Uncle C, back in the office and in today's video, I'm going to be discussing the number
one s three actual secret that no women will ever tell you that you have. Now keep in mind
throughout this video, I'm actually going to be displaying some of my live coaching.
Okay, this is a one to one client from this morning who's a married man, he's in my men's
relationship blueprint mastery. He's a member that I consult with one to one and I was in
so one of my relationship clinic seminars today. And I was trying to really bridge the
gap and kind of detach him from some of these narratives that are leaving him heartbroken
are leaving his you know, his wife unfulfilled and wanting to go find other men. Keep in
mind, this is a massive problem. This is such a massive problem. If you look at like statistics,
even like if you take a look at like marriage, for example, 50% of marriages end in divorce
85 to 90% of those marriages are ended by women. So and coding as I'm, I'm a child from
a family of divorce, keep in mind that like facts don't lie. So the fact is, if women
are losing interest, if women are losing attraction for their men, there's something fundamentally
we as men do when we enter into a relationship that leaves them that want to stay in the
first place. Because Make no mistake, no matter what garbage, you're filled with us, because
she's going through work stress, it's because she's going through friend stress, which because
of this, it's because of the in laws don't like me, this is all false. There's either
attraction or there isn't. And if there isn't attraction, you have to figure out why attraction
is not being met. Now, I'm going to play tape from some of the one to one consulting today.
And after that, once you hear it, I'm going to actually address why men don't even understand
that they have this power to attract women and be confident in the first place. You see
women have. Here's what really here's what really disappointed me and actually made me
like almost sad in a way when I yeah, having a discussion with a 18 year old kid in my
hometown, right and he's struggling, okay. You're dealing with women. So, quick backstory.
You can see my whiteboard, correct? Yeah. men aren't taught how to be attractive. men
aren't taught how to exercise their sexuality like women. So this kid is 18 and he has no
idea what masculine energy he has no idea how to be dominant or seductive in an interaction.
Which portal, he's been able to seduce a woman or use his masculine energy zero times. You
see the zero I just drew from it. Yeah. Meanwhile, every 18 year old chick at his high school,
wears yoga pants daily, takes promiscuous pictures on Instagram, knows exactly how to
flirt knows exactly how to do their hair. They get to exercise their sexuality 50 times
per day, compounded by 365 days per year, compounded by years of their life. So this
woman knows exactly how to command the partner she wants to she's done this and practice
this 1 million times. Meanwhile, this man has been stripped of everything that's made
him masculine and he's exercises masculinity and seduction power total zero times. Okay,
so what am I getting at? What am I getting at after working with over 4500 students?
Well, what I'm getting at is this. Men and women perceive attraction, they perceive love
very, very differently. And the way women will tell you that they want love or a feeling
is they'll try to communicate it in a way where in your brain, you're going to think
that this is all lovey dovey, and this is things of that nature, when in actuality she
desires the strength of a man and she desires a man with guidelines and with set boundaries.
Now, the fact is this. Women are going to fall in love with your words and how you make
them feel. And not only that, if you're confident, if you're direct, what's going to happen is
she's naturally going to feel feminine, she's naturally going to feel submissive, okay,
this is key in order to hook a woman into love. The second that a woman starts to feel
as if she can no longer follow your lead. The second a woman feels as if she can out
banter you or that there is no chemistry or that you don't necessarily know how to verbally
work your words the right way to get a rush of emotion. The problem is she's going to
go find those feelings elsewhere. Now how men fall in love is men are going to be falling
in love through female shape. Okay, how feminine the woman looks, how sweeter voices right
how soft her appearance is how curvy her body is. These are things that men become attracted
to. These are the things that make men go weak at the knees. If you put a beautiful
drop dead gorgeous 10 out of 10 woman in front of that man, he's going to feel flustered.
He's going to really hope that he looks appropriate that day, he's going to hope he brings his
a game. What really baffles My mind is men don't understand that they have that exact
same power. They have that exact same effect on women. They've just never been taught how
to use it. The only way you can use that power with a
woman that will make her vulnerable, make her giddy. Make her nervous to be around you
is by making her feel those emotions. And this is the part where men really struggle.
They say, Well, how do I do that? You do that through your tonality, you do that through
your sub communication. You do that by having confidence and meaning and direction behind
your speech. And not only that, you do it in a manner where you don't necessarily care
what the stage or setting is, you are free to express yourself in a confident manner.
Okay, if you watch a great pickup artists, and no, I don't always agree with a lot of
the things they do, because they're missing a lot of key fundamental areas of masculinity.
But if you watch them, they're completely in state. They don't care who's watching,
they don't care what the, you know, public social narrative is that they should follow
for what's proper manners, right? They do them. And when they do them, they almost get
to tap into this primal state. And when you can tap into this primal state, you can truly
actually express your masculine energy. What separates a guy who understands this from
guy who doesn't is the guy who actually understands this is okay to do these things. He's okay
to express these things, even if 99% of men aren't. And the second you can get out of
your head and in touch with your body and not necessarily care who's watching not necessarily
care who's observing. And you don't care about the outcome. This is when you're truly going
to crush it. So make no mistake, you have the exact same power within you, as every
other woman that has a million followers and a big old bot on Instagram. The problem is,
is you just don't know yet how to use it. And if you think that for one second, she
doesn't desire her opposite or a strong man in her life. You have another thing coming
to you because deep down they all do. If you liked this video, I'd like you to hit the
like button, comment and subscribe and we will see you in the next one.