person who commits adultery for the first time they can't sleep alhamdulillah because they can't
sleep because they want to go back to allah the tawbah they want to turn what was that for what
did i gain etc but when they get themselves into the habit what happens they don't even blink an
eye for them it's like oh by the way that's what happens a person who has drunk or did drugs for
the first time it really bothers them but after a while they get used to it the point is my brothers
my sisters human kind is created in a way that you whatever you get yourself used to you become that
so get yourselves used to good things you want to do your salah initially if you haven't been
fulfilling it properly it will be a mission for the first 40 days to four months it will
be a mission it's tough force yourself to fulfill your salah get up for fajr when 40
days have clocked and you've done it for 40 days pushing yourself i promise you the 41st day comes
before your alarm clock actually goes off you're already awake and you turn it off
without anything why allah created you that way you got yourself used to something get
yourself used to quran every morning initially it's a push you've got to push yourself push
yourself initially you must then what will happen there'll come a time when your day
won't be straight unless you've read quran allah that is it allah says you get used to something
here's the hadith the prophet muhammad peace be upon him is saying the best of your deeds are
those that are done regularly even if they're little what's the issue here why regularly
the best of your deeds regularly because it habitualizes it becomes you it becomes your
habit people know you're gonna enter the masjid on a friday that uncle who crook will be sitting in
the corner you watch you come here 12 o'clock early mashallah but you're not the first one
because there's someone who's gotten themselves used to that for the last 30 years where are you
going to compete with that man may allah help us i want to encourage myself and yourselves
not only to get used to good habits and to eradicate bad you know when you swear at home
and you scream and yell at each other and you shout at each other and you've got no proper
conduct you've got to be tough on yourself for a while and then it will become secondary nature
not to scream anymore it will become secondary it will become then primary nature actually
that you know what this home is beautiful we used to long back sway for example
i'm not talking about myself but anyway we're saying for example a person says we used to swear
at home we no longer swear because we became tough and strong and the house is beautiful we didn't
used to compliment each other the the thank yous and pleases as muslims etc beautiful words get
used to them appreciate you don't just come in now where's the food and then there you are no relax
relax you say jazakum i appreciate it may allah reward you get yourself used to it push yourself
force yourself go home show good character conduct it's not you people will be surprised but it's a
better version of who you're about to become let 40 days to 4 months pass there's no fixed time
i'm just giving you the an average that people have worked on and i tell you what happens that
home becomes a beautiful home because you worked on it you want to quit your habit initially it's
going to be tough to quit that cigarette notice i'm giving you a light example so it's heavy
but you cross that threshold of so many days and you have the determination to please allah
to meet allah with a beautiful statement that i could this habit for your sake o allah trust me
you it will just become nature you won't believe you were ever a smoker nor will anyone else around
you this uncle used to smoke can't be impossible that's a light example like i said i could have
chosen heavier things but let's start off there but even the other habits you have a bad habit
whatever it may be and you know what the bad habits are you've got to be strong because
the hadith tells you when you are regular upon something it becomes you so let's be careful