- What's your favorite sex position?
- I don't really know the numbers in the sex positions.
- The numbers? (laughing)
- Yeah I do like 96, 65.
- Let's try. (laughing)
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Hi, I'm Chloe, and this is my mom, Helen.
- Hi.
- Okay, who's going first?
- Uh, what got you interested in being a sex educator?
- I've always loved talking about my sexuality
to my friends.
I used to write a blog and then I realized
that people were kind of learning
from the things that I shared.
- I think I saw that blog.
- Did you really? (both laughing)
- [Crew Member] Were you maybe doing a bit
of mom stalking online?
- Uh, I can't remember but I just remember
hoping that none of the rest of the clan in Northern Ireland
were having a look, and I'm not certain about that.
- I'm going so red already. (laughing)
I think I have to take it off. It's gonna happen.
- You might need a shot before I ask this question.
- Oh God.
- Okay, so give me three tips for a better sex life.
(laughing)
- Okay, love the body that you're presenting
in your sex life.
Really set the scene, mood light, music.
And the third one, use some of the toys
that you've been investing in. (both laughing)
Okay.
Have you ever been embarrassed about the work I do?
- I mean we have had discussions about language.
- Mm.
- My stage name is the Pussy Queen.
I'm actually running a workshop tonight
called Pussy Palace.
- Yes I do think that language of pussy
is potentially too confronting.
I believe that that could potentially turn away people
from engaging in a conversation.
- Yeah.
- It's just too confrontational as a beginning.
- But I had to, my business is so much me,
if I tone that down I'm toning me down
and the whole part of this work is I don't wanna
tone myself down.
- I'll leave this be.
Oh you're gonna love this one.
Did you ever hear me having sex growing up?
- I actually didn't but one time, I walked in
on you and Paul.
I didn't see you guys having sex
but I just felt in my body terror
and I just ran out the door.
(both laughing)
What's the kinkiest thing you've ever done?
- Oh, skinny dipping in rivers
and sex in water and yeah.
- That's awesome.
- We've been trying to get onto sex in the garage
on the motorbike for a long time, that's never happened.
(both laughing)
- Yes, I love that so much.
- How many one night stands have you had?
- We don't need that number out there.
- 'Cause I know you had a book, you used to write them down.
- Yeah, I lost count.
Okay, what's your biggest fear around my work
and how vocal I am on a taboo subject?
- Well I think a little bit of that's already happened
'cause some of the family have disconnected from you
on social media. - Yeah.
- So there's some sort of balance to be had
between not compromising yourself
and there's just some things that I would think
in possibly an old fashioned way,
like your uncles just don't need to be exposed to that.
But I understand that's for me to deal with
and not necessarily for you to have that.
Do you have a healthy amount of sex?
- I'm not having as much sex as I want to.
I'm ready to have a lot of sex with a really great person
but I'm just waiting for them to arrive.
Hello, are you watching the video? (both laughing)
- Just manifesting. - I am manifesting my partner,
hardcore. (both laughing)
How is your sex life?
- It's good, with an ex.
- Is it better because it's with an ex?
- Yes, yes. 100 percent.
- What do you mean?
- It's much better for me to have my own home
and see him when it suits me.
- That's great, that's awesome to hear.
There's this belief that over 50s, sex dries up
and that's just bullshit.
- Menopause is not helpful.
- Has it been like, what has happened?
Like it went down and it's come back up
or it goes up and down?
- Well libido goes down, body shape changes,
lubrication changes.
It's men-opause.
- Men-opause, wow. (laughing)
That's just blown my mind. (laughing)
What's your favorite sex position?
- I don't really know the numbers in the sex positions.
- The numbers? (laughing)
- Yeah I do like 96, 65. - Let's try.
- I'm gonna have a shot.
- Okay. (laughing)
That's so cute.
- When did you lose your virginity? Give me the details.
- Okay, I was 17, it was, yeah, not enjoyable,
like painful, he was very loving but it was painful.
His house was getting floors re-varnished
and I reckon we nearly passed out from the fumes
so we had to stumble out of the house.
Not very romantic.
Are you proud of me?
- Very proud of you, yeah, turned out beautiful
and amazing and yeah I'm very proud of you.
- Love you, mom.
Thank you.
- [Narrator] Did you actually know
that Truth or Drink have an Australian version?
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