When it comes to being attractive, it’s common for women to think that they have to
look or act a certain way to be seen as beautiful or sexy.
What if I told you though, that the number one most attractive characteristic to men
actually has LITTLE to do with looks?
Well, it’s true!
Hey ladies, as most of you already know I’m Amy North, a relationship coach from Vancouver,
Canada, and today I want to share with you what I consider to be one of the best kept
secrets when it comes to being attractive.
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After talking to many different men I’ve come to learn that PHYSICALLY, there is no
such things as one “ideal woman.”
What one man finds attractive another does not, and vice versa.
This means that there’s absolutely no need for you to turn yourself inside out to be
sexy or desired by men.
Sure, some men find certain traits attractive but, as cheesy as it sounds, what’s on the
outside doesn’t count as much as what is on the inside.
This means that being drop-dead gorgeous has nothing to do with the color of your eyes
or your dress size.
It's all about having the right attitude and being sure of yourself.
Which means that the number one most attractive characteristic to men is certainty.
This also translates to courage, confidence, fearlessness, tenacity, the list goes on and
on.
But at the root of it is the positive belief in yourself.
Being certain of your wants, dreams and beliefs, having the courage and poise to stand up for
them, and being bold enough to stick by them will make you ooze sex appeal.
Since men want to be with women who are confident, showing him this side of you will make him
crazy with desire for you.
To better paint the picture, let me tell you a quick story about two women I know.
To protect their privacy and for the sake of this story, I’m going to call them Jamie
and Robyn.
Now Jamie is the kind of women that turns heads.
She’s tall, has a supermodel like figure and bright blue eyes.
Her makeup is always on point and her outfits look as though she stepped out of a saucy
billboard.
But asides from her good looks, Jamie is quiet, uninteresting, and pretty self-indulged.
Robyn on the other hand is borderline opposite.
She’s short and some may say stubby.
She dresses modestly and wears her poofy hair wild and free.
Her idea of putting on makeup includes a quick flick of the mascara and some finishing powder
to hide the blemishes on her cheeks.
She’s friendly, funny, knows what she wants and she isn’t afraid to stand up for what
she believes in.
When it comes to men, you may think that they’d be interested in Jamie, but since Robyn is
the one showing absolute conviction, guys are more attracted to her.
Why?
Because they can tell when a woman is trying to impress them vs. being genuinely confident.
And if you don’t have confidence in yourself, why would they?
A great thing about being certain of yourself is that it makes you glow with positivity.
Since no man wants to be around a negative nancy or sulky susan, seeing the good in situations
and being able to take what life throws at you is super admirable, and attractive.
This kind of confidence also tends to make you more trustworthy and dependable.
Think about it from a woman’s perspective for a moment.
Would you rather be with a guy who has himself together, or someone who is constantly all
over the place?
There’s no need to even say it, but one of those guys you know you can depend on,
and the other, not so much…
This also brings me to my next point, about how being certain of yourself is inspiring.
When a man sees that you have yourself together, it’ll inspire him to do the same.
When you can be confident enough to motivate a man like this, it’ll challenge him to
be his best possible self.
Since men love challenges, having the ability to do this will not only attract him, but
it’ll keep him hooked!
Instead of letting yourself get wrapped up in insecurities, learn how to love who you
are and celebrate it for all the world to see.
Do the things that make you happy, and be open to trying new things and taking chances.
When you find that courage and self love in yourself you’ll have men chasing you for
a chance to be with you.
For some powerful, life-changing tips on how to become your most attractive self visit
www.coachnorth.com/free and download my free guide.
Trust me, you’ll find it extremely helpful.
I know this because many women have told me so.
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