as a result I had more success with women... I gained more numbers, a lot more dates and I've
had more relationships, one that I'm actually currently in is the best I've had to date
and I'm grateful for this shift in mindset and approach! What does it mean to be done with dating?
It's totally giving up in my opinion...there are many ways this can happen and it can be
going into complete isolation and just living in your mother's basement for the rest of your life
it could be just going your own way and choosing to be a bachelor for the rest of your life... I am
not hating on that lifestyle each to their own and good luck to you... it could also be just an
excuse to act lazy, entitled and to not make any sort of effort... and in some cases it could be an
excuse to go back to an ex who just was not right for you or was really toxic in the first place
I've seen all of this happen and more with all sorts of men, me included, yes I too have been
guilty of this action these excuses of saying "I'm done with dating" and approaching things
from a very negative limited standpoint. Here are more reasons most men are done with dating!
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Most men are done with dating because they're too fixated on their past relationships or lovers or
flings... I've seen good looking men sabotage any potential new date or relationship because of this
fixation... like I said a former girlfriend, former fling, even a one-night stand or a woman they're
obsessed with, and in their minds they conclude "why bother trying to date someone new when all I can
do is just go back to a sure thing?!" I had a toxic relationship with a narcissist a few years ago and
truthfully I split with her twice... the first time I did I was a nervous wreck... I was hurting badly
I didn't really know what a narcissist was at the time... I was young, dumb, naive and foolish
I went out in the dating world like a deer in headlights confused and sad. I remember being
on a date with another woman and feeling depressed "you're hung up on your ex aren't you?" she said. She
was right and like a fool rather than take the uncertainty of being single I said "I'm done with
dating... I'm gonna go back to my ex!" As a result I had the most toxic and awful relationship for a
few years longer which was a waste of life. I chose my past instead of a bright future
Gary was dumped by his girlfriend of five years as he lacked ambition... he moved back in with his
parents and was heartbroken.... he refused to date and refused to turn his life around or take any action
An amazing seven years later he still is in the same position he was when he was originally dumped
by his ex. His ex has now gotten married and moved on with her life entirely. "I was done with dating
the moment I got dumped" said Gary, he didn't even give it a chance and instead he fixates on a woman
who doesn't love him, doesn't want him back and is with happily another man and has a family
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I might get a lot of hate here,but unfortunately I believe there's a lot of online forums and
communities causing more harm than good for men...I'm not going to say what they are, but I'm sure
you can work them out... initially yes you get this adrenaline rush for finding like-minded men who
share your pain and frustration with dating and you get answers and maybe there's women in there
who understand you as well and you feel like you're in a matrix and now you're "unplugged" and
life makes sense blah blah blah. These ideologies and forums are good for one thing and one thing
alone = personal development. The reason these men may see results initially is because they
get into shape, they chase excellence and become confident. Confidence is a natural aphrodisiac
for men and for women... unfortunately however some men go deeper and deeper down the rabbit hole and
become obsessed with such content, influencers and beliefs... that for the long term have more
of a toxic effect than a positive one, and then it carries on into real life and that's where it gets
ugly! James was frustrated, growing up he hardly got any dates and no luck with women... then he started
watching videos and reading about certain content... then he started getting more dates and he became a
bit of a player over the course of a year! It was life-changing but it wasn't him... James wasn't a
player, he didn't hate women or subscribe to All or Nothing thinking... his view of the world became
warped, negative and toxic and narrow-minded... he wanted to improve... but also have a more positive
outlook on things and hated pigeonholing women into specific categories and himself and other men
So he unsubscribed from the content and instead approached life with putting his
best self forward and would judge his results accordingly.. which is a far healthier thing
to do than adopting and embodying toxic beliefs with dating women and life overall
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The greatest romantic rejection of them all is never asking a woman out... you heard that correctly
Yes it's not being shot down, getting blocked, laughed at, humiliated... it's doing nothing.. saying
nothing and not even shooting your shot when it comes to any woman you're interested in! You
can sit there and tell me all the excuses Under the Su,n but let me say... I personally know some
extremely unattractive, uneducated, short, out of shape, rude and obnoxious men with some of the most
beautiful wives and girlfriends you'll ever see! So what's your excuse? George had a fear of rejection
he was so insecure and he couldn't cope or handle it... so much so that even if he was rejected he just
completely give up on dating! George went out on a first date with a girl he really liked, but sadly
she only saw him as a friend... she let him down gently and kindly and he spiraled out of control
"I'm done with dating" he said. George never dated for almost a year... then when he built his courage
up to give it another try he saw a woman he was set up with by a mutual friend, no effort on his
behalf and things went well between them! But then it fizzled out and the woman decided to end their
brief relationship. George spiraled again, even worse this time... he refused to date... for almost
three years he stayed in isolation, he never tried, he turned down any opportunities, setups and so on
He tried to lie and claim he was focused on work ,when really he was utterly terrified of
the prospect of being rejected again... how sad... and that anxiety and low opinion of himself
was the reason these women rejected him... What a waste of life! Remember the ultimate rejection,
the biggest one of them all...is giving up on yourself entirely! Please never do this!
Most men, as I already mentioned can be done with dating in several ways = by settling in mediocre
relationships, running back to toxic exes, living in fear and isolation, or by hating on women due
to being badly burnt with the scars to prove it... I've left out men who go their own way here who
want to be Bachelors, because they don't apply to this point at all. Sadly these other men who
think and act this way have weak mentalities, they give up at the first sign of adversity
they've allowed toxic influencers to become famous and successful due to binging their content on
repeat... they talk more rather than take action... and complain and have an abundance of excuses
Growing up and in my late teens I was told I was unattractive, weird and not good enough to get a
girlfriend at all or even get laid! Maybe I could have agreed and set the bar low and settle for
less, but I had a strong desire to prove those haters wrong and show myself I deserve better
Even when I left my toxic relationship with my attractive narcissistic ex, I was met with even
more toxic shame... people said "you'll never find a girlfriend again... you're too old to be single... you
might as well go back to her if you don't find anyone else...!" They were wrong as I've had plenty
of dates and two relationships since, one that I'm currently in which is the best I've ever had
I was done with dating when I had a weak mentality, but then I realized I wanted a
date, I wanted a girlfriend to settle down and so on... I'm not gonna get that sitting in the
corner alone and feeling sorry for myself. You must man up, do the work, keep showing up, sort
your mentality out in general, before it defeats you not just for dating, but for life in general!