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My wife of 12 years was having threesomes weekly.
My cheating wife of 12 years was having threesomes weekly.
My wife works as a travel agent and she knows how to get all the deals
and can even find deals on hotels.
As far as the hotels, I don't know how she had time to cheat on me in college though.
She had a lot of male friends didn't bother me too much, but
one of her close female friends.
Who she had a falling out with, told me to watch out for her.
I didn't have any idea, my wife displayed this type of behavior until
I remembered what her old friend said.
She was never out of place.
Meaning, she came home when she said she would, even when she hung out with
friends, she was never out too late.
She does have a travel job, but it's only part time.
So she does have opportunity to be unfaithful.
One day I came home from work and my wife isn't home, but she gets home about
15 minutes later, I was in the kitchen.
She wasn't dressed like she was working.
She had on some shorts that made me raise my eyebrows a bit.
She said she went for a walk, which seemed plausible.
So, I never thought anything else of it.
After a few weeks, I started noticing she was in this attire more
often when I got home from work.
And assumed she was walking more, well, one day when I was coming
home, I noticed my wife was coming.
She was walking from the area from an apartment complex.
That's near our house and she had on those same shorts that made me
think, why is she wearing shorts that were way too short in my opinion.
When I questioned her about it, she just said she likes to walk in different
places, change of scenery so to speak.
I said okay, make sense.
So I didn't say anything else to her about it.
I just assumed from that point on, she was just walking to stay
in shape and she was in shape.
A couple of weeks go by, I am at work one day, and a coworker comes
up to me while I was on break.
Just to chat for a bit gossip, a little, he then tells me a good friend of
his, and one of his friends is having threesomes with some woman on a regular
basis from this friendfinder site.
I said, wow, that's interesting.
And he said, the woman was hot too.
I then said, how does she look?
He said he didn't have a picture of her, but he told me he would text his
friend to see if he would send a photo.
After that conversation, I didn't think anything of it.
Today, when I got home, my wife was in the shower.
I announced my presence and my wife said she would be out soon.
When she got out of the shower, she asked me how my day went.
I told her it was a normal day at work.
Then I told her about a conversation, about a coworker telling me a story about
one of his friends, having threesomes with some woman, it seems on a regular basis.
Her response was, WOW, I couldn't do that.
Later, we have dinner, watch a movie and turn in for the night.
The next day I go to work, go on, break my coworker.
Remember the guy I talked to saying his friend and another one of his
friends were having a threesome it seems like on a weekly basis.
Well, today my heart sank, he came over to my table.
As he was bringing out his phone.
He proceeded to tell me that his friend sent him a photo of the
woman they're having fun with.
Guess who it is?
My wife is in an explicit photo of her with these two men and another
picture of her with the same shorts I have seen her with on many
occasions, my heart was beating so fast, but I had to keep my composure.
My response was she is a nice looking lady.
After work, I drove home, and the same thing I encountered the
other day when I came home.
My wife was in the shower, which I thought was rather strange only because
it's happened on more than one occasion.
When she got out of the shower.
She didn't know I was home because I did not announce my presence.
When she saw me, she was startled.
She said, I didn't hear you come in.
I simply told her that I had a long day at work.
I didn't tell her that I found out through a coworker she was cheating on me.
As the night goes on, she sees that I am visibly quiet.
I haven't said much to her and she notices, she then
asks me, is everything okay?
Is there something you want to talk about?
I simply told her that my boss was upset with me because I failed to
complete a project, no big deal I said.
The next day at work, on break, my coworker comes over to where I am
sitting and we chat for a second.
I then ask him, can he send those photos he has of the woman who
was having these threesomes with.
He said he couldn't do that.
I simply said, that's a picture you have of my wife with
your friend, and his friend.
He then says, HOLY CRAP.
I said, yeah, he then says, I won't send them to you, but you
can take a screenshot of them.
My plan was to confront her and kick her out of the house, but
I wanted to have proof first.
I then asked him, does your friend have the profile that she used?
He says, hold on, I am going to call him.
He calls his friend right in front of me, his friend asked, why was he asking?
He said, man, that's my coworker's wife.
I heard his friend say, oh my goodness.
So his friend sent him the profile that she used and I took a photo of it.
I assured them both.
My wife wouldn't know that it leaked from them.
So, as my work day continues, I was not able to focus after that, knowing that
my wife was cheating on me on a regular basis with two men at the same time.
And, it seemed like it was the same time every day.
My work day ends and I drive home when I get home, my wife isn't there.
So after finding out that she has been cheating, I didn't call her or text her.
About an hour later.
She came walking through the door, dressed like she had worked today
since she worked part-time I really never knew what day she worked,
because she never shared that with me.
And I didn't press her about it.
I didn't even greet her.
I looked at her and told her I knew what she was doing.
She looked up at me and said, what are you talking about?
I pulled out my phone and showed her the pictures.
Her mouth is wide open.
And in disbelief, I then said, you need to pack your things.
That's all I said to her.
She didn't says to me, screw you.
I am not going anywhere.
My heart started racing again.
I said, screw me.
And then I said to her, I am going to ruin your reputation.
At that moment.
