Uncle C, back in the office and in this video, I'm going to be discussing how you as a man
can actually start the process of building Confidence with women. How do you be confident
around a woman? How do you even be confident in any way, shape or form. What I'm going to be doing
throughout this video is breaking down exactly what any guy has to do step by step. And by the
end of this video, I'm hoping for three things to occur. Number one, you actually have clarity on
how to be confident. Number two, my intent is that you actually look past this as something more and
beyond what it takes to be good with women. then number three, why this is actually a critical,
important part of becoming full stack within yourself in full stack within your masculinity.
So if you stay until the end, those are the three things that you're going to be accomplishing just
by watching this video. And after that, I'm gonna even show you measurable steps of application. So
that way you can go out and actually apply this into the real world, let's dive in. The
very first thing that you're going to have to do in order to build confidence around women,
is you have to start to detach from the emotion. See, this is actually part of becoming a masculine
driven, rational, productive, purpose driven mail. Because when you have these attributes,
when you're able to detach the words from the fields, oh my god, the fields, I love the fields,
okay, this is this is that's the World War and, and since that's the world we're in,
you have to be strong enough within yourself to recognize why that is a massive downfall.
Wow, that's gonna hinder every single decision that you make everything in life comes down to how
it's executed, and how it sounds for believability of the other person. and in this situation, we're
discussing a woman. Okay, anytime in life I've been half in, I'm sitting there, I'm like, if I
just swung the whole way, I can knock that person out, right. But if I like hesitate, and it's like,
and then I go, it's half force. And that's where men are at us. They're constantly one foot in and
one foot out. And it's because they're emotional. You have to detach from the emotion when you
detach from the emotion. The words become fluent. When the words become fluent, that is strong,
there's strength in speaking with intent, there is strength in speaking with clarity.
And one of the best ways to do that is to understand why it's so crucial to have no fear of
judgment. You can't necessarily worried about what she's going to think about you can't worry about
if she's going to reject you, we have no idea what's going on in that woman's internal world.
And this stems into everything in your life. Now, here's my second point to this.
Being confident with women is going to stem from you being okay with rejection.
When a woman looks you in the eyes and says no. And it doesn't faze you, that is the strongest,
most powerful thing that you can have as a man, why is this because there are so many times in
life, you're going to be told no. If you're scared to be told no by a woman, chances are you're
scared of rejection by your boss, you're scared of rejection with your peers, you're scared to speak
your mind in your social circle, you're scared to disagree with somebody, okay? This is going
to come down to congruence of who you are. Which means when you start to understand how to speak
with intent, why it's important to have purpose, how to have clarity within your speech, how to
have intent, why that energy safe is transferable from person to person, guess what happens,
you can now copy paste those same skills, those same attributes into every area in your life.
And this is where you will now see men crushing it within their purpose, crushing it with their
business doing better within themselves. And it stems from actually having the confidence
that came many times to level up to solve that man's reproductive issues to actually get better
at speaking with women to feel fulfilled deep down within himself. Why is game and why is why
is it good to have verbal banter, it's because it shows that you're not necessarily fearful of what
might hurt in the short term. And this is only going to stem from detaching from your emotion.
The only way to truly have Self Confidence with women is you have to get used to application
because application is far more important than feel good information or information in any way,
shape, or form. For that matter, you can watch all 700 videos on my channel and still be scared
shitless when you walk up and you approach that girl, why? It's because your brain knows one of
two things or two of two things either a it knows, hey, we have not been here done that before. Or b
we have been here done that before. And the more times your brain can fire with anything in life
that says hey, we've been there, done that before. Nothing bad's gonna come of this. We have the
strength to do this. We have the capability to pull we have the capability to ask for the number
when we're not fearful of women, right these this is like a monotonous train that you got to just
get on of like doing doing doing and when you can do That that's where confidence is
built confidence is not necessarily built from the successes, confidence is built from the failures.
Because when you understand that the failures don't necessarily make you
and you can detach the words being said from the emotion, this is when you look like you can crush
it, this is when you can crush it. And this is when you don't get choked up in your speech,
there is no approach anxiety, you feel as if you're entitled to the outcome
of what you should get and what you should receive as a man, because you have been there done that.
Now in order for you to have proper application with this topic, you have to understand that self
confidence only comes from repetition. Rep after rep after rep after Rep. Here's what I mean,
if I'm about to incline barbell bench, 225 pounds for my very first time, and this is the first time
my wrists have ever loaded that much weight, and I go to press it. I'm not supposed to be confident.
You do get that right, you're not supposed to be confident in things you have not done before.
This is my first time working out that way. I'm scared shitless to press it up. However,
I can build some level of success mentally because I know the week before I hit 220.
And I know that 225 can just be incremental. So how do you do this? How do you take proper
application right now? Well, you go out in the world and you start doing things that scare you.
You start saying hi to the woman. That's it, maybe say hi to the cute store clerk. Okay,
maybe eventually, after one or two times of saying hi, you say How was your day? And maybe after that
you say? How long have you worked here for? And maybe all of a sudden you say you look like the
type of woman that I wouldn't mind getting to know you see, these aren't necessarily things you can
strip word for word, but what I am saying is you have to desensitize yourself so it's gradual. How
do you build confidence in anything? You do it by having prior history and prior track record that
says hey, there's a damn good chance if I do this right now I will be successful. But guess what?
None of you will actually get this down unless you go out there and you finally start. So here's what
I did. I took it upon myself to create a system to make it easier for you to start and all the
men that you're seeing right here on the top of the screen whether they're saying they got their
dream girlfriend, these are men who now have women pursuing them. These are actually men who now feel
comfortable and confident in their own skin. I'm hearing guys say the words finally just flow like
water. They did this by using my MBT system. What is MBT? Well here's what I did. I put together a
free full one hour masterclass. And what you can do is you can click the link directly below this
video, you can register for that NBT masterclass. And you can see how all of the men have been using
this system to not only attract their dream companion, but to ensure that any woman views
them as an s3 actual option without settling for low quality or low value women this has been a
total game changer and this is why I want to wrap up the video so if you like this video, I want you
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