- I actually have a Harry Potter tattoo.
- Same.
Deathly Hallows.
- Stop! - It's right there.
- I'm gonna have to see it.
Mine's on my back.
- Oh dope, okay.
Cute, winning.
- I'm looking for more of a serious relationship
with someone who I can actually give myself to
and let that wall fall.
- I've dated guys who aren't out and it's no fun.
I wanna be able to hold your hand,
I wanna be able to kiss you in public.
I've worked too hard to be comfortable with myself
to go back into a closet not unless I'm looking for clothes.
And if you're not comfortable with who you are
then you'll never be comfortable with me.
- Your name is Steve, and this is your story.
You are 27, you're a waiter, you grew up in San Diego.
And I would say that you're Hispanic, on your background.
- My name is Alex.
I am 27.
I work in production, I'm not a waiter.
I grew up in Northern California, slash Mexico.
- Okay.
- And my ethnic background is Hispanic.
Latino. - Yes.
- You got it. - Great.
- Your name is Thomas and this is your story.
You're 26 years old, you are an actor,
you grew up in New York,
your ethnic background is African-American.
- Well no, my name is not Thomas.
You never would've guessed it, my name is Sir'Twon.
I am 33.
I'm actually a dance teacher.
I'm from Miami, and I am African-American.
- Alright.
- Not bad.
- You had it way closer.
- Dancing as a little boy was tough.
No guy danced when I was growing up.
Most of my uncles or cousins played sports.
Once I found dance, that was literally all I wanted to do.
Actually, I stopped playing sports outside
because I didn't wanna hurt myself
because I knew I wanted to dance.
- Dating in the gay community definitely has
its own little problems.
Simply for the fact that guys are really horny,
so when you have two guys together,
with a lot of testosterone and,
a free will to have as much sex as they can,
it complicates things a lot, you know?
If you were stuck on a desert island and you could
only bring one album that would be Britney Spears.
One movie would be Bring It On, 'cause you're a dancer.
And one food item would be mac and cheese.
If you had to give up one of your senses,
you would give up touch.
- Okay, let's see what you got right.
- Alright.
- Album I would bring would be Beyonce's
Dangerously In Love.
I would bring Harry Potter actually as my movie.
I love Harry Potter!
And I would bring peanut butter and jelly
because it's like, you get protein,
you get everything you need.
- Okay.
If I had to give up one of my senses, I would give up sight.
I believe that life is a feeling process,
so you don't necessarily need to see something to feel it.
Okay, so now it's your turn Alex.
If you were stuck on a deserted island,
you would bring a J-Lo album.
I don't know why, I just assume that you like J-Lo.
The Wedding Planner would be one of your movies.
You like J-Lo, I don't know,
I just figured I would go for it.
- Wow.
- And I feel like everybody loves french fries,
so french fries would be your food item.
- You're not wrong.
- If you had to give up one of your senses,
you would give up smell.
- The one album that I would bring to a desert island
would be Enrique Iglesias, cause I'm like obsessed.
- I almost said it.
- I love J-Lo but, she's cool.
But Enrique Iglesias.
- Okay.
- I went for TV show, and that's Friends.
- Okay, great choice.
- But, I'm obsessed with Harry Potter.
- Oh, like great.
- I actually have a Harry Potter tattoo.
- Same. Deathly Hallows.
- Stop. - It's right there.
- I'm gonna have to see it. Mine's on my back.
- Oh, dope. Okay.
Cute, winning.
- Alright, and then my food item would be a burrito.
- Oh, okay.
- I love how practical they are.
You can carry them. - Everything, I know.
You can walk around in an island.
- And they're not so messy.
- Just get your little salsa.
- Nice, smart guy.
- If I had to give up one of my senses,
it would be speaking.
But now that I think about it, I like your,
you said smell?
- For you? - Yeah.
- Smell. Yes.
- I think I would give that one up.
You said sight?
- I said sight for me.
- You can not.
Imagine you can't see anymore?
- Yeah, but life would still be beautiful.
- Uh, no.
- He's like, no, I need to see it.
- Smell, forget smell, that means I can still taste.
- Taste, yes.
- You know, if someone farts, you don't smell anything.
So I have two brothers, I'm the middle one,
and the most intelligent and the better looking.
If they see this, they're gonna hit me.
I hang out with them on the daily, still.
We grew up together so we're very physical.
We show our affection through punches.
It's definitely a brotherly love.
- My family was pretty awesome,
I didn't really grow up with my father.
My mom raised me and my sisters, she worked her ass off.
Pretty much, kinda raising my sister,
I had to be very responsible.
Family is definitely something that is huge to me so,
that's something that I grew up with,
going to visit my grandmother, my great-grandmother,
visit my aunties, my uncles, my cousins.
We love seafood, we like frog legs and gator.
I know people are like, that's really gross.
But it does taste like chicken!
I think that you might want kids, however,
I don't think that kids are important to you,
or having kids is important to you.
You believe children need to grow up in a home
with plenty of attention.
Two of the most important things you need in a relationship
is honesty and trust.
- Jesus.
- That's all I got.
- You're really good, I'm impressed.
- Aye.
- Having children is definitely important to me.
- Okay.
- That's definitely in my future, I can see it.
If nothing works out,
I feel like I would even be a single parent.
- Absolutely.
- I believe children need to grow up in a family
with plenty of food.
Going back to my heritage, Mexican,
so the whole family revolves around the kitchen and food.
The two most important things I need in a relationship
are honesty, which you got it, and being spontaneous.
Getting up and going on a trip, randomly.
I think it's - Nice.
it's very healthy for a relationship.
Alright, so you.
I feel like you would want kids in the future.
You would want a house full of love
and I feel like you would be a rules type of guy.
Strict rules.
You love them a lot but you would have 'em
follow the rules, the curfew, I think a lot of chores.
- Okay.
- The two most important things you need in a relationship
are humor and rhythm.
If someone can't dance, then it's a big part of you.
- Okay, well you definitely got the first one right.
Having children is definitely important to me.
Like you, if I have to be a single parent,
I definitely will be a single parent.
I would love to raise children in a home with two parents,
but I definitely want kids.
I feel that kids should grow up
in a house of plenty of love.
I feel like to be loved and feel loved, you feel invincible.
You feel like you can do anything.
However, the second part of that was very accurate!
I grew up with curfew, with chores and house rules,
so that's definitely how I would raise my kids,
so good job on that one.
The two most important things for me in a relationship
is honesty and openness.
I feel like with openness
there's a lot of room for possibilities.
But honesty is definitely something that I need.
- When I first saw you, I thought that I would date you.
Now that I've talked to you and gotten to know you more,
I've decided that I would still date you.
- That's exciting, I was terrified of this part.
When I first saw you and I first opened my eyes,
I said that I would date you.
And now that I've gotten a chance to talk to you
and get to know you a bit,
I said that I would still date you.
You seem like a really cool guy.
- Thank you. - You're very welcome.
- I think we match pretty well.
- [Sir'Twon] We can go have a burrito.
- I'm down. - Not a burrito.
- There's a lot of screenings, like rooftop screenings.
So maybe we could find a Harry Potter one?
- That would be dope, actually.
- That would be sick. - I would love that.
Come on, let's go.
Let's make this happen, Captain.
We all judge people off of how you look,
but then actually getting to know a person is another thing,
which was pretty cool.
- I mean, it's definitely one way to do it.
- Alex, you're hilarious.
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