It was imperative for me to get out because she could
say I hit her or something.
So, I packed a few things and left as fast as I could.
So as I was driving, I called my mother who lives about 30 minutes
away and asked her if I could stay with her until I am divorced.
She sounded like she fell out of a chair.
When I said that.
She then asks why?
I told her that my wife was cheating on me.
She says, oh no.
When I get to my mom's place, she greets me, gives me a hug and
says, I am sorry to hear that.
She asked me, how did I find out she was cheating?
I pull out my phone and show her she screams and turns her head.
Yep.
She is having threesomes on a regular basis.
A co-worker showed me the photo.
At that moment, my dad walks through the door.
He greets me and asks what brings me here.
I simply point to my bags.
He has this confused look on his face.
Then my mom blurts out and says that my wife is cheating.
My dad's eyes looked like they are bulging out of his head.
Then my mom says, trust me when I say she is cheating, my dad then says, WHAT?
Thanks everyone for reading.
I will be back with an update in a few weeks.
It's been a long day.
This story is called.
UPDATE.
My wife of 12 years was cheating, she was having threesomes on a weekly basis.
Well, you remember I told her to get out and she basically told me to go
to hell and wasn't leaving the house.
And I told her I was going to ruin her reputation.
I went to my parents' house who were shocked at why I wanted to come back home.
Since leaving the house, I haven't heard from my wife
and I didn't reach out to her.
It's been a few weeks since I left.
So in the meantime I have been gathering information and the pictures
I have, I plan to email them to her parents, friends and her part-time job.
While at work one day I was on break.
My coworker came up to me and showed me another picture of my wife.
But she isn't with the guy she is normally with.
He found her on two other sites.
He told me to go ahead and take the photo.
I looked up at him kind of confused why he would say that.
He looked at me and said, I know you are not staying with her.
Please tell me you are not.
I told him I planned to ruin her reputation.
He says he can help with that.
I told him, thanks.
But I think I can manage it.
He then tells me, make sure you do it on a large scale.
After chatting with him, I went back to my office and called a few lawyers.
I made an appointment to go see a lawyer.
I told the lawyer I wanted to file for divorce because I found
out my wife was cheating on me.
He then asked me, do I have any proof she cheated?
Here in Maine, we can file for irreconcilable differences.
Cheating is one of them.
He says, does she work?
I told him, yes, she does.
She's a part-time travel agent and I work for a tech firm.
He then asks me, what am I looking for out of the divorce?
I told him, I don't want to give her a dime of my money.
I don't want to give her alimony.
He asked me if I talked to her, I told him I haven't talked to her
in three weeks, no texts or calls.
At that moment, I just wrote him a check and told them to go ahead and file.
He says he will get right on it.
My attorney then tells me that she will be served soon after filing, after
leaving the attorney's office, went back to my parents' place, started gathering
emails and her contact information I had.
Then I thought about what my coworker said.
So the next day at work, I decided to enlist his help in ruining her reputation.
When I met him on my break, he indicated that his friends said,
they don't see my wife anymore.
He said she just stopped coming to his place.
He then says, he can post her photo on a few sites and send
them to all of her friends.
I told him what I planned to do starting this evening after work.
So we both picked the time to start posting this information
online and blasting emails.
So that night when I got home, I started sending emails with the pictures of
my soon to be ex-wife with those men.
And my coworker also made a profile of her on the same dating site she was on.
And her username was, "CHEATED ON MY HUSBAND", after all of that, I
expected to get a bunch of calls and texts from her, but I didn't.
So as the weeks go by, still nothing.
So one day at work, I get a call from my attorney.
He says she has been served.
So now I am just waiting for the hearing.
I left work, went to my parents.
I was on the couch, watching TV with my DAD.
When there was a knock on the door, my dad looks at me and
says, are you expecting anyone?
I said, no, I wasn't.
I opened the door.
It was my soon to be ex-wife.
She has been crying and she looks at me and says, I never meant to hurt you.
She then tells me she is leaving, pulls out the keys to the house
and tells me I can have it.
And walks away while wiping away tears.
I am shocked.
And I look at my dad, he then says, what's wrong?
I told him, she said she was leaving and told me I could have the house.
After that, I told my mom.
And she said that was rather odd.
And yes it was, but I didn't think about it anymore.
So as the divorce hearing nears, I start making plans to move back into my house.
I went to the house and noticed she took almost all of the furniture.
I really didn't care because I can replace it.
The day of the divorce hearing.
She didn't even show up.
It was quick and swift.
I received a text about a month after the divorce from my ex wife, asking
how I was doing, I didn't respond.
She kept texting me, letting me know how she was doing.
I didn't respond.
After leaving work that day, I bought a new phone and changed my number.
And only gave it to my mom and dad.
I am still in shock after everything that happened, but I had to move on quickly
for my mental health and wellbeing.
We were married for 12 years and I didn't see any of this coming.
I only saw this because of a damn picture from a coworker.
What were the odds the woman that was having threesomes on
a weekly basis was my wife.
Anyway, I want to thank everyone in this forum for their support.
I am thinking about dating, but I don't think my mental
health is ready for that yet.