The friend zone; you’re in it, you don’t want to be there.
Feels like you’re on this deserted island and not one that looks like this but a scary
one where you’re all alone.
We don’t want you to be in friend zone island.
No.
We want you to be in lover’s lane.
And the only way to get there is to escape the friend zone.
I’m going to be giving you a line to say that is going to help you escape the friend
zone.
Most importantly avoid the friend zone.
Here’s the thing; there’s no guarantees that you’re ever going to be able to get
out of the friend zone with a girl you’re with.
I’d like to try to fix the actual problem
and not try to fix the symptoms.
Let’s get to the point, the line that you’re going to say is
“I don’t want any more friends.”
That’s what you’re going to say “I don’t want anymore friends.”
Very simple, very direct and that’s what a big part of this channel is to teach you
how to ask for what you want, get what you want and be more assertive and so that line
really encompasses that assertiveness.
Saying to her “I don’t want anymore friends.”
When are you going to say this?
What’s the context of this?
One of the ways to avoid the friend zone or at least get out of the friend zone is to
state your intention.
Let the girl that you’re in the friend zone with know that you’re interested in her
and if she says something to you like “Oh no, sorry.
I just see you as a friend.
That’s not what I thought this was about” or anything in that realm, you’re going
to say to her that line.
You’re going to say well listen I don’t want anymore friends.
And you’re stating to her directly that this is not what you’re in it for and that
you like her more than that.
Now listen is that line right there going to all of a sudden make her change her mind
and say wait a minute, he doesn’t want anymore friends.
We are now going to be lovers.
No, that’s not going to happen.
The very point of this line is to give you some courage and to be able to teach you to
not only say what you’re looking for, but let a girl know what it is that you are looking
for.
Say to a girl when you like her, say hey I’m not looking for anymore friends, I don’t
want anymore friends.
That’s a way to tell a girl that you’re interested in her.
What I want you to use that line for is telling a girl that you like her.
That you’re interested in her.
Say that line to her.
That’s going to be your way out.
Guys always want this magic solution for getting out of the friend zone.
Let me tell you something, there is none.
The only way is to tell her that you’re not interested in friendship and that’s
the point of this video.
You’re not interested in friendship.
Let her know.
Here’s my mini-challenge to you today (no, it’s not “#movementmonday if you know
what I’m talking about) but if you have a friend zone situation, I want you to tell
the girl right now that you’re in the friend zone with that you’re not looking to be
friends.
That you don’t want anymore friends.
Tell her this.
And you know what?
End this purgatory.
Finally get out of the situation once and for all where you’re in this in the middle
in between situation.
We don’t want you in there.
Tell her this, write down below what happens so we can finally have you move forward and
move on.
You’re probably wondering where I am right now.
I’m at a sandbar.
Just Potter and I in the middle of the Indian Ocean.
We had this whole picnic set up for us by Fushifaru the resort that we’re staying
at.
Which is incredible and they set up this entire picnic for you where you can spend a couple
hours here with the waves crashing on every single end of you all alone.
It’s incredible.
All right, the sun has set.
I want to continue this video.
It’s really important to me.
Honestly it’s one of the most important things I can try to convey to so many guys
out there.
Is the concept of the evil friend zone and why it’s so important to stay out of it.
Of course I know you want to stay out of it, you want to avoid it.
But I believe that you created the choice to stay in the friend zone or not.
I believe that guys put themselves in the friend zone instead of girls putting them
in the friend zone because you don’t have to be in the friend zone.
You’re probably thinking well Tripp what are my options?
You have two options; one she doesn’t put you in the friend zone and you guys start
dating or she rejects you.
Rejection is a hard word.
Maybe she says to you she’s not interested, she doesn’t see you like that.
Whatever the reason it doesn’t work out so then you move on.
Staying in the friend zone and trying to be her friend to eventually convince her that
you’re a good guy.
It doesn’t work.
Ok?
I’ve done this, I know guys who have done this.
It doesn’t work.
What happens is your self-esteem gets completely crushed because you end up being a friend
to this girl for so long only to find out that she’s going to be with another guy
and that guy is not going to be you.
Go ahead and press like if you agree with me.
I want to see at least two thousand likes on this video because you should agree with
me.
You have to agree with me.
You need to agree with me.
The friend zone is a bad place.
Avoid it at all costs.
Press that like button, hit subscribe.
I’m going back to listen to some music and hangout.
I’ll see you tomorrow on the next video.
Peace.